I am a 55-year old primarily Dominant man who would like to experience more of the kinky side of sex. Something has awakened in me that I have suppressed for a very long time. It is not something I wanted or wished for but it appears my Pandora's Box has opened and the 'evils' inside do not wish to be ignored any longer.

I have been married to the most wonderful woman for 16 years. She is allowing me to search for a submissive woman to explore and satisfy these desires that exceed her limits. Nothing will be hidden from her! She will read all messages and will be kept informed of whatever is discussed. She will actively participate in the selection and approval of whom I meet with. She may have questions for you and I demand the same respect and honesty to be given her that you will give me. We will tolerate no lies and no bull shit.

UPDATE: (mid-May 2005) ALRIGHT!Her Domme side has awakened! We are now a Dom/Domme couple! Thru our communications and interactions with people We have met, Madomme wants a 'user friendly' submissive female cuffed to Her St Andrew's Cross to be spanked and paddled and to explore Her limits on for Her/Our enjoyment! Initiate contact with Us if you may be even remotely interested and do include some photos with a description of your interests when you respond.

I am not taking this lightly! I realize the one I seek will not be found overnight. That is alright. There is much to learn first! About you and about me and about our limits--and beyond!--that we need.

What do I NOT seek? Someone looking for a Sugar Daddy. The diseased, drunks and drug addicts need not apply. Nor those jaded or 'burned out'. Or those overly
un-proportionate in height-to-weight. Nor those with 'Fatal Attraction' syndrome. No offense meant...just not my preferences.

What DO I seek? Every married man's dream, of course! For starters, very discreet. No strings attached! Occasional. Local to SE Texas. Realistic. 10 to 30 years younger. Able to travel to meet. Mostly sane! Cute. Slender to proportionate in height-to-weight. Somewhat virginal. Impeccable personal hygiene! Sexy lingerie and ripped-off clothes. Multi-orgasmic. Craves giving pleasures. Enjoys receiving toys. On oral fetish tho I am not particularly the "On your knees, bitch!" type guy. Curious about kink. A little on the humble/obedient side. Someone with a need to explore her masochistic side with bondages of chains and cuffs and clamps and spankings of all kinds...nothing extreme until we grow there together. A potential pain slut.

What will I SETTLE for? Damn close to the above.

I feel certain I can take you to whatever extremes you and I seek and need. In time, if you desire more, I am sure I can accommodate you there also. And bring you safely back.