Questionnaire for prospective bottoms
I won't consider any proposals without your filling the followed questionnaire. It is used as the filter to separate candidates unsuitable to me. You shouldn't invent the criteria of my interest for me - they were honestly enumerated in my profile. Therefore simply sincerely answer questions. I can guarantee from my side, that your completed forms will not be shared and are for my personal use only. And I am not going to continue correspondence with the bottom, which proved to be unable to carry out this simple task as answering a few questions.
I recommend for the beginners to look up in the Internet any answers to the their own questions (for example, what any fetishes named on my profile mean).
Thus:
Who are you?
1. Name, age, sex, the place of residence, occupation, education, kinky positioning (sub, bottom, switch, etc.), sexual orientation.
2. The facial picture (publish it anywhere and provide me with the link).
3. Short self-description (2-3 phrases are sufficient).
4. Family status (family, civil marriage, the presence of permanent female partner, solitude the like). Whom you live with (alone, with the parents, with the children, with the wife)?
What are you searching for in the lifestyle?
5. What place does BDSM occupy in your life? How long have you been practicing it? What do you expect to obtain from the kinky relations?
6. What BDSM areas (SM, BD or DS) are interesting for you and why? What are unacceptable and why? In what of described do you have a real experience?
7. What practices are interesting to you? What in your experience in particular practices? How did you like them? What practices are completely unacceptable? What fetishes cause reservations, but are not entirely rejected by you?
8. Your ideas about the sex in BDSM: what forms of sexual activity in BDSM are acceptable? What are absolutely necessary to make BDSM scenes meaningful for you, what are desirable and what are completely unacceptable? Please list any existing conditions either medical or psychological that may affect play.
Whom you search for:
9. Describe in detail your view of a Dominant woman, with whom you would want kinky relations.
10. If you have a permanent vanilla partner is s/he aware about your BDSM interests? If s/he doesn't know - why do hide such important part of your personality? If s/he does know - why don't you practice BDSM together and how does s/he relate to the fact that you are searching for BDSM partner on the side?
11. Why exactly are you interested in me in particular?
12. Did you read my profile carefully and understand all my preferences and restrictions (beating on every session; no sex, even oral one; YOU should arrange the place for plays; you should be committed to play at least once in 4-6 weeks; I don't have time on evenings and weekends)? Take all of this into account and if you can't fulfill all the conditions, don't write me at all.
Scenes:
13. How frequently do you plan to play? Where? What time and a day of a week is the best for you, considering my limitations? Are you able to make and keep a commitment to these times?
14. What toys are desirable for you? What toys do you own? I have a sizable collection of spanking toys.
15. Are fetishes important for you (corsets, high heels, latex, etc.)? If you want some expensive objects to be used, are you ready to buy them? Do you understand that all insertable toys (gags, plugs etc) you should own yourself? Are you disease-free? How often are you tested?
You should answer EVERY question as enumerated. If I am interested, after obtaining and reviewing the filled form I will propose to meet for coffee or lunch. You have the best chances if belonging to the age category 35-60, fully answered the questions, don't offer things unacceptable for me, display a positive attitude and adequacy for the bottom role, permanently live in Edmonton and we have several BDSM interests in common.
Thanks for the understanding and good luck!
