This is a new profile, but I’m not new to the life. I’m a mature, large dominant woman -- over 50 yo. I’m not looking for a life partner via this website. I am looking for play partners who love submission, not just the fantasy of doing so. If you are conflicted about your submission, don’t waste my time by responding to this profile.

I am seeking submissive males, preferably Black men, who have a predilection for groveling and accepting pain play. I’m not disinterested in your wants and needs, and know the need for consent and negotiation. That being said, once the games begin, it really is about what I want to do. If you are prone to pouting and whining about your needs, go to the next profile. That one may be better suited to pamper you. I’m not the one.

If you have an aversion to taking a thick dildo or fist up your ass, go to the next profile. Not seeking a full-time relationship or to necessarily collar or own a submissive. At this time, I prefer a few partners for regularly scheduled play that includes indulging my penchant for sadism and even an occasional multiple party scene. Of course this would be fully disclosed and negotiated, but I divulge it now for your consideration. If you think you can turn me, please don’t respond to this profile. Have I submitted? Yes, but you’re not the one to whom I’d bow a knee.

Don’t expect me to prance around in heels and corsets to satisfy your fantasies or fetishes. They may look better on me, but will be more comfortable on you. I prefer being flat-footed and steady to deliver a strong paddling or flogging, etc.

My schedule is full and my vanilla life takes a lot of my time and patience. If you are looking to be amused and entertained, please don’t respond to this profile. I know what I want, and babysitting a grown man isn’t close.

Now, if you are able to hold a strong conversation, have some degree of intellect and can engage in play that interests me, please do contact me with a strong introductory email. Please tell me something substantial about yourself that might make me consider you. I want to know the truth, and plenty of information, so take advantage of the opportunity to deliver it.

If I am interested, I will respond within a reasonable time. Please do not hound me with repetitive, whining communiqués about how eager you are or how sad you are that I didn’t respond. If I don’t respond, it is not because I need convincing. It is because you didn’t seize the opportunity to convince me that you are a good candidate for sharing my time. Hint: I will tell you if I want a photo. I will also send you one if I think it is warranted. Don't ask.