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looking for playmates with benefits. some one to play with and hang out on occasion. Women only, submissive or dominant i love upfront and imaginative partners. someone cleaver and open to experimenting with a dirty dirty mind. local would be best but i don't mind a little travel time as long as it's worth it.
I've been into the scene for awhile now and know what i want. now i just have to find it.
i love to give and receive massages, i am a very hands on player and would like the same. I'm not looking for a truly sadistic Dom. but i don't mind masochistic Subs. i don't like inflicting pain so much, unless they sexualize it. i will receive pain from a Dom only b/c they enjoy giving it, not b/c i enjoy it. i love to tease and be teased. hours of play only to release at the very end is my ultimate goal.
So after a day that started out really promising; then turned to complete shit, then great time with amazing friends, a 40Min drive home with happy thoughts and great positive mood music, a great 15 min conversation with random gas station attendant about assholes that don't tip at 2am in the morning, i discovered the definition of my soul-mate/mates.
Being a truly ADD person my mood changes at the drop of a hat but, can be sustained with repetitive events, I realize I want/need
A. Sub that can take the punishment when I'm pissed at the world
A. Switch that keep me positive with great back and forth.
A. Dom that can push me mentally and physically when the world has me down.
if i can find all in one, one for all, or any combination in between. That will make my life perfect.
and the only thing that suffered was my poor puppy who had to stay locked up in the house for 13hrs. but she was an excellent subbie. She showered me with attention, ate tons of food, and then asked politely to go outside.
All in all it was a good day.
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