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I am not real sure what to say in this right now to be honest. Just ended a LTR of 6 years and thinking to get back on the horse. I know what I like and what I need in time. But I will take it slow. I was very devoted to him and do not regret a minute of our time together. I am a white BBW, getting smaller though by the day. 35 and very bisexual. I have a very large range of preferences. Men I prefer black men over any other race but since I am just looking at the moment I am open to all and any. But with black men I will admit are the only ones I am natural submissive to in the bedroom. But it also depends on the man himself. Women I am open to just about any type. But never submissive to one I am either equal to or Domme with them. Outside of the bedroom I have a large range of things that I enjoy to do. But first I am not a slave I want to be shown respect and appreciation for who I am when not behind close doors. If you are ashamed of my outside those doors then you are not good enough to have me inside those doors. There is no other way I can be about that. I have an extremely high sex drive. At times this was an issue with my last relationship. If you are not able to handle that or apply the time I am not the girl for you. I am not a one night stand but I am also not looking for another LTR. I want to have friends with benefits when I can or just friends to hang with as well. I have pics on request. I have recently lost a bit of weight and do not have current pics for posting. But Will send them to those that can show me them. I will also travel with in my area but if you are over an hour away you will have to come to me. Also endless emails and iming bore me quickly. I will want to eventually move onto the next step
6/24/2011 4:53:28 AM

Lol I really do appreciate some of the messages and I am trying to get to them all. But please remember a few things. I am just not ready yet today to jump right back into a relationship. A few people here know me and know how much my last relationship meant to me. It will take time right now I am just looking to meet people sort of put my feelers out to see where I stand now in what I want...In other words telling me you want to bend me over your lap and spank my heartache out of me not really going to get the response you are looking for from me.

6/23/2011 1:59:10 PM
Thank you all for the messages that I have sent one. But please read my profile all the way. I am in SEGA not west coast
redsilk4goddess
 
 Age: 26
 San jose, California