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| I was introduced to D/s a few years back and VERY much would like to explore more experiences now that I have the opportunity. I don't know exactly what I am looking for relationship wise. I guess I will see what develops.
I found my D/s experiences to be strongly erotic, deeply satisfying, and liberating - more so than vanilla sex. I have some very Dominant fantasies and a few that involve me being submissive to the right woman (but I really identify as a Dom, my submissive side is pretty locked away). I really like the build up and developing pretty elaborate ways to start a scene. Don't think for a second that I don't enjoy using a sub. I just really enjoy creating great and elaborate fantasies and scenarios for her and slowly building to the actual sex acts. I think that the mental part of all this is the really wonderful and gratifying thing. I will occasionally just go for straight for the physical, but the mental part is what I fantasize about and roll around in my head throughout the day.
I assure you that I will be respectful and slowly ease into play. In fact, I am always respectful. I don't know how you can really do this kind of stuff without respecting your partner. If your idea of a Dom is someone who just tells you what to do all the time and treats you like shit, I will not satisfy you. I would like a real friendship (and perhaps more with the right woman) both inside and outside the D/s realm. In either case, I will treat you with respect as you will treat me. I guess I am very big on the CONSENT part of consensual non-consent.
As for the types of women I am into. I have a fetish for very dark hair and women who are in good shape. There is something very sexy about a woman who has a bit of muscle or at least muscle tone (but not too much) on her. I have kind of a Wonder Woman fetish (for some reason she was always being tied up in that little red, white, and blue outfit, I wonder if that is where my kink started). This is not an absolute requirement. I do like all types. It is just an ideal.
Generally though, I am not into BBW, but might make an exception for the right person.
In my real life, I am very vanilla - a lawyer at a large law firm. I am very well educated and can speak intelligently about a great many subjects. I am unable to spell retreive, wierd, and recieve correctly more than 50% of the time because that whole "I" before "E" except after "C" business is complete bullshit. You should be educated or at least be smart. Please be able to write coherent sentences, even if you have to ask for help. Finally, PleAsE DoN't WRite Like THiS Lol, omG!!!
I also have a goofy sense of humor sometimes. As I would like to spend time with my sub outside of D/s scenes, please be able to laugh with someone and even see them be a bit goofy when we are just hanging out and not engaged in D/s activities. Sometimes I feel like my daily experiences are part of a tv sitcom. In essence, inside D/s I am the boss. Outside, we are partners and equals and hopefully like each other. That is what I hope you expect too. Otherwise, we won't get along very well.
Come explore with me? Please drop me a note if you might enjoy playing. We can talk (in the real world) and, when you are comfortable enough to grant me your consent, we will go from there.
PS. I have a thing for water, and would love to find ways to incorporate my pool and hot tub in our play. Not sure how I'm going to do that, but we'll figure it out.
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