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Preface: Yes, I'm aware I'm "doing it wrong," and "not a true sub/slave." How about if you feel that way, simply move on and let those who are also doing it wrong and not true kinksters be the only ones who contact me? I really don't care how you do what you do, but rest assured there are people who believe *you're* doing it wrong, too. So live and let live, hey? I'm looking for two men, both Dominant and able to work together in dominating me 24/7 365 in a closed poly triad. I would also be interested in one Dominant man and one male switch able to maintain a Dominant role when interacting with me. I am a submissive/slave/little, all wrapped up in one person. *I will consider monogamy if you are retired or your time is otherwise free enough to commit to spending 24/7 being my fabulously evil Dom/Master/Daddy and you are extraordinarily inspired and multifaceted in your practice of kink. (Some subs are greedy; I'm infinitely voracious.) While I am very kinky depending on your definitions, love and trust are paramount in any relationship I'm willing to consider. I'm also as fun-loving as I am serious, so good-natured affection, kindness, and being down-to-earth are all traits I have and look for in others. If you've got your head in the clouds but your feet on the ground, you're my kinda person. I am very passive and submissive in general, but I am intelligent, creative, and loving. I have a strong need to be in some form of bondage as much of the time as humanly possible, and desire partners who are intensely controlling, sexually insatiable, and fairly but not extremely sadistic. Things I need in a relationship: helplessness; variety; constant control (never through manipulation--not my kink--just be worthy of my trust and adoration and I'll be happy and fulfilled by doing what you straightforwardly ask of me); surprise; a balance of strictness and sweetness, pain and pleasure, extremes and aftercare, laughter and tears; communication... If you live for connection, creativity, experimentation, and control, you are welcome to contact me. If you are stuck on one fantasy/scene or kink and that's all you've got, we are not going to be compatible. If you want a relationship that runs on autopilot, we are not going to be compatible. If you're invested, curious, complex, and thrive on finding new ways to expand and express your love and kinks, we should talk! Edits: *Due to some rather surprising queries I am stating here that involving people or living things that cannot give legal consent due to age, species, or incapacity in any sexual or kinky act is a hard, hard, hard limit. *I do not believe males are inherently superior to females (or vice versa). I personally prefer a submissive role, but would vote for the ERA in a heartbeat. Equality for all in society benefits the whole society. If you opine otherwise, we just won't get along. Only serious inquiries will be met with a reply. Thanks!
6/7/2015 2:28:19 PM
Vanilla Likes

I thought I'd add some of my tastes here to give potential Doms a small idea of them.

Music: Absolute favorites right now are John Grant (also his former band The Czars) and Neko Case (also her sometimes band The New Pornographers). I tend to like things that are brilliant in an offbeat way--musicians who've been to art school and artists who've been to plumbing school kinda stuff. Tom Waits, Ryan (not Bryan) Adams, Beth Orton, Lucinda Williams... I like many kinds of music, though, but not in a cataloging sort of way where I reel off band and song names ad nauseam. I'm more of a "plug a couple of names into Pandora and see where it goes and what I discover" kind of person. I do also enjoy classical and opera, especially live. 

Art: I go through phases. I tend to like things from the turn of the 20th century through about 1930 best, but appreciate most visual art and love wandering in museums soaking it in.

Literature: The same period, 1900-1930ish resonates with me a lot--Virginia Woolf, Djuna Barnes, H.D., Pound. I do like a lot of contemporary literature as well--Don DeLillo, Louise Erdrich, Mary Oliver. Guilty pleasures are murder mysteries all the way! Agatha Christie, Dorothy Sayers, even some lowbrow Janet Evanovich all find their way into my hands at some point. I was an English major, so I've read and enjoyed most types of lit from Chaucer through today.

TV/Movies: Always a sucker for said murder mysteries; less so the police procedural type and more the Masterpiece type. Poirot never gets old. I watch a lot of British stuff, I guess. I like things that teach me something or have a unique point of view as well. One movie that semi-recently burrowed under my skin for a while was Her with Joaquin Phoenix and Scarlett Johanssen. I do almost always like Woody Allen's stuff as well, from the "older funnier stuff"  to experiments like Shadows and Fog and romantic narratives. Again, I'm not really the cataloging type so I don't go out of my way keeping up on pop or hipster culture, I just come across this and that on my merry way.

Food/drink: Sadly for my love of trying new tastes, ethnic foods of every deion, good coffees, wines, beers, and spirits, I have had to change my nutritional approach to Auto-Immune Paleo in recent months. It's still full of good food but much more limited. And no more caffeine or alcohol. Gotta take care of my body and apparently this is what it needs these days. :)

Podcasts: RadioLab is awesome--I'm an addict. I've also been listening to The Heart, Fresh Air, Wait Wait, Meditation Oasis, Here's The Thing, Invisibilia. I wish Brain Pickings had one!
6/6/2015 2:14:53 PM
Housework/Domestic Servitude

For those who ask why as someone seeking 24/7 submission/slavery I don't want to spend my time doing your laundry...

I'm looking for creativity, variety, stimulation, control, sexual use. Housework *might* involve control if it were highly supervised or something, but involves none of the other qualities I need in a relationship.

There are scenarios or specific domestic uses I'd be attracted to.

Here's an example of something off the top of my head: Tie my wrists to my ankles, stuff the handle of a lint roller up my ass, suspend me from a pulley in the ceiling, and let your guests use me to neaten up their clothes. Voila--humiliation, bondage, suspension, insertion, objectification all in one.

Or: Bind my hands behind my back, use a spreader bar between my ankles, clamp small feather dusters to my nipples and make me dust your bookshelves using only my tits while you flog my pussy and ass. 

See the difference between what I'm looking for and sullenly rinsing hershey squirts from your tidy whities? One is dynamic, fun/torturous, and will result in excitement, happiness, and devotion all around. The other is something you can hire an unskilled laborer to do for minimum wage, and is about as erotic to me as going to the dentist (which, to be clear, I do not find at all erotic). 
krizzy01
 
 Age: 24
 New York, New York