Limits?

Partnering with the right individual, we may find that our imaginations and physical limits are but an illusion. Want to see?

I'm retirement age, but in decent physical shape – 6' & 165lbs.

Bluntly, I am a hedonist – in all the various definitions and implications. I enjoy creating sensual situations where intense sensual pleasure is the result.

Up front, I am a switch. This is NOT a dom/sub thing, but rather a give and receive thing. I greatly enjoy giving intense pleasure to my partner. Once that giving is finished, I enjoy receiving the same sorts of intense pleasure from my partner. So, using this definition, you too must be a switch and fully capable of giving as well as receiving. To be absolutely clear, we are NOT talking about a one-way street in this context.

I enjoy extended sessions of sexual tease and orgasm denial. I enjoy wearing clothing that constricts the flesh while focusing sensations. I love sensory deprivation that shifts to sensory overload, rinse and repeat for hours of fun. Bondage that inhibits movement and provides unrestricted access always enhances play. Accoutrements that intensify the deprivation and overload experience might include, blindfolds, collars, hoods, cuffs, arm binders, gags and other assorted toys and tools that support making you into a helpless object to be played to the edge of your tolerance for intense pleasure.

Specific role-play situations and other psychological techniques are always open to negotiation and agreement, but in general I prefer situations where equals are providing sensual pleasure for their partner without emotional baggage.

Whatever your kinks are that create pleasure for you , they're OK. Let's see how we can incorporate them into our play.

I've a long-held fantasy of being 'forced' to repeated orgasms without any ability to resist. Over the 40+ years I've been interested in erotic electrical play, I've developed and refined a technique that, when applied to the genitals, 'forces' a male orgasm that cannot be resisted. You WILL have an orgasm no matter how you wish to not. And then, because we've negotiated and agreed, I'll force you to a second and then a third – all within two to four hours of playtime. Can you take the pleasure?

My greatest desire is to develop a long-term relationship where we 'click' in the vanilla sense, enjoying conversation, music, cooking, and just hanging out. And then add into that friendship the spice of hedonistic play and mutual pleasure... Perhaps we can create our own shared Shangri-la?

Okay – here's the caveats. No drama. Period. Full stop. I do not do drama. I identify as bi-sexual and I'll suck a cock, but beyond that... we'll talk. I cannot host. I cannot abide married and sneaking. I am 420 friendly as an 'enhancement', but do not abide excesses of alcohol and other more esoteric stimulants. Safe and sane is my watchword and must be yours also. Body types... sucks to have to exclude certain ones, but slim is a requirement. Can't wrap my mind around folks that carry too much excess poundage. Sorry.

The rest? I'm open to all variations as long as we're both sane and consensual.