The rest of this is an old profile. It's still mostly applicable, so I'm leaving it here.
And if you've tried to initiate contact before and I fell out of touch, sorry. Just try again. (Or don't. I don't care which.)
I am a passionate and compassionate thinker with an anything-is-possible attitude towards life and a long-standing love affair with power exchange and kinks of all kinds.
I marked "Dominant" but it would be more accurate to call myself a gender-based switch-- I feel Dominant towards men, but submissive towards women. However, the bulk of my experience is from a Dominant position, and I would categorize myself a lifestyle Dominant.
Additionally, I'm Wiccan and Queer-- a friendly, spiritual, artistic, and introspective person who enjoys exercising control within continuing D/s relationships. I engage in casual play only occasionally and am NOT seeking any submissives for casual play. I am open to new D/s relationships that are allowed proper time to develop. I am also open to friendships, conversation, and questions.
My main interests are enslavement & ownership, slave behavior & psychology, extreme power exchange, power & control in general, discipline & training, health, spirituality in D/s, sexuality and arousal, and sexual kinks of all kinds. I don't consider myself "experienced in bdsm", but I have kept submissives in various degrees of power exchange for about eight years. I do not practice monogamy.
Copied below is the profile text I used for another website, so it's not exactly bdsm-specific; if you'd like to know more about me, or just want to talk about a common interest, feel free to message.
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My biggest priorities in life right now are caring for & optimizing my health, finding a place of absolute honesty, and focusing my thoughts to manifest positively at all times.
I'm kind of a loner, but I'm really friendly. An open book, but one who doesn't volunteer information unless asked. Despite an unfortunate tendency to act like an a**hole sometimes... often, even... I'm deeply caring. I love people and all the differences between them. I have a very broad range of interests, and I adore the daring and the unusual. Extremes don't frighten me... I'm very much into exploring the darker side of human nature. I feel it's a means to attain balance.
I'm very spiritual, even a little on the religious side. (Wiccan.) I'm a seeker, I'm always trying to learn, see, expand my mind and expand my self. I'm very women-oriented, a feminist who believes in healing the masculine, our men, and people of all genders...particularly through the healing of our sexualities.
What else? I'm a hippy. Open-minded. Curious. Passionate. I'd like to think I'm a gentleman. And a rebel, and an artist. I want to be a little of everything that's beautiful before I'm done here on earth. I believe in magick, I believe in dreams, in beauty, and above all in the power of Love. Making me, I suppose, a bit of an idealist, but I happen to think idealism is just getting realistic. Needless to say, I hope I never grow up.