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	Rylos2inDe


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	The 30 second overview (details below) Intellectual, honest, fair, listens to input, dominant sadist who is serious about my responsibilities. Seeking a LTR, play partner, and friends. I am a Dominant -- I naturally tend to make decisions in a relationship. I often do not even realize I am doing it. I just do what feel natural. I do not, however, think that this is all about me. It is about being in a relationship where I lead after considering both of our needs desires. I am a Sadist -- I enjoy inflicting pain and love the sounds a person makes when I do it. The control is wonderful, the responsibility is serious, the trust shown to me is very rewarding. I am one of those quiet types. In a Ds relationship I dont believe in shouting and demanding because it isnt my style and should be unnecessary. I believe in quietly discussing things and after considering my submissives input I will make a decision. How I approach any given Ds relationship (play partner, girlfriend, long-term) is really going to depend partly on the person I am with. For example, I would really enjoy being a sadistic SOB with the right partner. I can also enjoy the softer side of things. I am also a masochist. I have found that from time to time I enjoy pain and the feeling of having control taken away from me (think willing victim definitely not submissive). This would likely be on a once in a while playtime session kind of basis. I would probably want to seek that out on a case by case basis with play partners. What am I looking for? I looking for friends, play partners, and female submissiveslave for a Ds based relationship. A dominant or switch women would make a good play partner for scratching my masochistic streak once in a while. Outside of kinky things I am a geek. I love science, science fiction, history, and all things technical. I have also enjoyed being exposed to things outside my normal interests. It makes for an interesting combination when your interests only partially overlap with your partners. Politically I consider myself a moderate. On social issues I am somewhat left of center and fiscally a bit right of center. I can be respectful of most political positions as long as it doesnt involve intolerance. Please feel free to reach out to me with any questions or just to say hello. You can also find me on FetLife as Rylos2.

11/26/2022 11:54:50 AM

Moving to Denver in early 2023

8/20/2017 10:12:18 AM

Going to be at the Indianapolis area event Red Black and Blue coming up this next weekend.

8/5/2017 4:11:49 PM

I have noticed a number of what I call "angry profiles" by submissive women. The profiles tend to go on about what they are NOT looking for and how they will not (quite understandably) put up with being treated with disrespect. No woman should have to put up with disrespect or with being used (unless that's your kink)

I can understand that there are "dominants" on collarspace who are jerks and these women want to put the jerks off from contacting them. I do suggest however also including something in your profile that talks about what you DO want. There really are some nice guys out here. Give us a chance to see that you are more than just angry.

2/20/2017 2:19:34 PM

Went to the Indianapolis area Beat My Valentine event. I learned a lot about myself after attending some of the power exchange relationship classes. I don't think that a vanilla relationship will ever work for me. The Dominant/submissive or perhaps more likely the Master/slave dynamic is too much ingrained in who I am.

1/16/2017 4:54:32 PM

I went to the IMAS Munch yesterday and had a blast. I didn't know anyone from when I was a member a long time ago but everyone made me feel welcome. I am looking forward to growing some new friendships!

All I need now is a submissive to practice my skills on :-)

1/3/2017 10:33:23 AM

I am going to the IMAS "Beat my Valantine" event in February. I'm not sure how I will feel in a group that size and probably not knowing anyone there, but it is time to get back into the scene!

12/18/2016 7:46:57 PM

This is copied from my previous profile from when I was in a lifestyle D/s relationship:

Tips For Submissives (and Dominants too):

1. The dominant is in charge because the submissive says so. My Girl follows my lead because it is in her nature and because she trusts me. What I say goes, as long as I meet my responsibilities and take care of her mentally, emotionally, and physically.

2. About Safewords: safewords are USEFUL. I like them because as a dominant I do not want to make a mistake and hurt my Girl. She uses safewords to let me know that there is something wrong when I might not realize it. Maybe a wrist has gone dangerously numb, or I have touched an emotional nerve she didn't know about.

3. Be willing to say, "This isn't working for me". Then you can talk about it. It might be that a small change will address your concern and enable your dominant to have what he/she wants.

4. Be willing to say, "I really don't like this but I am OK with it if you want to do it". There have been times when I started doing something because I though she would enjoy it, not because it was something I enjoyed. It would have been a waste if I had kept doing it and neither of us enjoyed it much! On the other hand, there are things I enjoy that she really dislikes, but she has told me I can do them if I want to.

5. Be willing to make mistakes...then learn from them.

I can't consider myself an "Experienced Dominant" since I have only been in a D/s relationship for about 6 years. In a way I think that gives me an advantage. I KNOW I don't know everything, not even close.