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SadistWithCane

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Time for a profile update. Intelligent, articulate, experienced Dominant seeks others with similar tastes. Looking for a lady that has the desire and need to submit Is this something that has happened to you before, either recently or earlier in life with previous partners?, Maybe you are just starting out and have fantasised about this but never found the courage to go through with it? Does the idea of having to strip naked in front of a stranger prior to punishment excite you? You may be single or attached. I can be very discrete - but if you have a partner that knows, even encourages you or wants to watch, that is fine also. As long as I don't get some 20 stone jealous lunatic banging on my door everything else is cool! I have a well developed (if corny) sense of humour allied with a deep, dark, vivid imagination that I like to exercise. I like control, humiliation and I like to take my time to get to know someone well. I am also interested in your fantasies and hidden desires as well as my own. Is this something you can just not discuss with family and friends? Well you can talk to me. Maybe it will just be a chance to talk or possibly it will go further? I particularly like intelligent conversation. I currently live alone with my own place in Kent, so finding 'space' to live out your fantasies is not going to be a problem. No awkward meetings in hotel bars and wondering what can be heard by people in adjacent rooms. I consider myself a 'good guy' and an imaginative sadist all rolled into one. Yes! the combination of the two in one person is possible. As a general rule I like my meat cooked and use a knife and fork. I don't rip raw flesh from the bone and make terrible grunting noises (except on special occasions.) I do particularly like the cane amongst my collection of 'implements of destruction'. That does not mean we can't be civilised. I am polite and have been known to hold the door open for ladies. I know it's a little old fashioned these days but what the heck! If you contact me I may well open the door for you - will you be brave enough to come in? I am also interested in the cuckold dynamic, so replies from cuckold couples and sub/sub couples welcome. I like to use, abuse & humiliate a woman and force her partner to watch. In the right specific circumstances Dominating and punishing a couple is of interest but please no replies from single submissive men. I am heterosexual so no direct male male sexuality. If you are a couple, please only contact me AFTER you have discussed it with your partner and established you BOTH want this. Happy talking to Dom/sub couples where she is submissive and maybe they want to add an additional element into their lives. Also pleased to share intelligent conversation and swap ideas with fellow Dominant types. I came out of a long term relationship about a year ago, which gives me opportunities to pick up my old lifestyle. When you learn to cane a bottom you never forget. I am not looking to go right back into a committed relationship straight away but don't rule that out in the future. People searching for their 'one and only', should probably move on to the next profile. I like the idea of 'casual anonymous encounters' (what man doesn't) I would prefer someone looking for a casual, semi regular arrangement and not just one night. I will listen to EVERYONE! Unlike some of the submissive women on this site, I am unlikely to get bombarded with messages. That means if you take the time to write to me YOU WILL GET A REPLY!"
4/14/2018 3:32:41 AM
Just had a SLIGHTLY annoying experience.

Some time ago, I found a profile I quite liked but to the best of my memory never spoke with her.  She was actually the female half of a cuckold couple, which is an interest of mine. 

The reason I did not write, was that the circumstances in my life at that time,  meant it was never practical it was ever going to go past chatting. CIRCUMSTANCES DO CHANGE - in time.

I did apparently add her to my favourites list,  I didn't know I had one and the list is made up of one entry.  On that basis,  having a favourites list is a little pointless really.

My profile at that point was totally out of date but had not got around to editing it, a task now completed.

I saw her online and decided to send her a polite message.

Spent an hour or so putting together a polite detailed response to find she had blocked me.  I imagine she had seen my profile and either we were not a good match in her opinion or realised my circumstances.

I wonder if she would have been interested in what I wrote, if she had read it?

THAT'S ANOTHER HOUR OF MY LIFE WASTED - I will not get back.

Every time you slam a door shut, you restrict your options.  You may just be banishing an obvious time waster (of which I understand there are a quite a few here.) You are closing a door, not knowing where it may lead of course.

I do hope the text problems with this site recently will not make this entry a garbled mess - Ho-HUM!
bossysunshinegir
 
 Age: 47
 Garland, Texas