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You will find that I am safe, sane, upscale, classy--and most importantly, exactly as described. I happen to also be a gentleman  with a very vanilla exterior---and at the same time, behind closed doors, an extremely sexual, imaginative, exploration, almost relentless side. Bright, with a great sense of humor, I am also masculine, worked out, good shape. I am am well read, and successful. However, I also have an extremely private, extremely sexual side. If you also have this very private, but also very high drive/interest, you will understand. I am a firm believer that although the brain indeed might be a very serious sex organ, it is also hard wired in a sense to the physical places where gratification and arousal are pursued. If you read this and understand, well, we would be good friends. I am so vanilla on the outside that the world at large would never guess of these secret interests. I long for an ongoing relationship with a submissive (or possibly switch ) Lady who is also curious, honest, highly sexed, and like me, has this private side they would like to imaginatively explore in a mentally/sexually/emotionally naked and safe setting. There is no judgment here--only pleasure, pleasure of a special variety! As for me, I have a VERY high sex drive which itself seeks someone non-judgmental to share. If you get arousal from sharing this part of  yourself and exploring the many things it has to offer---we would possibly be a very good match. I am a firm believer in orgasm control/regulation, supervised masturbation, approves climaxes only, sometimes relentless stimulation and exploration. Ultimately you would be required to confide, confess your most intimate and private sexual thoughts and ideas and obsessions, no matter how perhaps embarrassing and secret. The idea of stripping you down mentally and sexually is the goal---that and complete fulfillment of our true sexual selves. A great deal is said about trust, but few understand how this flows. A great deal is said about intimacy, but few understad that this is all about a sexual gateway to a kind of intimacy that is vastly larger. In addition to orgasm control, i am interested in intense genital stimulation---which could include all kinds of things, some pleasurable, and some walking a fine line. I am eager and interested to also explore y our ideas, your secrets, and your kinks, teaching, mentoring, coaching your secret kinks and eprverions.

I DO seek someone who is mature---either in years, ir inside themselves: you should know yourself, know who you are, and know what you want--you should know that you genuinely do want to experience this particular wonderful road of secuality. Your marital status is not important to me, but developping a relationship as an only Dom is. I am seeking real time, ongoing safe, wonderous exploration. If you "get" or "understand" what i am saying then we should talk. I can and do and will travel. Safety, trust, exploration, arousal is all the goal.
MissRaevyn
 
 Age: 45
  North Carolina