Spent a little time with a slave and also a friend who's a sub this weekend. Seems I'm a little too rough at times but they can't say that I haven't warned them of what to expect when they meet me.

If you come to my house to spend time with me, I WILL have you undress, I will give you at least one good spanking, and it's VERY likely that I will have sex (orally, vaginally, and anally) with you before you leave at least once. 

I'm just being honest about everything. This IS NOT just about me finding someone for sex. It's about you doing what you're told. Often I will even have sex when I don't even plan on cumming just because I can and it's the woman doing as she's told. 

Control IS my biggest fetish. If there's something that's not a hard limit and I know you don't like it, I WILL make you do it. Yes, you will be rewarded with things you do like as a reward afterwards but I will press any soft limits you may have as often as I can.

I'd like to thank all of the slaves and subs who have written me. Sorry to say that a lot of you haven't been what I was looking for. Sure I'd like to meet up with some of you for some fun but I'm really looking for more than JUST fun and games. If you can't or don't see this lifestyle as a relationship (yes, even the slaves), then you're just not who and what I'm looking for. 

While I'm always happy to make more friends and give advice, I'm mainly here to find someone to join my life. 

I'm the Daddy Dom who's "Daddy" to many and Dom to few. I don't mind talking to anyone about almost anything but PLEASE have something to say if you write me. I don't care about your education or lack of. What I DO require is that you use actual words and not "text speak" if we're going to talk. 

I've not been completely myself for the last few days. Everyone I know is in some kind of relationship, all of my friends have been busy and I've been working too much (even for me). Mainly just been lonely which made me a little depressed. I'll be back to myself soon and be just as much of a jerk as ever.. LOL

I'm tired of excuses and BS. I don't "NEED" anyone in my life. I "WANT" someone to join me. I can deal with loneliness much easier than I can deal with BS. If you're not serious about joining me, then just leave me alone. I'm NOT going to send you money without meeting you in person. IF I decide that you may be who and what I'm looking for, I'll simply come and collect you myself and/or have you follow me back in your own car. 

I have no idea why so many Domme are looking at my profile. I'm NOT going to be sub to ANY woman and am NOT interested in being dominated in any way. 

IF I write you to start a conversation, READ my profile and at least SOME of my journal to learn a little about me. If you're not intelligent enough to at least do that, I'm NOT going to be too interested in learning about you. I'm only here to find women who are SERIOUS about finding a partner and not just to play games and cyber. While I enjoy a "play pal" sometimes, my main goal here is to find someone to join me in my home. 

If you don't have more to offer than JUST sex and someone to play with when I'm bored, I'm NOT interested. I can find that in a heartbeat if that's all I wanted. Yes, I'm VERY sexual and love that a lot but there is MUCH MORE to life than JUST that. If you're lazy or just plain dumb I don't have the time to mess with you no matter how nice you may look. Find someone who just wants someone to look at and MAYBE the two of you will be happy together. 

I've recently talked to a LOT of so called "slaves". Many like some of the things in which I'm interested but as soon as I mention housework or cooking, I never hear from them again. 

Do you honestly believe that this life is just sitting on your butt and not having to do anything but play sometimes when your Master is bored with other things? This is LIFE! There is cooking and cleaning to be done EVERYWHERE you go unless you're one who ends up with paid servants doing it (Not likely). 

I expect to provide not only food and shelter for any sub that joins me but also for her clothes and anything else she needs to serve me better. In return for this, I also expect that she will take care of my needs (sexually and otherwise). 

I'll not have another one that just sits on her butt and does nothing while I work all of the time and THEN have to come home to a dirty house (made dirty by you) and then clean up after your messes. 

Get REAL or find yourself a sub that wants to wait on you hand and foot because it's NOT me. 

Just about finished with a pretty good weekend. :-)  I met a slave in Charlotte (she and I have been talking for awhile), too bad she can't relocate. Put her under hypnosis and kept taking her deeper to the point that even if she was ready to cum, I'd put her under again with only saying a couple of words and then start all over on her again. Played around for the most part of 8 hours with her. She survived with only sore nipples and a better understanding of sensual torture. :-)

Just sitting here letting my mind wonder and thinking before I start to study. Time passes by so quickly now. I'm in the process of doing a "life makeover". Training for a new career, just bought a new house and I'm coming more into myself as the Dom I've always been. I've come to care less and less about what people think of me because I know I'm a good person. I've done a lot of good in this life and will do more in the future. I'm a good friend, good at listening to the needs of others and giving guidance. I'm even a great lover when I have the chance.. LOL No woman who's ever taken the time to get to know me has ever wanted to leave me. Just wish I could find the RIGHT one. 

I know this sounds like I'm depressed this morning. I'm not. I'm full of expectation of what the future will bring. I have some great friends, have chosen an interesting rewarding career to go into, and soon I'll have more time to do all of those things I've not had time for again. 

Recently finished my basic certification for hypnotist as much to learn about it as to see if I can still do course work. It's opened my eyes to new possibilities and a great new career choice. 

It's the start of another day. :-)

Some people don't deserve what they have. I was just talking to a friend of mine. She's a sub that's living with a Dom who seems like he doesn't have enough time for her but he's out looking for other subs even now. She's willing to put up with a lot and is a VERY sweet woman with a lot to give but she loves her Dom and doesn't want to leave him.

This man has not only a wife but a very good sub both of which live with him yet he can't see what's in front of his eyes. He doesn't have time for the two women he has now but isn't happy to spend the time he does have with those who love him.

If you don't have the time to spend with a sub or a slave, then don't take them into your house...

Just my rant for the day

Orals over with. :-)  Certified hypnotist now..   LOL

Just completed my final exam for hypnosis. Have my oral presentation tonight. Wish me luck. :-)

Tired of being a nice guy all of the time. Doesn't get anything done and just leaves me frustrated more often than not. Women keep telling me I'm a "nice guy" but little do they know the depths of my thoughts or the darkness they can sometimes hold. Don't think that just because I will respect your limits that I'll not want to push them as often as possible. When I find things someone DOESN'T like, that's when I want to make them do it that much more. :-) 

Today was an interesting day. Hypnotized the boyfriend of a friend of mine who suffers from erectile dysfunction. Will get an update tomorrow on how well it worked. :-)  

Tonight I was thinking of going to the club to do some dancing. If I had a dancing partner, I'd be there but just don't feel like dealing with the noise and the drunks if I don't have someone to dance with. Just went to a friends house (different one from above), had sex and came back home to a quite house. The club is too loud and my house is too quite. No one here to talk to tonight either. :-(

Feel the ropes bite into your skin as your arms are raised higher and higher. They pull you up onto your toes making you balance there. You feel it as your top is ripped from you. Blindfolded, you can neither see where I stand or what I'm about to do to you. The bite of the belt is the next thing you feel. Harsh against your skin you feel it slap your ass as you hear it as it hits you. Again you feel it and then yet again. Then you feel a sting as I bring the whip to bear on you. With a snap you feel the sting against your back. Feel it try to open your skin as you feel the sting again and again. 

I then tell you to open your eyes and look around you. You are safe at home, alone and dressed in the same clothes you were wearing before I "took" you. Even though you remember the coldness of the dungeon, felt the stone of the walls, felt the bite of the belt, the sting of the whip, it was all so real. You have memories of EVERYTHING I've done to you. You know intellectually that you didn't go anywhere or do anything but you REMEMBER it so it MUST have happened. 

Where does reality begin or end? It's all in our perceptions of what we see, hear, taste, smell and remember. 

If you can imagine it, I can take you there.

Is anyone interested in taking a "mental trip"? I'm looking for someone with a good imagination who wants to be hypnotized to fulfill fantasy's. It will require me to put you into deep hypnosis and then put the memories into you of what it is that you want to do or try. Think of the movie "Total Recall" and you'll have some idea of what it is that I want to do. 

I've found that I'm very good at what I do but this is still an untested field for me. There is NO danger involved (unless you have a weak heart and a dangerous fantasy). 

Though I'd prefer to do this in person, I can and will do it on the phone (must have head set or bluetooth) and internet (webcam needed for monitoring). 

Give me your mind and your body will follow. Let me take you into a world where you are more alive than you've ever been. I'll teach you to feel sensations that you've only imagined. Feel a whip against your skin yet not have a mark on you. Be forced to service a dozen men yet be faithful in body. Taste forbidden fruit while never taking a bite. Take a dream vacation and never leave your chair. 

I'd love to talk to either subs or slaves who have experienced "sub space". I have a working theory that subspace and hypnosis are very similar in nature. 

Hypnosis is caused by an overload of messages going into the mind causing an escape into a suggestible state. While under hypnosis, the mind vents out things that it doesn't need at that time. 

Even though subspace is done differently, I believe that it does a lot of the same things and is why people long to find someone to send them into that state.   

Only 2 more tests before I get my certification for hypnotist!  :-)  

Hypnosis has become a larger part of my life and may end up being more of a profession than just a hobby. Giving serious consideration to doing a career change and doing it for a living. 

Today one of my friends had a tooth ache. Through hypnosis, I helped her to over come that pain and deaden the affected tooth. 

If anyone one is interested in pain management through hypnosis or in hypnosis in general, I'd love to hear from you.

Today I hypnotized one of my friends. She was over 1000 miles away. Hoping to help her with some weight loss and I believe that I can help her with it. Hypnosis is turning out to be a fun hobby and thinking very hard about a career change. 

I just started a course in hypnosis so anyone that's interested in this subject is welcome to write me. I'm also looking for people (doesn't matter whether they're male, female, Dom or sub) that I can practice on. 

One of my friends on here misunderstood my experience in this lifestyle recently. As it says back in my journal, I've only had one slave who turned out to not be a slave at all and was more of a kinkster than someone for a real relationship. I've dominated every relationship I've had since I was 16 but I've only known there was a lifestyle like this for a few years. 

I'm not here to try to be something I'm not, not trying to pretend and say I have all of the experience in the world, and not here for games. 

While I'd love to have a slave, I will consider a sub with slave tendencies. I'm looking for a woman who REALLY wants to serve and not just here looking for a little kink in her life. 

Even though I'm sure that it's going to cause me a lot of scammers, here's my yahoo messenger ID. devilincarnateinsc

Feel free to contact me here or there if you want to talk. 

Today I was talking to a nice slave in IL. Everything was going great until I mentioned my medical condition (HSV2).  I know it's not something that everyone can deal with so when she told me she was no longer interested I tried to be understanding. 

It wasn't a total loss. I did make another friend out of talking to her even if I am still alone as far as a relationship goes. 

I was told not too long ago that I shouldn't mention this on my profile or journal until people get a chance to know me better. I understand their thoughts about that but at the same time I believe in being completely honest about things.  I did take it off of my profile and journal for awhile. It just didn't feel right because without being open about it, I feel as if I'm lying about it by omission. 

If I had waited until she was ready to join me and only then told her about it, that would have been very dishonest in not only my eyes but I'm sure to her too. 

Well, it's time to get on the road again. Another day, another set of scammers trying to scam me. LOL  It does get depressing at times. 

I just read the profile of a young slave on the other side of the country. Very poetic and expressed a lot of my feelings about this lifestyle. I only hope that her view of the lifestyle isn't changed over time and she continues to see it through the eyes in which she's seeing now. 

I believe that even in the harshest of environments, there can be a connection that goes beyond what most people find in their lives. Call it love, respect or a combination of the two but it does exist and is as real as the air we breath. 

I hope everyone is having a great day. :-) 

Saturday morning and I'm home once again. I think today is a house day for the most part. Hanging drapes, mounting the new TV over the fireplace, and misc. other things. 

It would be great to have someone to share these things with but such is life. 

It's not that I'm depressed or anything like that. I'm just lonely today. Most of my friends have other plans. 

Today I was reading the profile of a slave. She was talking about a need to submit to a Master and it caused me to want to explain about my need to dominate. 

I have always been a strong willed person even from a very young age. For the most part I raised myself since the age of 13 and left home on my 17th birthday to make it in the world. 

I found out very early that I enjoyed dominating women and it was just something that came natural to me. Women have always come to me for answers and guidance. It's just the way things are. 

Even though I'm very understanding about a lot of things, I don't accept excuses from others or myself. I try very hard to be a realist about things. 

I'm pushy, hard to live with, work way too much, and basically I'm a pain in the butt (both literally and figuratively). I also have a medical condition that will cause some to avoid me but all of these things are things I can live with. Can you? 

Friday night and I'm stuck in the middle of nowhere PA. LOL  Will be up and running again about midnight heading back down to VA and then home before heading down to FL (IF nothing changes as it does so often). It's sometimes depressing to think that I'll be heading home to an empty house and really have no prospects in regards to having someone there to wait on my return. 

I sometimes wonder if I'm on the right site by being here. I'm a romantic by nature and I know that any woman with whom I become involved will become submissive to me but I am looking for a woman who is submissive to the point of wanting to be my slave. 

I want to find a woman who will love me so completely that she will give all of herself to me without reservation. A woman who will not just be a slave to be taken as I please but who gives all of herself until there is nothing else to give or take from her and yet still tries to give more. 

Yes, I do enjoy the kinky play at times but this is not just about playing and games to me. This is about finding that woman who can handle the intensity of my touch, will enjoy conversation with someone of my intellect, can be a companion with whom to enjoy life and still able to give of herself completely. 

I know that each submissive and slave out there is special in her own way. I also know that I'm looking for someone special among the special. 

Those of you who have read my recent posts will notice that I deleted my last one. It seems that several people think it was too personal and something better to be discussed in private once I get to know someone.  Knowing that I'm socially inept, I took their advice for now but I still believe in open communication about everything.  

For now, you ask, I tell..   LOL 

I was talking tonight with one of my friends. Seems that she's decided that she's more of a sub than a slave. Of course I wanted to know why she had decided this and it seems that some "Master" has told her that slaves are not supposed to love their masters. 

Who the heck writes these stupid rules?  It's only natural for a sub or slave to start to feel a connection with her Dom or Master. No matter how strict you are, no matter the punishment, if they respect you, they will begin to have feelings for you. 

The woman to whom I was speaking may simply be another kind of slave. She is a woman who longs to give herself to the right man who will love her for her submissiveness. To the right man she is willing to give all of herself without reservation but wants and needs to be loved in return. 

Is it so wrong to be a Master or Dom and wish your sub or slave to fall in love with you? Is it so wrong to be a sub or slave and want to love your Master or Dom? Even though we all live in the BDSM lifestyle, it doesn't make us less human. Love is as natural of a feeling as hatred and no one seems to care if someone  talks about the later. 

If everyone would simply be who they really are, there would be more real relationships and friendships in this lifestyle. Open yourself up and take the chance. It doesn't matter if you're Dom or sub, Master or slave. Open yourselves to your emotions and share those with those who are with you. You might just find that love isn't such a bad thing after all. :-)

Last night I had an interesting conversation with a sub that lives close to me. She had read my journal and felt that I might need someone with whom to speak. As is usual with me the conversation went in all different directions from BDSM related to the movie she was watching at the time. Turns out we're both fans of Nickolas Cage (The star of her movie). 

This is just another example of one of the very real and very nice people that are in this lifestyle. When you read a journal or profile and it looks like that person may need someone to talk to or if you feel they are taking chances with their safety, just do the human thing and say "Hi" and pass on a little advice or guidance when you can. It doesn't matter if you're a Dom talking to a sub or a slave talking to a Master. We're all still people and this is the community in which we live. Give your neighbor a hand and you might be happily surprised as I have been on more than one occasion. :-) 

Today someone tried to scam me again..  LOL  These days a webcam only costs about $20.00 so anyone who is serious should REALLY get one. They even come standard on most newer laptops too. Come on people. Pretty much anyone in the US should be able to get one or at minimum know someone who has a digital camera to show who you are. You don't need to take nudes, strip on webcam or anything like that. Just be willing to show yourself so that people who are REALLY interested can see who they're talking to.  As soon as I get to the chat phase of talking to someone, I put myself on webcam so they can see me. If it's someone I think I may be compatible, I'm not shy about showing all of myself but of course not to everyone I talk to.  If you're really serious about finding someone then make a small investment in your search and get SOME KIND of camera you can use to prove who you are. 

Ok, rant over........   LOL

Just more random thoughts: 

Failure is not an option. I recently failed with a woman I took into my house. I'm not going to call her a sub or a slave because I don't think she knows what either of those really mean. 

The reason I say that I failed is because I failed to take the time to get to fully know her before letting her into my house. I failed to see her for who she really is. I failed to listen to a friend who saw more than I did. 

As a Dom or Master it is our job to learn about the subs and slaves that enter our lives. It doesn't matter whether we're interested in having them as our own or not. We are dealing with people's lives. Failure to see who a person is and what their needs are can damage beyond repair and drive people away from the lifestyle. 

It is the job of EVERYONE in the lifestyle to instruct, guide, direct and help people who are new to it. There will always be fakes on both sides of the aisle but those of us who care should take the time to help anyone who really wants to learn. 

I don't care if you're a slave and run across a new Dom or someone who wants to be a Master. If you see that he's willing to learn, take the time to give a little advice or send him to someone who may be able to help him. If you run across a new sub or someone who wants to be a slave, do the same. Don't just throw them to the wolves. 

Failure to help another human being is NOT an option. 

More random thoughts: 

I love you but I have to beat you...  This may sound like something you'd say to your child. In many ways our subs and slaves ARE our children. They depend on us to instruct, direct and when it's necessary, even punish. 

For a real sub or slave simply knowing her Dom, Master or Owner is unhappy with her is enough punishment by itself but sometimes you need to get their attention with punishment. Punishment isn't meant to be fun for anyone involved. It's meant to get and hold the attention of the sub or slave in order for her to learn the right ways of doing things as far as YOU'RE concerned. 

I believe in a few warnings before I punish. This gives the sub or slave a few chances to do it correctly to see if she is indeed trying. After that, it's time to get her attention. That's when I pick something she really hates and make her do it or take something she really likes away from her. 

The first thing I ask myself when I'm thinking about punishment is DID she try? Not did she try a little but did she really try to do it right? Does she know what's expected of her? Did I give enough direction? When I need to punish, then it means in some ways I've failed to command her respect or failed to give proper direction. 

Random thoughts continued:

Recently I've been seeing more and more profiles of women saying some things like "Don't want to be your girlfriend or wife and not looking for love but only use and abuse". 

When I read profiles like that, the first thing that pops into my head is short term or just someone in it for the fetishes. Before I start getting hate mail about this, let me explain further. I am talking ONLY about myself here. 

Just as I know I have a need to dominate and others have a need to submit, there are others who have a need to inflict pain and degrade and others who have a need to receive it. 

Even being the "romantic" I am, I still have fantasies of abducting a woman and doing what I call "extreme sports" with her. In my little fantasy, the woman falls in love with her abductor even after being degraded, raped and tortured.  

The problem with my fantasy is that it's short term. I wouldn't want to do that all of the time and require more from a woman than JUST BDSM related things. 

Trying to be completely honest with you and myself, I'm not 100% sure that I could actually harm anyone or treat them in this way for more than possibly a week or a little longer. Even then my extremes would most likely be too tame for many who may wish it. 

Sometimes fantasies are meant to just be fantasies. 

To continue some of my random thoughts:

Love in a D/s relationship. Often when I'm reading profiles of people on here, I read about kink but little else. Then out of the blue I'll find a profile so profound that even if the woman is on the other side of the world, I HAVE to say hello and compliment her on her profile. Yes, we are all here because we enjoy certain aspects of the lifestyle. Whether it be simple bondage, or extreme usage, the ones who are looking for a REAL relationship are also looking for more than just the kinky play. If people would actually take the time to read profiles and see the kinds of music someone enjoys, see the hobbies someone has, and not just look at the photos, then there would be more matches with REAL PEOPLE. 

I LOVE reading profiles of ladies with NO photos. It takes away all preconceived ideas of how she looks and you just see her as the person she describes on the page. Yes, I know there must be some physical attraction for a relationship to really bloom. I also know that if you see her for the special person she is from her words then you will see beauty in her regardless of her physical appearance. 

Read a profile without a photo and you MIGHT find that special flower that's waiting to bloom JUST for you.

It was recently suggested to me that I share some of my writings in my journal. At the risk of being laughed out of the "Dom's Club" I thought I'd do that this morning. 

A Hope and a Dream:

I dream of a woman who dreams of serving with all of her heart, mind and body. A woman who's goal in life is to give all of herself without reservation. A woman who's very nature is to serve and give of herself to me holding nothing back in any way. 

I dream of a woman with a heart. A woman who will love me for all that I am and all that I'll never be. A woman who will accept that even as a Dom I'm not perfect or all knowing. A woman in whom I can see love all over her from the look in her eyes to the ways that she touches me. 

I dream of a woman with a sense of humor. A woman who can be a brat at times just to make me laugh or who can tease with a smile. A woman who also knows when enough is enough and when the line is crossed comes to me with apologies written all over her begging for forgiveness. A woman who's laughter can brighten up a rainy afternoon and a smile that speaks volumes whether it be "Come get me" to "I love you". 

I dream of a woman who longs to fulfill my sexual desires. A woman who give herself completely knowing she will never be harmed. A woman who gives herself without reservation. A woman who pushes her limits just to hear "Good girl, you did very good."

I dream of a woman with intelligence. A woman who enjoys a good conversation about almost anything that comes to mind. A woman willing and able to learn about my interests just so she can be part in more aspects of my life. A woman that may disagree with me at times but still respectfully be able to explain her viewpoints and open to listening to mine. 

I dream of a woman who enjoys doing active things at times. A woman who can enjoy a 3 mile hike in the woods to dancing until midnight to seeing how far out we can swim at the beach. A woman who understands that I work a lot of long hours and want to be lazy when I first come home but can then be ready when I say "Let's get out of here and DO something." 

I dream of a woman who's beautiful in my eyes. A woman who carries herself well whether she be a size 2 or 16. A woman I will be proud to show off to others and say "Look at my beautiful woman. Aren't I lucky?"

My HOPE is to find such a woman one of these days.

Kenneth

Why is it that it seems that hardly anyone on here wants to talk about anything OTHER than BDSM topics. Yes, I know this is the life we've chosen for ourselves but we are all so much more than JUST Masters, Doms, slaves, and subs. We are people too. It often seems that even a simple hello with someone offering friendship if rebuffed rudely. 

Here is a list of some of my vanilla interests. Sailing, swimming, snorkeling, hiking, dancing, bowling, tennis, reading, writing (mostly poems and lyrics), engineering, hydro dynamics and electrical production. Basically I'm interested in almost anything about which you can have an intelligent conversation. 

The long and short of it is that I'm a Daddy Dom but I'm also a self educated nerd, a romantic writer (have been published), an engineer at heart that drives a truck for a living. 

If anyone wants to talk sometime, let me know.

Kenneth

It seems that a LOT of submissives and slaves take friendly communication as being that someone is passive. Being friendly when you first start talking to someone and not using vulgar language is just being polite as well as saying that you have control of yourself. I raised myself to be a gentleman and that's not going to change but it DOES NOT mean that I'm passive or that I can't be somewhat sadistic at times too. It just means that I'll say "Please suck my cock instead of "Bitch suck me" but will mean the same thing. LOL  It doesn't mean that if you don't do it that you're going to just sit there and not be dragged over to do it either. 

Just updated my profile. I HATE the need to do it but I'm still searching for the right one. Another day goes by..   LOL

Well, things didn't work out with jessica. Time to start the search all over again.. :-(

I was told today that I'm a complete Asshole and a Jerk. :-)  Hey what do you say when it's a FRIEND that says something like that..  LOL  Hey at least she was being honest about it. I AM an asshole and a jerk but that's part of who I am so either deal with it or go away. She's still around so I can't be TOO bad..  LOL

FINALLY closed on my house. LOL It's been a long drawn out process since I've been working on this since June. Now comes the "fun" part. Decorating it. :-(

Ok, let's update this a little. I would prefer to find a slave even though I've never owned one before. A submissive that leans in that direction MAY be ok, but will have to understand that I'm pushy and will tend to take control of all aspects of her life. Your needs will be met but your "wants" will be at my discretion and be as rewards for doing things right. If you upset or disobey then you will be punished. Simple. Reward, punishment, or leave. No simpler way to put it. If you need to relocate then I will pick you up if you live East of the Mississippi and send you a bus ticket if you live West of there. I WILL NOT send you traveling money if I haven't met you in person and you will have to make your own way to any transport I arrange for you. Again. Simple. 

It seems that things are finally falling into place. Have been working on getting a new house since June and HOPEFULLY will be able to close next Friday IF nothing else happens. Now all I have to do is find the right woman to put in it. LOL  Not THAT hard is it?  RIGHT! :-(  Well, the search continues....

Those of you who have talked to me a little know I'm a truck driver who gets little time off. I'm HOPING to be off part of the weekend and since it's been awhile since I've had the chance to "play" I've set up dates with two different women. Before anyone goes off saying that I'm just playing around, BOTH of them know I play with others and are OK with this since they are not always available when I do get time off or are too far away for me to visit at a moment's notice. 

Still looking for the woman who will be everything to me. The submissive with whom I connect on all levels both in and out of bed. I know it's not easy to find the right ones on here but if we don't look and put ourselves out there, no one is going to find us.  

Well, I need to get going again. Hope that everyone is having a great day,

Kenneth

Recently I've been talking to several submissives from different parts of the country and sometimes world. I don't care where you live IF you're willing to relocate IF things work out. If that's not possible then we're most likely ONLY going to be friends and do most of our talking online and on the phone. Yes, I give my number pretty freely when I find someone to whom I enjoy talking. Even as a friend you can expect that I will tend to dominate you to some degree though I will do it more for your benefit than my own. I believe this is the role of a Dom: To encourage, direct, guide, as well as be there as a friend when one is needed. Yes, it's also part of my role to discipline but that's more of a joke than anything else when done on the phone or online other than telling someone they've screwed up. Yes, I'm more of a "Daddy Dom" and that's a role I feel comfortable with and that comes naturally to me. It's not only WHO I am but also WHAT I am. If you're looking for a totally sadistic master, then you'll just need to keep looking. It's not me. 

Just a few random thoughts tonight:

Somehow it seems that I want more than just a submissive. I ask for more than a sub wants to give but I'm not harsh enough for most slaves. Are there any slaves out there that DON'T want a harsh Master? I'm too harsh for submissives but I don't want to "break my toys" like it seems that some men on here do. My sadistic streak is somewhat different than others too. I'm looking for someone who whats 24/7 control in REAL LIFE and not only online or the phone. I would prefer someone willing and able to travel with me for extended periods of time also. I'm also interested in talking to submissives and slaves that are only looking for friends.