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San Francisco lifestyle Female Dominant.
I am only interested in local, real-life submissives.
- No online bullshit.
- No married people.
- No kids.
- No losers.
I am a very physically-attractive (former fashion/glamour & natural physique model),
athletic (on a sports team; have multiple gym memberships),
well-educated (grad school)
San Francisco (the actual City & County; not the suburbs)
creative businesswoman.
They say people are attracted to people who are of similar intelligence and physical attractiveness as themselves. This is where My problem lies.
If you are exceptionally good-looking, healthy, successful, nice, and sensual, continue reading and follow the application instructions in My journal. If not, move along. There's nothing for you here.
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This website is so clunky. I am reposting this here at the top, so that it is easier to find. I am hoping that you are not lazy, but rather that this website interface is so clunky that it is not intuitively navigable.
I can be extremely feminine, long-haired, slender, large-breasted, perfumed, stiletto-heeled, leather handbagged, silk-stocking-ed, gloved, and elegant when I want to be or hard, muscular, strong, aggressive, controlling, strict, jack-booted, and relentless as needed.
Tomboys: Get yourself a Lady who does both.
Seeking submissive men and women who are also relatively young (under 40), attractive, single, successful, and who do not have children.
Strong preference for closeted lifestyle submissives who wish to live in a secretly Female-Dominated relationship. The vanilla world can think you're my roommate, boy/girl-friend, or that we're volunteering for a charitable cause together or partnering on a startup venture. Privately, you desire to be trained to cater to My every whim.
--Men: own tailored suits, cufflinks & shirt studs, and at least one tux (tails preferred). Have a financial plan for your own retirement. Be able to change your own car tire and patch your own bicycle tube (you don't actually have to do these things, but you need to possess the knowledge, skills, & experience).
--Women: No daddy issues. No boyfriends. No breast implants. No cokeheads. No drunks.
Answer the following very basic questions, so that I know you are serious and taking My needs & desires into consideration before contacting Me...
1) What:
Tell Me what you have to offer Me.
--Skills, resources, your innate luck, divine karma, and irresistible charm, perhaps?
--What makes you a good submissive applicant? Are you punctual, organized, well-educated, popular, tall, handsome, beautiful, gorgeous, fastidious, intuitive, sensual, sexy?
--Don't merely choose a string of subjective adjectives, though. Give Me concrete examples of these lovely attributes of yours and how they could be put to excellent use in serving Me.
--If you were My submissive, you would wake up every morning before Me and make sure My fair trade coffee was ready, My outfit was steamed, shoes shined, car charged (we're hippie futurists), air pressure properly inflated, lunch packed (macrobiotic, organic, locavore cuisine that you nutritionally meal-planned for Me yourself, after painstakingly researching My metabolism), dog walked (if we have one or three), cat litter box scooped, children fed & diapered (if we have them), and if you're absolutely atrocious at doing all of the above, you at least provided Me with wicked hot sex and paid well-trained and loyal staff to do all of the necessary sundries. Ha!
--Seriously, if you want My attention & for Me to take any interest in your application to serve Me, you're going to have to put some effort into it and sell Me on the idea that you're a worthwhile catch. I have options. Lots. What makes you a preferable one, potential darling?
2) Where:
What City (or neighborhood, if SF) are you located in?
How soon could you relocate to SF (if not already here)?
3) When:
--What is your availability to serve Me (from your current location/lifestyle)?
--Be realistic. Once per month? Once every two weeks? Weekly?
--If you are able to relocate as a live-in sub (fake roommate), this could be a regular part of your daily life and it is what I would like us to work towards, if I like you...
When you are a true lifestyle Dominant and you have been in The City for a while, you learn that full-time working & especially business-traveling people sound great on paper, but the logistics of getting them on their knees can be challenging IRL. subbies in the East, South, or North Bay can be well-intentioned, but the reality of commuting to serve Me in SF might be setting some of yourselves up for failure. Unless you are prepared to spend a normal town's rent in car service/rideshare/parking/have a driver and patience while you nap or work on the road, you might not want to bother attempting it.
Most of My past lifestyle subbies have been MDs, CEO/MBA, JDs, etc. and the like. Our time is valuable. Scheduling, transportation, private accommodation, and logistical concerns are real. I don't have free time. I have no interest in wasting it on losers' online fantasies. I am not here to serve anyone. Quite the contrary. If your goal is to attract Me, convince Me to pay attention to you, and consider deigning to gift you with My precious time, you are going to have to distinguish yourself from the hoards of flakes and wankers. The internet is infinitely full of them.
If I am interested in you, I will verify by email and phone before scheduling to meet in a public place.
Don't waste My time.
Thank you for taking the time to read all of this & best of luck in your BDSM journey.
-- SF Fem Domme. |
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Ugghh. Nope. Pro-Dommeing is not worth the money or pain-in-the-butt for what it offers in return. Even if all I want to use it for is screening subbie applicants. If I had more free time to waste, I would delete everything off this profile, but it has been too much of a timewaster already. *sigh*
Where are all the handsome, charming, submissive, sexy gentlemen? Not in San Francisco, apparently! Too bad for Me. Boo-hoo. :( |
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Okay. I guess if I'm really serious about finding a subbie, I will have to go back to Pro Domme-ing sessions. At this point, I already have invested WAY too many unpaid hours of valuable labor into finding one.
Here's the main problem: Not enough experienced lifestyle subbies & the inexperienced ones are lazy. They are unwilling to learn anything, let alone study.
Despite the high volume of applications and messages that I have received, none have shown a shred of ability to see life beyond their own, very selfish, childish, and delusional desires and fantasies. I care not for any of that. I am trying to find someone to play with in the real world. In real life, please.
Facts:
-- San Francisco is one of the most expensive cities in the world.
-- Women are paid less than 80 cents to each dollar men are paid; often with Women in the same positions being more educated, experienced, and doing more of the work.
-- Less than 5% of Federal Contracts in the USA are awarded to majority Female-owned companies (meaning Women own at least 51% of the value of the business).
-- Over the past 20 years, the increase in wage equity in the USA was less than 2% (from approx. 77 cents to 79 cents to each man's dollar).
-- Women do more household work than men.
-- Women are systematically excluded from high-paying STEM jobs.
-- STEM jobs are the highest-paying and biggest growth jobs in the San Francisco and Silicon Valley Areas.
-- Most of the unprecedented waves of overpaid STEM workers in the SF Bay Area are racists & misogynists (i.e. exclude non-Europeans and Females from employment, venture capital, business ownership, upper level management, and career advancement).
-- In BDSM globally and throughout history, the number of submissive men have always vastly outnumbered the number of experienced, skilled Dominant Women.
Metaphors:
-- Restaurant Dining versus Dining at a Friend's House --
When you dine at a restaurant, you expect to be served. you look at the menu of what the establishment is willing to offer you as far as services, according to their building, equipment, costs of doing business, inventory, skill, and inclination.
The restaurant doesn't care if you are ugly or poorly-dressed (though some do have dress codes!), because they are there to serve you food. your server might care if you are attractive or not, but they are primarily interested in whether you tip them well financially or not, because that is their source of livelihood. They will not turn you down as a diner for being unattractive and lousy company, unless you have extremely bad hygiene or are downright rude, disrespectful, and obnoxious. They are being paid to tolerate you. They might even pay you compliments that you don't really deserve or pretend to like you, if they think you will pay them more for those services and high tolerance for your true unattractiveness/going along with your delusions/indulging your fantasies, as well.
you choose what interests you from the menu, hopefully get what you want, pay for their services and expenses, and all parties are satisfied and on their merry way.
When you dine at a friend's house, you must wait for an invitation from them. They must have a kitchen and dining room and be willing to have you in their home, with the people they live with every day. They must have spare food and time to shop for, transport, and prepare it for you; serve and entertain you, and clean up after you're done. you understand that not everyone has facilities in which to entertain, nor the inclination to invite strangers to their private sanctuary.
Least of all an unmarried Female in San Francisco in this day and age being expected to keep an expansive, soundproofed home and play equipment and tend to your childish desires for absolutely nothing in return to herself in these deplorable economic, sociopolitical, and technological conditions; conditions which need I remind you are caused and perpetuated by idiotic male delusions of self-importance, superiority, and selfish entitlement?
How many single, attractive, CEO, Founder Females do you know in San Francisco who are also skilled and educated Cordon Bleu Chefs with over a decade of experience at running 3-Michelin-starred restaurants and five-star luxury boutique resort hotels with internationally-fabled spa and singularly unique activities, ran in-person by Supermodels who are also executive life Coaches, celebrity Stylists, and world-reknown performance Artists? Because that is essentially what you are asking for, for nothing in return from Me when you think I want to session with you, for free.
Ask Me again why I don't want to provide you with unpaid sessions in My home and then cut your own penis off, shove it down your throat, shit it back out, and eat it again, dickcheese. That's how much I want to hear that demand yet again, ad nauseum, ad infinitum, forever...
Poor little white boys are so fucking original! you make Me wanna slap your mother. Truth. |
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Fuck it. I either have to start over with a new profile or find a better way to find more attractive, suitable, HONEST and non-delusional subbies. Sounds like unpaid labor and I'm always loathe to expend (more) of that! ha. |
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Pretty sure the person I am looking for is not on this website. It's too bad, because Folsom Street Fair is coming up. Oh well. Should delete this profile soon, but this website is such an annoying waste of time already.
Bye! |
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It's really not going well for the prettyboytoy. The worst part is, it's all in his own, feeble, little, frightened mind. Which is not to say he is dumb. Not at all. I wouldn't be attracted to him in the first place if he were. On the contrary. he's quite bright and well-spoken. Unfortunately, he's got all these mental blockages that he refuses to overcome and I'm too bored with it to want to waste any more time trying to fix his head.
Life is far too short to waste it on explaining the quite obvious to those who simply refuse to see it. Whatever. his problem/loss; not Mine! he Does. Not. Listen. to Me, no matter what I say or how I phrase it. In fact, half the time, he does the exact opposite of what I told him to do! It's quite mad, vexing, and ultimately... boring. How droll.
A tall, dashing, European gentleman refuses to believe that I am, in fact, smarter, more experienced, knowledgeable, well-educated, and well-connected than him. In a country he has never lived in before, in a cross of industries and business model that he has zero prior experience in, either. That's fine. That's also another reason why your failed little branch of your inconsequential company is tanking.
I even offered to help him stay in the country if he'd listen, behave, do as he is told, etc., but he won't. he's blind, deaf, and dumb to the possibility that I might know what I am talking about.
Everything he promised and declared is falling apart; which makes him look like a massive, lying asshole. his free car was taken back within days of meeting. his fabled San Francisco apartment is now off-limits. his allegedly successful career with equity in his company is actually just a year at a tanking, idiotic startup; to which he is absolutely wedded and has delusional dreams that not cutting his losses and using it as a foot-in-the-door to the Bay Area and Silicon Valley (if startup stock options and IPOs are truly his interest in life; which I don't honestly believe to be true) and real opportunities, connections, and capital... That is all well and fine.
The real nail in the coffin was when he started whining about why he wasn't ever invited to My house. Really, really. I should have walked out on him right then. Followed by more bitching about his delusional expectations, despite My having been utterly up front, clear, and honest with him and he being made to look like (is?) a liar, due to his life/housing/transportation/job/immigration visa all falling apart at once.
Maybe I was blinded by good hair, cut abs, and a pretty face and didn't see him for how incredibly stupid he obviously is; judging by his actions. Lol.
If you're braindead and you need someone to talk you out of shitty career moves: don't bother Me.
People pay Me a shitload of money to solve their demented problems of that sort and My graduate school education and hundreds of hours of clinical practice hours weren't free, either. Domination is not charity. Executive business consulting is not charity. Legal information is not charity. I do plenty of charity work and none of these fall under those categories. I am happy to take your $3,000 - 5,000 retainer and bill you $475/hour for those services, but this is not the appropriate forum from which to contact Me and I am not seeking paying Domination clients for sessions at this time, either. If that is what you seek, look at the ads, visit a Pro Domme dungeon, do whatever it is you need to do, but do not fucking message Me and waste My Goddess-damned time.
Looks like I have plenty of free time to catch up on some of those phone interviews now that the dumbass has fucked it all up for himself. Application instructions are in the first journal entry of this profile, below. Good luck! |
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I have absolutely no interest in dominant men at all, ever. Stop wasting My time. Get a life. Don't message Me. |
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I'm busy all day tomorrow, but I'm sending someone to go check out that apartment for Me. It might suck. assistant will report back. |
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A subbie applicant emailed asking if I had sent him a request via a Domination app.
The answer is absolutely not. I don't do online bullshit. Don't fall for scams. |
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It's not going well for boytoy. his startup is tanking and he will likely have to leave the USA within a few weeks/couple months. his misfortune is your gain!
I found an apartment I like in San Francisco and the open house is this Saturday. Hurry up and apply, so that I might have a chance to read your attempt and consider you by the weekend. ;)
I might even post a photo (I'm extremely prejudiced not to, because I get way too much timewastey spam and wankers as it is), to increase My numerical odds of receiving a suitable application in time.
To be clear, you would rent this apartment in your name alone. I would keep My large and wonderful (if completely vanilla and you're never invited) home in SF for a trial period. If you suck, you get to keep the place & you'll be much better situated to find a new Domme with this lovely residence. If you succeed, I will come live with you and/or we can find a larger place together. It's a very low-risk, nothing but gain situation, if you genuinely wish to pursue a real life Female-Dominated relationship; be it romantic/sexual or otherwise.
Worst case scenario is you get to live alone in a gorgeous apartment in a rent-controlled building near the center of an amazing city. Oh, boo-hoo. Poor you! Lol.
So, apply to serve Me. If you win, I will tell you which apartment listing it is. Apply to lease the apartment. you are not forced to rent it, just by applying. This is only moving forward in your quest/mission/purpose in life and towards fulfilling your own dreams and fantasies. I have no idea why it is so hard to explain this to people and "sell" them on the idea/motivate/convince them to do it. I think they enjoy misery, but I don't!
I want to be spoiled. I want a beautiful apartment. I want a handsome, charming, athletic, hunky man to live with and who will put Me on a pedestal and worship Me from My beautiful hair down to My perfect toenails. I want it all on a platter, give it to Me, now! :) |
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I've met a new boytoy. The first I interviewed in person from this profile. he may have to leave the USA in a couple months if his job/startup thing (some of which is entirely outside of his control, poor lad) doesn't go well.
he is tall, very fit, athletic, former team sports player, very handsome face. Prettier than some professional male fashion models I know. I joked with him that he should get an 'exceptional person' fashion model visa. It's a real thing that I helped a male model friend from Canada get. I had another subbie who emigrated to the USA by being a PhD Engineer and his employer sponsored him under 'exceptionally skilled & educated,' because he was a published academic and keynote lecturer in his field.
The prettyboytoy is also dashing, charming, elegant, with a disarmingly nerdy and pussywhipped streak in My presence. The hunky sportsball player, cut abs cutiepie melts into a babbling dork who says nice things like, "Your body is insane." Well, that's true. Did you think being a natural physique and fetish model line was a lie? My wardrobe is mostly couture and custom, especially My fetish and Domination gear.
To give examples, I think most Victoria's Secret models have crap bodies. Fetish, figure, physique, pinup, and glamour photographers love Me, because the natural proportions of My sculpted body look idealized and Photoshopped. My real, natural body looks better than most professional models' plastic surgeried and retouched bodies. The only woman out there who I think has comparable proportions as Me with non-fake boobs is Emily Ratajkowski, but we have much different faces and hips/thighs/butts and she is about 10 years younger than Me. People most often compare My face with Angelina Jolie's, even though we are of different mixed ethnicities, we share some Native American features of high, wide cheekbones, and relatively square, but not manly jaws. (An example of an excessively manly and big, square jaw on a woman would be Demi Moore's daughter with Bruce Willis, Rumer Willis, who, unfortunately, inherited her father's chin or any female athlete who takes excessive steroids.) I think I'm much more beautiful than Angelina Jolie and I especially hate her puckered-anus lips mouth. Not to mention the fact that she has had multiple nose jobs and all kinds of other work. Yuck. Also, she's aging very poorly and I often get mistaken for half My age. I'm a few years older than prettyboytoy, but I since I look younger, we make a good pair. We appear to be about the same age and we are similarly, exceptionally pretty and well-groomed.
In physical beauty, on a scale of 1 through 10, I am at least a 10. Maybe a 13. prettyboy is about an 8 - 8.5, but after I make him over, he'll be a solid 9. As My companion, with My styling and reflected grace, he'll be a 9.5. You can't ever make a subbie a 10, because s/he always needs something to aspire to. Keep them motivated to better themselves, otherwise, what is the point of training them? To allow them to only expand and reach so far, then stagnate? No way.
Each submissive is their own universe of unrealized, unlimited potential. The key to training and owning them is to thoroughly investigate the unique niches of their preexisting personalities, natures, skills, talents, experiences, desires, dreams, fears, knowledge, situations, networks, and resources... and to then construct a new reality, dual (or treble!) personality/personas, and purpose in which for them to achieve and become their best (submissively Mine) self. A life that also happens to be richly molded in service to meet whichever of MY needs and desires they are best suited & equipped to attempt to fulfill.
These boys are so brave for even attempting to find and live in real life what so many thousands of manchildren wouldn't dare to. This prettyboy, he's so gorgeous, hunky, smart, well-spoken, charming, polite, patient, sincere, educated, professionally-accomplished for his age, dedicated, hardworking, reliable, punctual, well-groomed, responsive... Lovely all-around in every way and I'm so lucky to have him, but it might be temporary, it seems, so the hunt goes on. Sorry, cute young thing. Don't give up. I bet you'll do well if you persist in your pursuit of Me. I wish you luck at it, for both our sakes. |
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I can be extremely feminine, long-haired, slender, large-breasted, perfumed, stiletto-heeled, leather handbagged, silk-stocking-ed, gloved, and elegant when I want to be or hard, muscular, strong, aggressive, controlling, strict, jack-booted, and relentless as needed.
Tomboys: Get yourself a Lady who does both.
Seeking submissive men and women who are also relatively young (under 40), attractive, single, successful, and who do not have children.
Strong preference for closeted lifestyle submissives who wish to live in a secretly Female-Dominated relationship. The vanilla world can think you're my roommate, boy/girl-friend, or that we're volunteering for a charitable cause together or partnering on a startup venture. Privately, you desire to be trained to cater to My every whim.
--Men: own tailored suits, cufflinks & shirt studs, and at least one tux (tails preferred). Have a financial plan for your own retirement. Be able to change your own car tire and patch your own bicycle tube (you don't actually have to do these things, but you need to possess the knowledge, skills, & experience).
--Women: No daddy issues. No boyfriends. No breast implants. No cokeheads. No drunks.
Answer the following very basic questions, so that I know you are serious and taking My needs & desires into consideration before contacting Me...
1) What:
Tell Me what you have to offer Me.
--Skills, resources, your innate luck, divine karma, and irresistible charm, perhaps?
--What makes you a good submissive applicant? Are you punctual, organized, well-educated, popular, tall, handsome, beautiful, gorgeous, fastidious, intuitive, sensual, sexy?
--Don't merely choose a string of subjective adjectives, though. Give Me concrete examples of these lovely attributes of yours and how they could be put to excellent use in serving Me.
--If you were My submissive, you would wake up every morning before Me and make sure My fair trade coffee was ready, My outfit was steamed, shoes shined, car charged (we're hippie futurists), air pressure properly inflated, lunch packed (macrobiotic, organic, locavore cuisine that you nutritionally meal-planned for Me yourself, after painstakingly researching My metabolism), dog walked (if we have one or three), cat litter box scooped, children fed & diapered (if we have them), and if you're absolutely atrocious at doing all of the above, you at least provided Me with wicked hot sex and paid well-trained and loyal staff to do all of the necessary sundries. Ha!
--Seriously, if you want My attention & for Me to take any interest in your application to serve Me, you're going to have to put some effort into it and sell Me on the idea that you're a worthwhile catch. I have options. Lots. What makes you a preferable one, potential darling?
2) Where:
What City (or neighborhood, if SF) are you located in?
How soon could you relocate to SF (if not already here)?
3) When:
--What is your availability to serve Me (from your current location/lifestyle)?
--Be realistic. Once per month? Once every two weeks? Weekly?
--If you are able to relocate as a live-in sub (fake roommate), this could be a regular part of your daily life and it is what I would like us to work towards, if I like you...
When you are a true lifestyle Dominant and you have been in The City for a while, you learn that full-time working & especially business-traveling people sound great on paper, but the logistics of getting them on their knees can be challenging IRL. subbies in the East, South, or North Bay can be well-intentioned, but the reality of commuting to serve Me in SF might be setting some of yourselves up for failure. Unless you are prepared to spend a normal town's rent in car service/rideshare/parking/have a driver and patience while you nap or work on the road, you might not want to bother attempting it.
Most of My past lifestyle subbies have been MDs, CEO/MBA, JDs, etc. and the like. Our time is valuable. Scheduling, transportation, private accommodation, and logistical concerns are real. I don't have free time. I have no interest in wasting it on losers' online fantasies. I am not here to serve anyone. Quite the contrary. If your goal is to attract Me, convince Me to pay attention to you, and consider deigning to gift you with My precious time, you are going to have to distinguish yourself from the hoards of flakes and wankers. The internet is infinitely full of them.
If I am interested in you, I will verify by email and phone before scheduling to meet in a public place.
Don't waste My time.
Thank you for taking the time to read all of this & best of luck in your BDSM journey.
-- SF Fem Domme. |
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| Age: 31 |
| Costa Mesa,
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