What is slavery?

Slavery is not about suffering . . .
. . . slavery is about service.
Slavery is not about humiliation . . .
. . . slavery is about humility.
Slavery is not about pain . . .
. . . slavery is about being present.
Slavery is not about being used . . .
. . . slavery is about being of use.
Slavery is not about control . . .
. . . slavery is about letting go.
Slavery is not about your desires . . .
. . . slavery is about giving to others.
Slavery is not about abuse . . .
. . . slavery is about acceptance.

Slavery is not about proving anything . . .
. . . slavery is about being real.
Slavery is not about contempt . . .
. . . slavery is about respect.
Slavery is not about how you look . . .
. . . slavery is about how you care.
Slavery is not about denying yourself . . .
. . . slavery is about being open.
Slavery is not about punishment . . .
. . . slavery is about discipline.

Slavery is not about escape . . .
. . . slavery is about being committed.

Slavery is not about submission . . .
. . . slavery is about obedience.
Slavery is not about fear . . .
. . . slavery is about trust.

Slavery is not about sex . . .
. . . slavery is about love.
Slavery is not about pleasure . . .
. . . slavery is about happiness.

The D/s Relationship

Balance – a letter from a friend

Dear Friends,

            There’s this “thing” out there, called BALANCE meaning more than just equal shares of stuff.  Do you remember the fun childhood game where one person grabs the hands of another, and begins to turn in circles, spinning their partner around in the air, turning faster and faster?  Can you remember the heady “high” of being the one spun?  And how much fun (and how appropriate) it was to take turns at it?  Now imagine two skaters dancing on the ice, or two ballroom dancers, or synchronized yachtsmen, or acrobats high above the ground.  These are COUPLES who have learned the fine art of BALANCE.  All couples, actively engaged in the togetherness aspect of any endeavor, have this opportunity to BALANCE, with each partner being responsible for the stable foundation from which the other partner can swing, or fly, or even ascend to new heady heights of anything at all.  Whatever it is that is done together requires a basic understanding and agreement of what it is that is happening.  It is not about blindly agreeing to abandon reason, common sense or even basic sensibility to follow an “order”.

            So perhaps the question to ask yourself is, “Why does the idea of abandoning all control and submitting myself blindly to another no matter what, turn me on so much?”  The answer to that question will serve to teach you a lot about yourself, the issue being not about what you will or will not do, but about who you are and how well you know yourself and the person you are most intimately involved with.

            Many of you are seeking thrills and danger, calling it “edge play” by some.  It is not always about how brave or stupid you are willing to be, but about how genuinely open and vulnerable to another you are willing to allow yourself to be.  It is not about how much you will allow another to “take” from you, but about how much of yourself you are able to give “unconditionally” to another.

            This leads to another really loaded word, unconditionally.  Unconditional doesn’t mean the willingness to blindly follow orders, but rather, to choose to give without the expectation of acceptance or return, or the fear of rejection and disapproval.  When you can truly open yourself enough to allow someone else to become the most important part of your life, the rest becomes very easy.  Devotion is the result.

            Maintaining complex relationships require a great deal of strength by both or all parties, and relationships that explore extremes at any level are complex ones.  Sometimes strength is seen as power, but most often, power is what happens when the strength of one is exerted upon another.  For a relationship to survive the test of time, the strength required of the partners must be equal, sometimes transferred, loaned and borrowed, but always equal.  The most valuable asset that can come from this particular relationship strength is the “devotion” of each to the other.

THIS LETTER WAS FIRST PRESENTED IN THE JANUARY 1999 ISSUE OF THE APEX NEWSLETTER.

So You Want To Be A Slave: The Realities
By miria hunter
miria_hunter@softhome.net

I decided to write this article because I have seen so many submissives come into the lifestyle expecting everything to be dream-like and perfect. I don't wish to ruin anyone's dreams, or turn them from the activity, but what I wish to do is to explain how things really are. Being a slave can be, and is for me, a wonderful life. It's everything I wanted it to be. It is also more than I ever expected, and had someone explained the realities to me prior to my decision, it would have made my transition so much easier. For the purpose of this article, I am addressing issues related to being a 24/7 slave. These comments are from my viewpoint, which is that of a female slave with a male Master. By no means do I wish to exclude Domme's or male slaves. For them, I cannot comment from personal experience. This is just my view from a real-time experience.

First, there are a few things you need to discover for and about yourself. Do you wish to be in this type relationship 24/7? Perhaps you only wish to be in it during the scenes. Maybe you want to role-play at only during certain times. There are many ways this activity can be done, but you have to figure out what is right for you.

Second, you need to learn to be honest with yourself. Figure out what you will and will not do, and what is a "maybe". Search inside yourself for what you really want, and when you find it, be honest to anyone you talk to. Don't agree to something long-term that you know you will not be able accomplish. Ask yourself some hard questions. The rest of this article will give you aspects to contemplate so you can base your decisions on reality, and not someone else's dreams of how it should be.

Are you prepared to surrender 100% control of your life to someone else? 24/7 slaves do this. Role-playing would mean entering into this relationship only for the time agreed upon that the Master would have the total control. Once the scene is over, everything returns to normal.

Do you enjoy country music? Maybe you love Rock and Roll. Consider this. The Master who's collar you will eventually wear, may only like classical or another type of music that you don't enjoy. Are you prepared to give up those selections and only listen to His music? This type sacrifice can apply to many other things you currently enjoy. For myself, I love old love songs of any type, and my Master is into Hard Rock. Because of His preferences, I rarely get to listen to my songs. But, when I am a good girl, at times, He does permit me to listen to my choice of music, as long as I get my assigned tasks and chores done. Note, I said, "permitted to". Something as simple as listening to the radio is a reward for me. It is not a given that you will be permitted to enjoy even this little pleasure whenever you wish. These limitations can apply to many areas of your life such as TV, choices of food or friends, just about anywhere anything! Is there a certain style of clothes you love? Certain colors and scents you wouldn't be caught without? If your Master doesn't approve of them, you may be wearing a totally different style with colors you never would have dreamed of. He may lay your clothes out for you every morning. Are you prepared to abide happily by His choices? If He asked you to wear something very skimpy to someplace simple like the grocery store, could you do this without hesitation? I am lucky in the fact that my Master lets me chose my own clothes most of the time. But at anytime, should He decide that He wants me to wear something else, I am to change immediately. Trust me, He does exercise this right. I have learned to always ask Him what He would like me to wear if we are going someplace special.

Are you prepared to change your hairstyle, length, or color to please your Master? All of these will belong to Him once you accept your collar as will everything else that once belonged to you. You will no longer own anything. From the time you take His collar, everything will be His. It will no longer be "your" car or "your" clothes, but "His", on loan to you as He sees fit. If He should so choose, you will not be permitted to wear clothes at all. This will be HIS choice, not yours.

Remember, you will have given up all rights to make these choices for yourself.

You have a favorite chair, or a certain way you like to sit or walk? Your Master will decide whether you sit on furniture or on the floor. He will have the say if you are to cross your legs, or sit with them spread wide-open. You will have to ask permission to even climb into bed, or sit on a chair. Most slaves are allowed a cushion on the floor that they do not need permission to sit upon, but very little else. You will even need permission to eat at the table with your Master.

It's been a long hard day at work. You get home and want nothing more than to relax in a tub and go to bed early. Well, you won't be able to. Being tired, ill, or just in a bad mood does not excuse you from your required tasks. You are still required to do them: prepare His meal, and go to bed when HE tells you to. Retiring for bed usually occurs at a set time, even if you are not ready to go. There will not be an "I am too tired" or "I don't feel well": nothing of the kind. Unless your Master has excused you from your tasks and chores, you will remain responsible for making sure His needs and wants are filled: no matter what. It is your job to inform your Master of your physical health status. One of your main jobs will be to take care of and protect, His possessions. You being are the most prized one He owns. As long as you let your Master know how you are feeling, He will make sure that your tasks will be appropriate to your capabilities.

Many come into this lifestyle looking to be used sexually, to service their Master at His whim. They never consider other aspects. The main part of being a slave is to be of service to your Master, and not to be serviced for yourself. However, being readily available to Him at ALL times is also an unspoken expectation. The old excuse "not tonight dear, I have a headache" doesn't work in a D/s relationship. In order to provide Him pleasure, you must also express to Him the pleasure of the moment for you as well. NEVER make your Master feel this is a chore to you: something you would rather not do, but will only because you have to. If your Master tells you to do something, it will not be up to you to question Him. You will be required to respond with no questions asked. At a later time (if this is permitted in your relationship), you may ask Him for permission to speak on an equal level. If He gives permission, this will be your opportunity to ask your questions. However, it is important to ask in a way so as not to question His authority, but at the same time to satisfy your curiosity.

Do you feel being a slave is to be coerced: forced into servitude? Do you think you couldn't do this unless you were? Then think again. Slaves enter into this relationship of their own free will. This is not the day of forced slavery; it is a matter of choice. YOURS! You are the one who will decide to give over your power to your Master. You will be doing this, not because you are forced to obey, but because you need to. Yes, during the course of your relationship there will be times you will be forced to do something, but it will never be something that goes against who you are. Your Master may feel obeying this command will help you to grow into the best person you can be, or will help you break out of an inhibition you have.

How is your temper? Are you quick to fly off-of-the-handle when you are upset? Or are you laid back, accepting anything and everything, and then go off to sulk because your feelings were hurt? A Master does not wish to have a doormat for a slave nor does He desire to be told how things should be. Learning when and how to say things will become very important in your relationship. If you do not tell your Master when something is bothering you, then you have no right whatsoever to become upset. However wonderful and omnipotent He may seem, He is not a mind reader: unless you tell Him, He won't know. The key, as I said a moment ago, is in how you tell Him. 
 

Your self-discipline is very important in this relationship. Do you tend to put things off until the last possible moment? You won't be able to do this when you are owned. There will be chores and tasks your Master will assign that He expects to be done in a timely fashion set by Him, not by you. Your Master's wants and needs will be put before your own. Self-discipline is similar to self-control. Your ability to follow complete assignments made by your Master will be very important. As a slave, you will need to be able to control your own actions well enough to be able to remain within the boundaries set for you by Him. If He says you can't do something, simply, you can't. Doing it anyway, and not telling Him doesn't make it right. In the case of a Master/slave relationship, what you don't know CAN hurt you, as well as the relationship you have worked so hard to build. Even a simple "white lie" can destroy the trust so necessary to really establish this type relationship.

As to wants and needs of your own: do you know the difference between the two? If not, I strongly recommend you figure them out before entering into servitude. Sometimes the two are hard to distinguish, but it will become important that you do so. Your Master will ensure all your "needs" are taken care of, but the "wants" will be His to allow or not, as He sees fit. Needs are the necessities of life that are required in order for us to remain mentally and physically healthy. They allow us to grow emotionally and spiritually. If you can survive without something, then it is a want. Wants are usually given as a reward for good behavior.

In order to be a slave, there will be many things you have to learn to accept within yourself and adapt to. Your primary purpose in life will be to see to your Masters pleasure (both mentally and physically) in any manner He should desire. In order to do this, you will have to learn your Master well. Find out what pleases and displeases Him. By this, I do not mean just sexually. You will learn that sex is but a small part of your relationship. Learn to anticipate His every need and desire without being pushy. His needs and desires will encompass intellectual stimulation, physical pleasure, emotional support, and many other things unique to Him. Remember - physical does not equal sexual. Physical pleasure may include, but is not limited to, touch, favorite foods, textures, clothing, and colors as examples. It will be your job to make sure His physical pleasures are met in everyway. Think of the five senses, and make His environment pleasing to all of them. Never forget - the most pleasing thing in His environment should be you.

As His slave, it will be up to you to figure out what pleases your Master. He should not have to ask constantly for the basic things - you should have learned them. If His glass is empty, quietly and unobtrusively refill it. Remember, you are doing this for His pleasure not your own. Just because He does not notice and praise you doesn't mean you are doing it wrong. Look at His smile. Is He comfortable? If He looks happy and content, then you have done well, and should bask in His content. Always remember that you do this for Him and not for your own satisfaction. Your happiness should come from serving Him and His being happy.

As I said in the beginning of this article, I am not trying to scare you away from the world of D/s. My goal is to make sure that, when you enter our lifestyle, you do so with your eyes wide open, fully knowing what to expect. The road will not be an easy one. You will have to re-learn much of what you once took for granted: things you just did without thinking, like simply sitting in a chair. These are habits we never even think about anymore. That is, until we find a Master.

Everything else you learned before reading this article is probably true. Being a slave is a wonderful life: one where you are taken care of. Most decisions are out of your hands and in those of your Masters. But, many choices will still be left up to you. Most Masters want a slave who is smart, has a sense of humor, and a will of their own. There is no pleasure in owning a doormat who just sits or is only walked upon. He will become bored very fast. Being yourself is the best advice I was given, and I have found this to be absolutely true for me.

You will find being a slave everything you dreamed of and so much more if you enter this life knowing more of what to expect. If you are meant to be in the lifestyle, you will find that, where you were once only walked through life, you will be gliding on air. Parts of you that never were complete will then become whole. In relinquishing control, I have found freedom: freedom to find and be the person I am inside.

It is my hope that, after reading this article, you will be able to make a more informed choice about entering this lifestyle. Never forget that, one of the most important requirements for existing in this lifestyle is honesty. Honesty with yourself first. However, you will find that this is not as easy as it sounds. Once you learn to do this, you will find yourself at peace and able to enter your servitude with clearer mind, knowing where you are and where you want to be. When you accept your Masters collar, you give up all your rights. Your friends, your life - nothing will remain yours. Being a slave means giving up so much more than you would if you were only being submissive. You give up all rights in your life. Slave isn't just a word; it's a way of life, a defined action. Be well, my friend, and I hope you enjoy this lifestyle as much as I have come to love being in it.

Rick's miria

Copyright 2000 miria hunter

SM vs. Abuse

The following Principles and Guidelines are intended to help law enforcement and social services professionals understand the difference between abusive relationships vs. SM. SM is a complex group of behaviors between consenting adults involving the consensual exchange of power, and the giving and receiving of intense erotic sensation and/or mental discipline.

SM includes: "Intimate activities within the scope of consent that is freely given."

Abuse is: "Acts inflicted on a person without their freely given consent."

PRINCIPLES:

1. The SM-Leather-Fetish communities recognize the phrase "Safe, Sane, Consensual" as the best brief summary of principles guiding SM practices:

Safe is being knowledgeable about the techniques and safety concerns involved in what you are doing.

Sane is knowing the difference between fantasy and reality.

Consensual is respecting the limits imposed by each participant. One of the recognized ways to maintain limits is through a "safe word" which ensures the bottom/submissive can end the activity with a word or gesture.

GUIDELINES:

Consent must be judged by balancing the following criteria for each encounter at the time the acts occurred:

a) Was consent expressly denied or withdrawn?

b) Were there factors that negated the consent?

c) What is the relationship of the participants?

d) What was the nature of the activity?

e) What was the intent of the accused abuser?

Whether an individual’s SM role is top/dominant or bottom/submissive, they could be suffering abuse if they answer no to any of the following questions:

1. Are your needs and limits respected?

2. Is your relationship built on honesty, trust, and respect?

3. Are you able to express feelings of guilt or jealousy or unhappiness?

4. Can you function in everyday life?

5. Can you refuse to do illegal activities?

6. Can you insist on safe sex practices?

7. Does the relationship interfere with your interaction with family and friends?

8. Can you leave the situation without fearing that you will be harmed, or fearing the other participant(s) will harm themselves?

9. Can you exercise self-determination with money, employment, and life decisions?

10. Do you feel free to discuss your practices and feelings with anyone you choose?

The following resources can tell you more about safe, sane and consensual sexual expression:

Leather Leadership Conference

plus, any group who wants to sign onto the statement can insert their contact information here.

The following resources have been educated about safe, sane and consensual sexual expression and will not be judgmental about your lifestyle:

Gay and Lesbian Anti-Violence Project
Hotline: 212 807-0197
647 Hudson St.
New York, NY 10014

Kink Aware Professionals


The resource for people who are seeking psychotherapeutic, medical, dental, complementary healing, and legal professionals who are informed about the diversity of consensual, adult sexuality.

The Responsibilities and Duties of a Dom

Being Dominant/submissive is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role. It is a state of being and is totally asexual (neither male nor female)

First and foremost, a Dominant is always a Gentleman or Lady. There is no excuse for being impolite or rude to others. Save this for the submissive that needs and requires this of their Dominant.

Second, a Dominant must always be in control. Drugs, even alcohol, are mind and body controlling agents. They affect relationships and most importantly can affect a scene, therefore taking away the control the Dominant MUST have.

Third, a Dominant is always honest. To lie is to show you cannot be trusted and a submissive must be able to trust you to respect you. Every submissive knows that not every Dominant is super experienced and will respect you much more if you tell the truth. Be honest with a submissive about your level of experience with others and the submissive. The submissive can even help you to gain experience and is really an enjoyable learning process. Tell the submissive up-front if You do not wish a monogamous relationship. Most submissives understand and even expect this in a Dominant. You may not get "that" submissive but you will not loose her/his respect.

Fourth, a Dominant accepts responsibility for all his/her actions. Everyone makes mistakes. Do what is needed to make amends, and correct it. Accept and admit the fact that you messed up. To seek an excuse for something going wrong or hurting someone will cause you to lose respect.

Fifth, a Dominant expects but does not demand respect. No Dominant demands strangers to call him/her Master/Mistress. Respect is earned over time. Demanding Master/Mistress on your name means nothing and is a word that when not earned is meaningless and makes you to others appear to be a petty childish fool. Those that know you and respect you will call you Master or Mistress when you earn it, not before. Remember, to other Dominants you are not Their Master/Mistress you are their equal do not DEMAND them too ever call You that.

Sixth, a Dominant knows and understands the differences between needs, desires and wants. The submissive may want a 24/7 relationship with an understanding Dominant. The submissive may desire a short relationship with a crude rude person. The submissive may need a stable sharing marriage with children.

Duties of a DOM

It is the duty of a Dominant to control his/her emotions. To punish a submissive in anger or to lash out to anyone is abusive.

It is the duty of a Dominant to remember that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift.

It is the duty of a Dominant to watch over and protect all submissives. This does not mean to

protect them from finding some other Dominant and to keep them for oneself.

It is the duty of a Dominant to take only a submissive that will match him/her. A submissive that is not into whips should not belong to a Dominant that loves to whip submissives.

It is the Duty of a Dominant to take only the amount of submissives the DOM can properly handle, control, love, comfort and care for. Do not keep a submissive hanging, giving false hopes. Free and release the submissive so the submissive can get along with finding the right Dominant. 

It is the duty of a Dominant to watch and monitor the scene carefully and to ensure the submissive is not being harmed either physically or emotionally. At any time the slightest thing can go wrong and the scene is ruined for the submissive and pleasure becomes actual pain.

It is the duty of a Dominant after a scene to ensure the submissive is emotionally stable. During a scene the submissive is filled with hormones. Afterwards the body reduces them and may cause depression. he submissive must be made to understand the depression and or emotional release is normal and expected. Normal emotions will return in hours to a day. Anything longer is a sign of emotional instability in the submissive and must be corrected before doing another scene. (A Dominant can also experience this depression after a high from the scene.) Each reacts differently some stay high for weeks and when they come down seek the scene again to regain the high. This also can lead to problems such as longer, more intense and dangerous scenes, with unknown Dominants.

It is the duty of a Dominant to know and understand what the needs, desires and wants of a submissive are. Failure to do so may harm the submissive emotionally and mentally.

Responsibilities of a DOM

It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure an unowned submissive is guided to a Dominant that is suited to the submissive's wants, needs and desires.

It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive knows what being abusive is. To insure this is to insure the submissive knows when to call it quits.

It is the responsibility of a Dominant to ensure the submissive knows what the submissive's rights are.

It is the responsibility of a Dominant to teach the submissive information about the Lifestyle. The best method is to teach the submissive how to acquire this information and where he/she can get it. An ignorant submissive can be an embarrassment to a Dominant.

It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive grows and develops under the Dominant's ownership, in both the lifestyle and the public life (i.e., job and family). Being

submissive does not mean being a "doormat" when the submissive has made it clear what the submissive is looking for.

Dishonorable Acts

For a Dominant to allow a submissive to be actually harmed in ANY way is dishonorable.

For a Dominant to allow a submissive's rights to be violated is dishonorable.

For a Dominant to play with and discard a submissive just for amusement is dishonorable (exception is a submissive that has declared this is the treatment they need).

Unless the submissive has declared themselves to be un-owned, another Dominant's interference in a relationship is dishonorable.

To chase after or scene with Another's submissive without the other Dominant's permission and full knowledge is dishonorable.

No Dominant can be expected to live up to the above 100% of the time, others will respect him/her for trying and the harder she/he tries the more respect all will have for the Dominant and his/hers.

Written by:
LES IS MORE(m)
Copyright©1998

Take the slave vs sub-ME-ssive test! i dare You ;)

You are shaved always...don't even remember when the last time You had hair on your cunt even. He tells You to grow it back!

Do you...

A: Say..but but but...i like it bare! Please don't make me do that!

B: would think to yourself...Fuck this will suck! Yet she does NOT shave!

He walks in and You are busy in the kitchen preparing His meal. He says crawl to me.

Do you...

A: Say i am almost done can it wait a few more minutes?

B: Turn everything off and immediately get on all fours and crawl to Him?

He gave you a specific order..let's say you smoke and He denied You cigarettes that day. you smoked one while He was gone.

Do you...

A: Say fuck it He will never know!

B: The second He walks in inform Him of Your transgression.

You hate facials..it is Not a limit but the thought just makes you cringe. He informs you all night you will experience facials from Him.

Do you...

A: Glare at Him and say..the fuck i will!

B: Glare and say Yes Master..thank You. Showing fire is good when respectful.

you become whiny and needy. He ignores You even more.

Do you...

A: Continue to whine like a little bitch?

B: Give Him space and think about your actions Not His reaction.

He is informing you of what he expects of you that you feel is unfair.

Do you...

A: Interrupt Him and tell Him No because you feel he is wrong and you won't do it period!

B: Wait until He is finished speaking..take a breath to calm yourself...lol...the ask Him respectfully if You may give your thoughts to Him and also state that you know His decision is final and will respect that.

you give Him all Your hates list. The first thing He does is ensure You experience every fucking one of them!

Do you...

A: Hate Him for it and try with all your might to get out of them?

B: Say to yourself...Now, that's one hell of a fucking Dominant and admire Him even more!

Just a few questions and all basic ones. Now, if You answered A to any one of them you are a sub-ME-ssive.

If you answered B then you are a slave :)

All or nothing girls, period. If you got pissed off about this post...too bad! The truth hurts.

Also catch the key word.  i did Not say submissive i said sub-ME-ssive!

Which one are you? Don't whine if you never find a true Master for you have to be a true slave first!

"To be completely woman you need a Master, and in Him a compass for your life. You need a Man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone Him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long." Marlene Dietrich (1904-1992)

SLAVE KEEPHER’S Rules for the slave’s Journey
 
1) This slave will surrender herself to me, her Lord & Master, to his love unconditionally for this slave understands, accepts and embraces her role as a slave. This slave’s only thoughts will be to love and serve her Lord & Master and to make Him proud of her.

2) This slave will always respect her Lord & Master.

3) she will always serve and obey her Lord & Master’s commands fully.

4) This slave will always serve and obey her Lord & Master’s commands immediately without hesitation.

5) she will always serve and obey her Lord & Master’s commands silently, except for “Yes Sir”.

6) This slave will always address her Lord & Master as my Lord or by whatever title He chooses to specify.

7) This slave will never question the reasons behind her Lord & Master’s commands, for they are none of her concern.

8) she will speak only when her Lord & Master gives her permission to speak, and any Question(s) this slave may have regarding His commands, or the specifications of her assigned duties and tasks are to be questioned only in His presence and with his express permission.

9) This slave will always present herself nude in the presence of her Lord & Master unless otherwise directed.

10) This slave will dress in accordance with the whims and desires of her Lord & Master unless otherwise directed.  She will always dress to facilitate her Lord & Master’s access to his play toys, her tit sacs, cunt and asshole.  This slave is forbidden to wear panties or bra unless otherwise directed by her Lord & Master.  This slave will learn and practice bare bottom seating.  To facilitate this she will wear a flowing “A” line skirt (at her Lord & Master’s discretion) that will allow her to raise the rear of the skirt and sit bare-assed on any seating surface.

11) This slave will always keep her body clean, her appearance impeccable and groomed to her Lord & Master’s specifications ready for His use, pleasure and display.

SLAVE KEEPHER’S Rules for the slave’s Journey

13) This slave is not permitted to shave any hair below the eyes, particularly at her crotch, ass, and armpits or any other areas that grow pubic hair unless otherwise specifically directed by her Lord & Master.

14) she will always wear her Lord & Master’s collar, unless otherwise directed.

15) If this slave is permitted to be employed outside the living quarters, she shall be employed only as her Lord & Master directs and surrender to Him any and all proceeds from her labors.

16) This slave will always be relegated to three basic slave positions in the presence of her Lord & Master:

Position One:  After initially entering the presence of her Lord & Master she will always assume the kneeling/sitting position at the feet of her Lord & Master, with her head bowed, her hands clasped behind her.

Position Two:  When directed she will assume the K-9 crouching position next to her seated Lord & Master, on knees and elbows with ass and cunt exposed to Him for his petting pleasure.

Position Three:  At my Lord & Master’s command “Recover”, from position one or two, this slave will come to the “Rest Position – a standing position with this slave’s feet shoulder with apart, hands clasped behind her back and head bowed.

17) At anytime will this slave ever presume to sit on household furniture without the express permission of her Lord & Master.

18) This slave will never presume to enter the Lord & Master’s bed unless she has asked His express permission and that permission He has granted.

19) This slave’s bodily functions are to be completely controlled by her Lord & Master; to include his regulation of the frequency and the times she may be allowed to go or use the bathroom.

21) This slave will never smoke, drink alcohol, or take drugs without her Lord & Master’s express permission.

22) This slave will eat only those foods that are approved by her Lord & Master to include when and where this slave may eat.

SLAVE KEEPHER’S Rules for the slave’s Journey

20) This slave will always be available for her Lord & Master’s use, and pleasure, or for the use an pleasure of whomever HE shall command her to serve.

23) This slave will never harbor feelings of anger or resentment towards her Lord & Master and if such feelings should cross her consciousness, she shall immediately confess these feelings to Him and submit to whatever punishment He deems appropriate.

24) This slave will strive to never be an encumbrance to her Lord & Master or make Him uncomfortable by her presence.

25) I will submit willingly to whatever additional rules my MASTER may wish to impose, either now or at a later date

26) Because this slave’s body is the sole property of her Lord & Master, it is no longer her right to protest any use He chooses to assign it to. Rather it is an honor if He chooses to touch her at all.