Male Dom new to Southern California. Looking to meet others in the lifestye. I've been involved in BDSM for longer than I sometimes care to think about! While I do take the lifestyle very serious I also know that there is more to life than just BDSM. There has to be a balance between living BDSM and meeting all of the other obligations in life. I like to think that I've been able to fit BDSM in some way into most every day living. I don't seek to "live BDSM 24x7" yet there is always some aspect of it present, if it's in your true nature you cannot just turn it on or off like a light switch. It just doesn't work that way. You may be able to push aside for a time, but in my experience it always comes back. It's just a part of who I am.
I'm looking for someone to share my experience with, someone willing and open to learn from me. I'm not one to jump right into a scene or whatever. I want to invest time and effort to get to know you and let nature take it's course. I've found that there is a direct correlation between the effort put into building a relationship and the strength of a relationship.
I do have pictures that I'll gladly provide but due to personal reasons I can't post one on this profile - had bad experience having done that before, won't repeat that mistake again.