I've learned a lot about myself over these last few months that I have been in the lifestyle. I originally thought of myself as a submissive, but as I've grown, I realized that this is about so much more than lables. I am definately a masochist, that much is certain, but I'm not sure how submissive I really am. I am interested in topping and I try to explore it at every opportunity. I'm still exploring this new world, but I've gotten my feet wet and I've found I enjoy it immensely.


I'm currently looking for someone with whom to explore the finer aspects of BDSM. Experience is nice, but I also enjoy talking to other newcomers.