Why do so many Doms think that by ordering a sub from early on to perform tasks, submit and do what they are told that this is appealing?
Sure, being confident and knowing what you want and showing the strength to get it is great, but true subs, in my opinion, the ones who are willing to invest the most of themselves will not submit blindly.
It shows a lack of insight into the true D/s dynamic, a hint of misogyny and a little immaturity to be so blatantly seeking only the 'act' of having a sub submit rather than expressing the desire and ability to foster and earn a complete trust and submission.
So rare it is to find a Dom with mature insight and sensitivity, and an understanding of both sides of the D/s dynamic. But how easy it is to quickly tell Doms apart!
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