Hi. I wouldnt technically describe myself as a Dom. I have some experience with BDSM but my interests mostly involve spanking: OTK, single tails, and roleplaying. Im basically a pretty vanilla guy. If youre looking to live out an Anne Rice novel, searching for someone who insists on being referred to as "Lord Darkwynde" or generally looking for an ownership situation Im probably not the right guy. I dont mean any disrespect towards those who take the BDSM lifestyle more seriously, Im just being honest. I can barely balance my checkbook so being responsible for a "slave" would be sort of a stretch. Im just looking to talk to local people with similar interests, and chat with women who enjoy this type of "play" and if that leads to r/l meeting great. If not at least I'll have met some like-minded folks. I dont have a picture but I look a lot like Brad Pitt...minus the face, body, charm, and money. anyway, stay safe and have fun. Ive recently become more curious about the submissive aspect of BDSM. I also believe learning to explore this side of the lifestyle could be helpful in making me a better "top". No sex, as I am currently in a relationship. She is aware of my intention to explore this and we both agree it's best to keep this endeavor seperate so it doesnt intrude on our play. Nothing too heavy mainly just spanking, and WOMEN ONLY. Im not that curious.