Its really disappointing, Ive been here trying to find a domme to explore my submissivness, and be a the sub im meant to be, but unfortunately EVERY dom on here has some sort of complez to either assume your fake, be a total ass, or require money. Why happened to actually pursuing relationships that are actually cohesive, rather than just financially. As a submissive male, its impossible to find an owner solely because everyone is in it for the money, rather the actually spirit of a D/s relationship. Absolutely pathetic in my opinion, they just spoil bdsm for everyone for personal gain; granted bdsm is really one sided but not totally a sub/slave still gains by being where they want to be, but its a relationship regardless of how you look at it, so grow up and treat it like one.

Seriously, it really seems like most dominants are on here for money, and thats it. They demand a tribute to avoid fakers and time wasters, but that isn't the only way to separate the black sheep. Personally, I don't mind supporting another because I care about them and we have developed a mutual relationship, but I'm not going to give a stranger money or buy them something just because they asked for it. It takes two to tango Domme's, get to know people before you ask for their money, regardless of how you feel about Domination or Findom, its just being a golddigger if your being that emotionless towards someone who doesn't even HAVE to give you anything.

I find it very difficult to make worthwhile connections on here, but again, what is to be expected on here? I love the D/s lifestyle and want to be involved in one as well, but it seems like most Dom/me's are either purely a Findom/me, (which is to emotionless for me), or are to prideful to give anyone a chance or attempt to make a connection. Even finding friends on here seems to be difficult. But, I try to be optimistic, so I'll keep my chin up!

I hope to hear from some real Dom/mes one day!