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Dom/Sub Couple, 52/43,  Florence, Texas
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RydernCarissime - photo 1
RydernCarissime - photo 2

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Good Morning,

We are a Male led couple actively seeking a submissive male female or couple. ( More pictures can be found at alt name Ryder2705)

We are both experienced and she is much more a first girl.

meaning simply while she is my slave she would be Dominant to you. However as a full time slave she could and would also act as a mentor.

I am Bisexual as is she so the submissive would be expected to be as well.

My biggest thing is control so a power exchange relationship is both desired and expected with both of flogging and spanking. I do some bondage though I am by no mean an expert at it.

I have spent my life learning new things such as fire play, electric play, and a whole lot of others. There are very few kinks I say no to and am always willing to listen study and try things to see if I like them.

I have been told I am to intense and tend to scare people away. I have trained many slaves and they all are healthy happy and better then they were when we met. This may sound arrogant but in reality I am very good at what I do.

I wont judge you so there is no reason not to write us.

As I reread this I realized it was all about what we want not what we have to offer to others.

We offer a place where you can be the Slave you are. That includes sexual as well as domestic. ( We do have children though they arent and wont be involved or even aware beyond the vaguest notion that I run the house.)

We have both the room and resources to relocate the Slave of our dreams. The only thing required of you will be your service.

If you read this profile you will receive a thank you message. If you are interested reply to it. I am tired of spending thirty mins composing a message and getting one or two word replies or none at all.

We we are not looking for endless emails or online fantasies. We are real and looking for real.

pictires will be made available after initial contact.













Gender Identity:










 6' 0"

 220 lbs




Gender Identity:










 5' 8"

 195 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Begging (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Renaissance Faires

 Anal Play (Expert)



 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)



 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 G-spot Service (Beginner)



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Journal Entries:
1/12/2018 2:48:16 PM
Just got my new violet wand kit. Played with it for the first time she had a shocking good time grin.

1/1/2018 5:50:11 AM
Awesome New Year’s Eve party last night. Anyone on here who hasn’t been to a munch or a public play party. Find them on fet or the web and go thaw where you actually meet people.

12/30/2017 4:41:29 AM
Awesome time at the spanking Party last night. The look on her face when she slid out of the truck and her denim skirt slid across her marked bum was awesome.

12/29/2017 7:59:50 AM
My name is Ryder and I’m a toy hoarder lol.
Was packing for party and since is a spanking party only taking paddles. Turns out I have a half gym bag of nothing but spanking things.
That is on top of two bags of floggers. A three drawer dresser of other toys and a backpack full of rope.

12/26/2017 8:49:15 AM
Finally all moved in. Still have a bit to do in Ohio but just cleaning. We are going to a spanking party this Friday. Time to get acclimated to the community.

12/23/2017 8:10:02 AM
Apparently because I went out of my way to show that I am what I say I am people believe I’m soft.
Just because I refuse to harm a slave doesn’t mean they won’t be treated like a slave. Their days will be completly structured and they will have no voice in running the house or in what they do.
i may And will treat you as property and nothing more but that doesn’t mean I won’t forget you can be broken.
in other words your slavery will be complete strict and harsh. However you will be able to feel safe in the home thought perhaps not in the moment. If this intrigues you message. If not I wish you the best in your journey.

12/3/2017 7:10:24 AM
For some reason I am unable to upload
photos. I will keep trying but if you have a fet account we are Masternslave21 there.

8/24/2017 11:16:10 AM
 Meeting someone from on-line can be a scary prospect. How can you be sure they are who they say they are etc. It's an age old question applied to new technology. Before computers these lies were told in bars or anywhere else people gathered. Starting a relationship  any kind can be scary since it leaves us vulnerable to emotional pain. The only thing we can do is take the chance and hope it works out how we want it to.

The huge difference is now we meet across distances and we've all heard the horror stories about murder abduction etc. How do we protect ourselves from that.

First we talk to each other a lot across all media learn as much as we can look for red flags etc. Second we can be sure we meet in a public place perhaps a
munch. Meeting in person we can start to see if the person is who they say they are. Maybe a play party so we can meet the people who know them perhaps watch them play with someone and see if their skill is what they claim.

We can set up safe calls with code words. Call someone at a predesignated time and the conversation has to have that word in it. If it doesn't then the person on the other end of the call knows there is an issue.

Most importantly be sure someone knows where you are and who your with. 

Be careful but don't be fearful after all how can you find what you want if you don't go for it.


8/16/2017 5:40:53 AM
So no responses to mail I've sent yet am still hopeful thought.
Was thinking about safety this morning so decided to write down my views.
SSC vs Rack:

Safe sane consensual: For the most part I agree with this concept. A Dom has to be sane in order to insure a scene as safe as possible. Consent is vital to this lifestyle even in an M/s relationship where consensual non consent holds sway. The issue I have is a lot of the things we do by their very nature is not safe. Tats why I prefer Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Which simply means everyone involved in the scene knows and accepts and has given consent for it.

Limits: I hear so often people say I have no limits. I assume these have to be new people who just haven't really thought about their limits or haven't considered what is really out there. Everyone Dom and sub has limits the trick is to find them and work inside and with them.

Safewords: Another thing I hear shouldn't be allowed to which I respond what if a knot slips and your fingers go numb how would you let me know. Red and yellow are both neccesary. I need to know when your approaching your limit with yellow so I can decide I found and how I want to push it. Red so that I don't go beyond I pride myself in never harming a sub however occasionally I will cause pain.

8/15/2017 8:02:23 AM
So I decided maybe I should write my thoughts on this journey to find a couple for us.
Perhaps to clarify things in my head maybe I should write out my thoughts.

What do I want for us. I want a sub/slave to serve us domestically in a bdsm way as well as  sexually. I don't care about there age looks or what their relationship is. What matters to me is what is in their heart. I want them to be able and open to service and training. 

What do I mean by training? I have a lot of interests in the lifestyle from fairly tame sexual flogging scenes through to the more extreme type. I understand that those I accept will in all probability be new or newish. That means they will have to be brought from where they are to where I want them to be. This will take time, patience, consistency, and firmness.

I know it will not happen overnight but I want them to be available to us 24/7 that means a live in situation. This would start with meetings and play and training from more of a distance while building the needed relationship and deciding exactly what I want it to look like.

I have no expectations of what's out there right  hopefully will be able to find the couple of our dreams.


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