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Looking or a mature submissive woman to develop a long term, one on one relationship. She should look and act like a lady in public, and a willing sexual submissive who wants to please in the bedroom. She should enjoy erotic spankings and willingly allow her dominant to take charge. She should probably not enjoy discipline spankings, but understands that they happen when she needs motivation or does not please her dominant. She knows that when her dominant is pleased she is rewarded with pleasure and treated like a princess. She respects herself and has a need to satisfy the urges of her dominant. She wants her dominant to value, respect and treasure her. Her dominant is not looking for a pain slut or someone who desires to be beaten or humiliated. In his eyes, abuse, beating, and humiliation do not promote self esteem and a willingness to submit and grow within the relationship. He doesn't want to make everyday decisions for her. She has a brain and he expects her to use it. He will provide guidance, instruction, and discipline when necessary, but his goal is to develop a relationship where she know his needs, understand his expectations, and willingly wants to please him because her mind wants to feel safe and secure and her body wants to feel his fingers and lips toying with her, driving her sexual desires until she begs him to take her any way he wants to. And he will.