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RufusCrowder

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I'm looking for an open minded, brilliant bisexual. I consider myself open to most things - send me a message: suggest something. start a conversation.
Tell me your deepest, dirtiest fantasies and ill tell you mine.

I take a little time to trust people to meet them in real life but i would hope it would be worth it. First up - I'M A TRANSMAN [female to male. no surgery]. Some people get a bit confused about this so i may have to spell it out. I was born female but live as a male. I have had no surgery so i still have breasts and a vagina. BUT I present as male. because i am male. Please respect that. that said i dont have any no-go zones. I may not have the body i want but i only have one and i might as well use it for pleasure.
please do not ask if i will dress up as female for you. I have had people in the past expecting and wanting a feminine female or to present as female in the first meeting. No, Im not shaving every inch of my body for you. no i will not wear a dress for you. no i will not be a woman for you. I'm terribly sorry but if you are looking for that, please look else where. * In the past i have been looking for an older well dressed Sir. I will do anything for a man in a nice suit, and shiny black dress shoes who will bend me over their knee and spank me. Just for starters. Its my weakness. and that hasn't changed what so ever but.... I'm more dominant with women once we both find out what each others limits are a little more familiar with each other. I'm looking for a feminine woman that enjoys being a play thing, that likes to be spanked, fondled and tied up and teased. being tied up naked on the floor while i read the paper or being forced to come repeatedly just so i can enjoy the noises she makes. i can have my head between a womans thighs for hours. Perhaps a woman who would want me to tell her what to wear, who would spread her thighs for my fingers in the cinema or discretely under the table. Ideally im hoping to find someone here of either gender or anything inbetween who can be prim and proper on the surface and be discretely filthy in public and wild in private. I can't really list my fetishes and wants here because i want to try and taste it all with someone compatible who wants to do the same. A partner in perversion. Hopefully NOT married as i dont feel comfortable about that.
Mainly looking for open minded kinky friends [hopefully with benefits] but who knows what will happen. Queer ahoy most MOST welcome! I need to ease myself back into the swing of things after a long break so making friends who are still in the scene would be great. Show me the ropes! I'm happy to chat about anything as long as its not sport or computer games because i find them achingly boring. I don't give out my email address or phone number to people unless i trust them, i dont do MSN, AIM or anything like that or do chat on here initially. sorry.
1/8/2012 8:00:32 PM

Looking through peoples profiles i see a lot of members demanding girls shave their pubic hair. Some people like it, some people dont.

I personally love pubic hair. You can pull it gently, nuzzle to it to smell. Its something to toy and tease. i prefer it.

 

 

1/5/2012 5:31:58 AM

In a perfect situation...

I would like to be a commanding, intelligent and dignified Sir/Madams pet / companion. Part valet, part plaything to someone old fashioned in dress and manners.

My duties would be ensuring Sir/Madam looked more than presentable at all times, had everything they required at all times, and were sated.

 

The most important part would be mutual respect. There has to be some fondness and dignity. Not too familiar but an underlying warmth.

I want to be owned by someone who i would be proud to serve every whim of, to want to learn and anticipate their each and every preference and mood. The sight of Sir/Madam to fill me with pride.

I am not into humiliation much, but I'm not into a great deal of tenderness either. I like a firm hand metaphorically and physically. but saying that, i react well to positive reinforcement. Im looking for a delicate mix of sternness and tenderness.

I want Sir/Madam to teach me to be more confident. To better myself. To learn more.  They must care and demand that i be immaculate, prompt and willing at all times and be strict on ritual, manners and protocol. The joy of bending these is the thrill.

 

Sir/Madam may choose to speak to me when i am in their presence but not to be wanting an answer. I am there to be an audience of their musings, not to converse, unless clearly told i have permission to give my opinion.

 

I would be very keen to do any behaviour or activity training such as deportment. or just activities that amuse Sir/Madam.

 

I'm open to the idea of maintenance spankings and the like, as well as obviously being corrected and punished for any mistakes made with old fashioned punishments (especially religious school punishments). Or simply being grabbed and put over his/her knee if he/she felt like it in the moment. (I am hoping to 'graduate' to 'enjoy' being caned as its more aesthetically pleasing, isnt it?)

 

I get a great deal of satisfaction from ritual and routine.

I have a clear head when i have a purpose and know exactly what i should do, especially if it is making a great person even greater.

 

To assist Sir/Madam in grooming, washing and dressing would be an honour.

To be summoned to dry Sir/Madam off with a towel after bathing, my hands and lowered eyes allowed to be intimate with their nakedness.

Helping with dressing particularly with socks/stockings and shoes. To be allowed to caress their calves while putting their socks/stockings on, to lick Sir/Madams shoes clean with my tongue if Sir/Madam feels like it.

to button and fasten, adjust and smooth out.

Also to help them undress.

To light their cigarettes and small things like that.

I would run errands for Sir/Madam such as dry cleaning and trips to the post office. and make sure his home is tidy.

Some times Sir/Madam may want to be accompanied in public. I may carry his/her items. They will decide if i am to pretend i am not in their service in public.

Perhaps at times sometimes Sir/Madam will allow us to speak and act as equals in private or public. To spoil me with his/her affection occasionally.

 

If he/she required to let off steam, i would be available for them. Either be witness to their own rituals and hobbies, to fetch things, massage,  perform sexually, or be a participant in any other favourite act of release, sadomasochistic or not.

 

Sir/Madam will touch me when ever they choose to do so. I must be quiet and allow them to do what ever gives them gratification. be it the briefest fondle through clothes to fucking me brutally over the nearest piece of furniture.

 

I could think of nothing more satisfying than to be seated at the feet of Sir/Madam at the end of the day, while they relaxed with the paper and a drink (or anything else they would do to unwind), his/her fingers threading through my hair absentmindedly, feeling being pleased with my days work of making sure that they were immaculate, thoroughly organised and relaxed.

 

 

I have high standards which may be my problem but I am happy to wait to find the right person to serve. In the mean time i will try to find someone who will train me so i am at the best of my abilities when i find the right Sir/Madam.

 

 

 

 

8/21/2011 7:53:45 AM

To start with- just the basic gentle vanillish stuff.

 

I like seemingly innocent situations.

I like sneaky fondles in the cinema, under a table or anywhere else in public.

I like someone knowing the simple word or facial movement that makes me want to do anything they want me to. I like them using this information against me in public.

I like being taken advantage off and taking advantage of others.

I like watching people masturbate.

I like sitting in a nice comfortable chair, being ignored and watching people fuck each others brains out while i have a drink and a cigarette.

I like to be completely clothed [tie and shoes and all] while my female partner is completely naked.  I like to be completely naked while my male partner is complete clothed [tie and shoes and all].

I like to have my hair gripped and pulled.

I like being slapped in the face.

I like to be bent over, held down by a man.

I like tying a woman up and enjoying her body with my tongue, teeth and fingers for as long as i want.

I like to wrestle and it turning into rough sex.

 

 



I like accommodating other peoples fetishes.

 

 

 

 

 

ritchy12
 
 Age: 19
  Connecticut