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thesweetestone
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MendMyWays
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deviatedefiance
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I am very respectful, somewhat of a conversationalist, but in a lot of ways...quiet. I dont talk the talk, as I believe actions speak louder than words.
Ive been involved in the scene and the lifestyle a long time, and have had the honor of being a DomMaster to several subsslaves. I am often told that I must have split personalities. On one hand, I am soft, kind-hearted, nurturing and loving. On the other, I am intense emotionally, physically and mentally. I am quite capable of going to the edge without going over.
Im an amateur BDSM photographer and passionate about rope bondage, so Im always open to doing a photoshoot. A purely non-sexual, fun, artistic type of shoot.
Two sayings that describe me
*Do not mistake kindness for weakness* - Unknown
*Whatever it takes to make things happen, thats what (IllWell) do* -Me
Take care - Ferret
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Completely random, since there isn't anything that "triggered" this entry...
MY THOUGHTS ON BONDAGE
Bondage should, in my opinion, be the following
* Tight
* Strict
* Heavy
* Neat and uniform
Any "victim" of Mine should expect all of the above ;-)
To me, bondage is an art form as well as fetish. I can do a tie without doing anything else, while I will put a sub in bondage for impact play. So....bondage is always involved, somewhere along the way. I love leather cuffs just like many others. In fact, there are times I will use leather exclusively. But the above conditions are still met.
I HATE sloppy bondage. Almost to the point of puking, lol.
Anyhow...rant over. We now return you to your regularly scheduled rants and raves |
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I read in so many profiles that women see many cock pics and such.
WHAT THE FUCK is wrong with those of you who put them up??? Want to know what that tells me and 99.9% of the other member? You probably don't, but I'm going to say it anyway...it shows you have no redeeming qualities.
And that goes for women, as well. If your only profile shot is of your pussy or tits, I have the same opinion, and won't take you seriously. This isn't a vanilla sex site, it's a place for BDSM.
To get a serious and genuine response or approach, HAVE A SERIOUS PROFILE AND PICS |
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I am not a good guy. I'm a nice guy and I wear my heart on my sleeve most of the time, but I won't kid myself or anyone else.
I can be very selfish, putting my wants before other's needs. I do put others before myself a lot, but that doesn't make me unselfish.
I am ruthless when I want to be. Women have fallen for me and I walked away because I didn't feel the same or my feelings changed.
I'm an asshole. I refuse to allow myself to manipulated in any shape or fashion in my personal life. I will not chase, nor ever "beg" for someone to be with me or stay with me. "Don't let the door hitcha where the Good Lord splitcha"
I'm untoppable. If I fuck up, you can bet that I will have admitted something long before someone else will. No one will ever have anything on me or over me. Period.
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Honor, Integrity, Respect and Acceptance. These are my principals, the words I live by. I will not compromise them, I will not be dishonorable.
I will stand up for what's right, come what may. At the end of the day, when I look in the mirror, I can tell myself I'm proud to be who I am.
Can you say the same about yourself? |
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"The Gift of Submission"
Okay, I have got to say this...submission IS NOT a "gift". It is "inspired". The choice one makes to submit should be valued and cherished by the person "receiving" said submission, and not abused or mistreated.
I am a natural Dominant. The advise and guidance I give is free of charge, commitment-free and just WHAT...I...DO. I am not God's gift to women or the BDSM community. I'm just doing what I can to make a difference in someone's life. So is my "Dominance" a gift? No.
The choice to submit to another is generally made after trust and respect have been established, thereby making it a natural progression, than something "given" or "taken".
To me, I read "My gift of..." and think, "I'm pretty sure this person would be offended if they read 'Should I choose to grace you with my presence' " in my profile. That smacks of arrogance and haughtiness.
I respect all from the get-go, and earn trust. Again, its a natural progression. |
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Isn't anyone interested in just making friends and chatting anymore? |
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I have discovered, and have been told, that when I spank by hand, its worse than a paddle. That makes me smile, I must admit. And...its a great toner for the arms as well ;) |
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Never been one to journal regularly. Think I'll try it more.
So to start, I'll give My opinion on "roles". I began in the.lifestyle "journey" when I was 18. I knew I liked to lead and help people. I met My first sub, though our common link didn't come out until a couple months later. We were both Navy and met "vanilla style", at a club on base. After finding out what we had in common, she told me she was a submissive and explained in more detail what that was. We went to LA where I went to my first munch/play parry, and discovered more about me. Basically, that I was a Dom. I was very raw and had much to learn. About life in general as much as I did about the Lifestyle. In no way, shape or form would I say I was a Master. In fact, I don't think I really developed Lifestyle-wise until I was 32. I'm still learning, and always will. A Master is not always right. We are not God, and make mistakes as much as anyone. But we take responsibility for our actions and those of our subs/slaves, and make things better. How so we do this? Life experience. BDSM experience. Someone who is younger and/or still beginning their journey doesn't HAVE that experience yet. So HOW can they call themselves Master? Just food for thought.
The same goes for a slave, in my opinion. If you're 18, how can you KNOW you're a slave? Because you read Anne Rice or other erotica? Being a slave, same as being a Master, requires TOTAL commitment.
You can be a Dom or sub "part time". That is not aimed at all Doms or subs, just making a point, as I know there are full time Doms and subs. But you CANNOT be a part time Master or slave. It is a never-ending, 24/7/365 work in progress that taken total commitment to/from those involved. Just some food for thought. |
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"Posted from SAFerret's iPhone"???!!!! I have an EVO!!! That's like calling a Bull an Ox! (if you don't know the difference...Google it) |
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And the results of the BDSM Test:
You Scored as Sadist (Really?!!!...Who'da thunk it?!!! :p)
"You like to hurt people and find it arousing. It isn't a problem as long as you find someone who likes what you deal."
Sadist
96%
Dominant
93%
Experimental
75%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
53%
Switch (Pfffft!!!!)
36%
Bondage (more like 100%!)
29%
Vanilla (Only when it comes to ice cream)
21%
Masochist
14%
Degradation Lover
14%
Submissive
11%
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