*****UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE******

AUGUST 3, 2012

I have finally been honest with Myself and come to the realization I am probably looking for the wrong type of sub. I have admitted to Myself that I am a Sadist and I need a pain slut. I had a pain slut once before for a little over a year and I miss the administration of pain, the welts, the torture, the redness of ripe white flesh as it gets more and more tortured. WOW, I can't believe I just typed all that! I have never acknowledged this to anyone before, and now the whole B/D S/M community will know. The following is still accurate though.

looking for committed sub/slave for online/email/phone/rl relationship; limits can be negotiated after W/we have decided W/we are compatible/interested with each other.

I have not had sex in over 2 years so, if you are interested, be prepared to SEVERELY molested. I am not a game player, but rather a serious looker. I have so much love and affection to give to someone who wants/appreciates/craves it that I am bursting at the seams. If you take into consideration that I have been married to the same woman for 30+ years, I must not be too bad a guy.

*BIG BREATH* ok, here goes. I am 54, and have been married to a woman 15 years older than Me for almost 34 years. My wife is in poor health, diagnosed with congestive heart failure, and has told Me she is in no way interested in sex or affection or play in any form any longer. I have promised My wife I will take care of her, support her, see to her needs until the day she dies. I intend to keep that promise.

That said, and if you are not put off by now, I am looking for a relationship that can be online, phone, email, even occasional meetings as My job requires Me to travel.

I have been in the lifestyle for about 8 years now. I have a limited amount of R/T experience, but I DO have some.

I believe all things are possible with time, and given time I believe you will find Me to be a generous, caring, loving, strict, demanding, stern Master, Owner, Dom, (fun) guy to hang out with...... sorry I got carried away there. I know there are a lot of women who will not get this far because I am married, but hey, at least I am telling you upfront instead of springing it on you after W/we have hit it off.

As for you gay guys whom I have heard from, and any who might wish to contact Me, I am just not wired that way. you do Me honor by your interest and I thank you. I will not respond to your mail however.

If you are between the ages of 25 and 60 and are not responsible for children living at home and for SOME unknown reason still interested in what you see, please contact Me for further dialog.

If you are a green eyed red head you are a front runner in My book as I have a terrible weakness for such. Natural color only, not from a bottle. If you are nipple/bellybutton/clitoris pierced, or willing to become such, you are two steps up on the competition. Now comes the unfair part: Yes I am a LARGE Man. I AM working on that. Having said that, I am not into LARGE ladies. (what is known as BBW) Some extra loving handles are ok to a degree, but that's it. I am not into tattoos but agree that a couple of strategically placed, tasteful tats can be quite erotic.

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