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I look for one who yearns for something meaningful, real and lasting free of all the doubts, uncertainties, requirements, burdens and constraints associated with vanilla life and society…. To know the totality and absoluteness; the heartfelt reality of being owned by, belonging to, being and living for one without thought, care of concern of any other. The actual pride and confidence – comfort, reassurance; the meaningfulness - sense of purpose and belonging in knowing you will never again stand, act, move alone in life - be faced with any choices or decisions to hinder or distract you from your true place, purpose, role in life.
I know what I like, need and enjoy. I know what is needed; the requirements and responsibilities that are entailed. I know how to make what I like and enjoy a sustainable reality of life. I know my abilities/capabilities, what can be attained and how to attain such as well as the limits and limitations. I enjoy the state of mind/being that comes with one being taken out of and away from, that the ‘known’ life and world no longer has any relevance. There are few places I can and will not travel to take possession of mine. There is no one size (within reason) race, color, creed I look for and enjoy. Other than one’s mind, body – heart (?) there is little else I need from one. And no; this is a real life commitment and mine will not have outside employment.
The compelling rightness, pleasures and rewards as well as the responsibilities of the M/s – BDSM life has been with me most of my life. I enjoy more than a few traditional/vanilla activities; am well known in some circles, maintain a ‘low profile’ in many. I know and associate with; but I have not had a serious vanilla relationship for twenty years, I rarely ‘date’ vanilla ~ smiles, not for a lack of the willing. Never married and no children. I have maintained an openly M/s BDSM household for ten years both abroad and here. My homes are BDSM friendly – more than actually; BDSM are real parts of day to day life. I have two slaves who have long and do depend on me.
I am healthy and in better shape/condition than most half my age. I hold three degrees. I have been and are successful in life. Other than over the counter I do not use drugs – drink that much or often. Swift discipline – yes; but, I do not yell, scream, throw temper tantrums or fits of rage. I enjoy enjoying life and do so with few constraints.
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