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| Like many, many others, I have felt drawn to BDSM and the "darker side" of human sexuality for years. Looking for a LTR with a dominant woman...a woman who has a FULL life outside of BDSM and for whom BDSM is a frequent and delicious "escape" or "hobby" vs. a full time all-consuming activity.
Job, taxes, family, community etc etc.
I'm a relationship sub/maso. And kinky but also monogamous. I'm not really into BDSM as a ' fun lifestyle thing' (munches, pagentry, 'play parties', that sort of thing) although I have attended in events in the past, and may do so again. Still, to be clear, yes, definitely I am into BDSM on a day-to-day basis within a RELATIONSHIP.
I am very secure in who I am - could not care less what others think in regards to my sexuality and don't lose sleep over it or wonder if I am a "bad" person, etc. I continue to seek a SECURE partner who shares this interest. ONE. (me bottom; Her Top)
I am not interested in BDSM as a convenient framework to excuse abuse, lack of responsibility or sloppy emotional investment in others. If you are, we won't have much in common.
The CONSENSUAL power exchange in BDSM is what interests me - the tension and back-and-forth between trust fear, power control, pain pleasure. I find CONSENSUAL ritualization of sex within this exchange incredibly erotic. And most creative.
I am single.
I am a successful and busy executive - clever, creative, energetic, stimulating company, alert, and candid. I do not suffer fools easily or gladly. My interests are extremely diverse.
I'm well read and well travelled.
I have an eclectic and wide range of tastes and acquaintances and appreciate others who do as well.
No drunks, pillheads or unemployeds.
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