Hello, than ks for reading my profile. I understand that a lot of folks think that 24/7 is the only way to do this, if that's you, more power to you. It simply can't be that way for us all. Yes I am married. NO, I am NOT going to leave my wife. Yes I need more than we have after 25 years. I am looking for someone that is approximately the same situation. Married to a good man that you love...but you need more than the vanilla relationship can offer. Or perhaps simply looking for someone to be with but not all the time.I can travel within a reasonable distance. I can spend the night or weekend sometimes. You should be able to do the same. I work nights and am online in the daytime. I have experience in some areas but do not claim to be a master in them. I have used singletail whips since I was a kid. I am quite good with floggers. I have taken workshops on bondage, canes, duct tape, watersports, floggers including florentine style. I like to learn. I would like someone that could attend workshops and the like with me. Sex is only part of the equarion with BDSM. I also know that some of what we would do is on line and phone, that is OK. I don't really care about body types as much as I do whats inside you. Are you ready to kneel and be the sub/slave you truly need to be inside?
I am real and being totally honest, I would expect the same from you. Have a wonderful day and i hope we A/all find what we seek.

I will trade photos after we get to know one another a bit.