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Abstract:
Dominant male looking for a female submissive that will be devoted spiritually and physically to her Master, as I am to her.
Retired professional white male, never married (by choice) with a sense of humor and creative mind; seeking an intelligent, open minded female for a Dominate-submissive relationship. I do not smoke, drink, am D&D free, never been in trouble with the law and would like the same in return. I am low keyed, easygoing and laid back, thoughtful and respectful with a solid reputation within the vanilla and D/s community. I’m just a average good guy with strong dominant beliefs in the role of the male and the willing subservient female that needs someone else to motivate their emotional, mental, sensual and physical needs.
I can be a strict task master but also caring, generous, loving, patient and under-standing at the same time. I expect exceptional service and such is rewarded or justified discipline as needed is merited out.
I have a wide variety of interests both within the life style and vanilla worlds. My experiences run from moderate to extensive and I am still growing as I learn. I am very active within the local BDSM communities (traveling to the Syracuse area often). Enjoy meeting new lifestyle individuals and attending events while enjoying the contrast between the public and D/s lifestyles. BDSM interests include a passion for bondage, electrical and fire play, flogging, single tails, humiliation, breast and other sexual tortures used for pleasure and stimulation (not all is mandatory).
"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone so strong that they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you."
So what am I looking for?
Sort term:
- I'm looking for a friend with benefits and I'm not just talking in the bedroom! Someone who can get together once or twice a month for dinner, lunch, whatever; a special friend to hang out with and laugh, flirt and just forget about all the day to day stuff.
- I am looking for a BDSM play partner(s) for occasional or formal meetings.
Long term:
- Find my long lost soul mate, someone I connect with that will develop into a true M/s relationship.
- I am also looking for new lifestyle friends for the exchange of ideas and information within the D/s and M/s lifestyle.
Summary:
If this is of interest; to share some safe and erotic fun; consider making contact to see if our interests are mutual. I welcome intelligent conversation with others that are sincere about the D/s and M/s lifestyles.
Special Notes:
I am protector of Copper located in the Rochester area
Picture is current as of September 2013
Do NOT contact me with unsolicited services or offers
![{#}]( "{#}")  "Pain (any pain--emotional, physical, and mental) has a message. The information it has about our life can be remarkably specific, but it usually falls into one of two categories: 'We would be more alive if we did more of this,' and, 'Life would be more lovely if we did less of that.' Once we get the pain's message, and follow its advice, the pain goes away." ~Peter McWilliams
![{#}]( "{#}") "Life is not to be wasted; rather it is to be savored. All experiences, good and bad, joyous and sorrowful, can be woven together into a rich tapestry reflecting the power of the ‘human experience.’" ~ unknown
![{#}]( "{#}")  Quotations for the Day:
"What happened yesterday is history. What happens tomorrow is a mystery. What we do today makes a difference - the precious present moment." ~ Nick Saban
"Determination, patience and courage are the only things needed to improve any situation." ~ Anonymous
"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are." ~Theodore Roosevelt
"There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness." ~ Carl Jung
"I am my best friend. I need to treat me with dignity and respect, and most importantly, I need to be compassionate with me. I need to accept me in whatever state and condition I am in." ~ Anonymous
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years." ~ Abraham Lincoln
"Balance, peace, and joy are the fruit of a successful life. It starts with recognizing your talents and finding ways to serve others by using them". ~ Thomas Kinkade
"The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love." ~ Hubert Humphrey
"The pleasantest things in the world are pleasant thoughts: and the great art of life is to have as many of them as possible". ~ Montaigne
Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed. ~Storm Jameson
"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing in at someone else -- You are the one who gets burned". ~ The Buddha"
"If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” ~The Dalai Lama
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“What do I seek from a D/s lifestyle?”
I seek a true natural submissive (moderate masochist) in every sense of the word; one who is looking for the "one" that can keep them under control, help them to achieve their full potential. The submissive should have an essential desire to please and serve their Master. At the same time the submissive will share not only the D/s lifestyle but also other vanilla interests for personal growth and enhancement. Someone who can mix with the vanilla with the BDSM worlds, with moderate masochist tendency; and is not intimidated by kneeling *when appropriate) would be an ideal candidate.
In return the submissive will be cherished, guided, protected and trained by a compassionate, patient yet firm Dominant who embraces the D/s lifestyle leaning towards an eventual M/s relationship. I am very stable and secure both emotionally and financially; believe in SSC concept, non-smoker, and drug free as well you should be too.
I am very interested in the mental and emotional connection as well as the physical connection, and enjoy the play as well as being with someone who understands what my needs are and wants the same. I'm looking for someone who wants all of me, not just my dominance. Someone who appreciates my sense of humor, can converse intelligently with me, but enjoys my own brand of sarcastic humor for what it is.
Above all, I live for the power exchange with an eventual lifetime partner. Is there anyone out there with similar desires? |
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“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal"
(From a headstone in Ireland)
My wonderful jewel passed away unexpectedly on September 09, 2012 and will be deeply missed by many people in and out of the life style. Jewel was a carrying, compassionate, intelligent, loving and strong women who had a hard life till we meet. We had a strong and wonderful D/s relationship for over five years; she was my soul-mate, an outstanding submissive and friend. Please keep her in your prayers. |
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“There is only one sort of discipline, perfect discipline.” - George S. Patton - |
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"There's something to be said about a woman who likes to be tied up and held down... But with that gag in her mouth she won't be saying it." ~Semaj Terag Palc |
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"Life is not to be wasted; rather it is to be savored. All experiences, good and bad, joyous and sorrowful, can be woven together into a rich tapestry reflecting the power of the ‘human experience.’" ~ Sir001 |
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As I look back on my 60+ years of living, I see that those times when I suffered most were also those times I experienced the most emotional and spiritual growth. Knowing that may make today just that much easier to bear; after all, your loss has made you keenly aware of the value of living, and sharing your life with those you love. You are changing, growing, learning; and perhaps this mantra will help you pass next 24 hours with greater comfort. “I will grow today as a person. I may not grow but I will be something today that I was not yesterday.” |
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I wish people living in New York State outside of the City, would refrain from using "Upstate". Upstate covers any part of the state outside of New York City proper. Just pick a near by city for a general geographic location, and refrain from using so ambiguous location as upstate. |
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"Life is too short and too interesting to be bothered with the inane and unimportant so just focus on what is important and put the rest into perspective". (unknown) |
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| Age: 32 |
| Washington,
Maryland |
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