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I am looking for a Master who wants only one submissive to fulfill all his needs. A Master who wants a submissive he can have whenever he wants and train to do anything.
A Master who wants his submissive to love him deeply and spend her life wanting to continuously give him all kinds of pleasures. I am interested in a 'takeninhand' relationship which you can find out about online if you search. I would like a Master who is willing to give and commit to the same level, and who has the maturity to know how to care for a submissive.
11/10/2007 2:53:15 AM

Why do so many Doms think that by ordering a sub from early on to perform tasks, submit and do what they are told that this is appealing? 

Sure, being confident and knowing what you want and showing the strength to get it is great, but true subs, in my opinion, the ones who are willing to invest the most of themselves will not submit blindly. 

It shows a lack of insight into the true D/s dynamic, a hint of misogyny and a little immaturity to be so blatantly seeking only the 'act' of having a sub submit rather than expressing the desire and ability to foster and earn a complete trust and submission. 

So rare it is to find a Dom with mature insight and sensitivity, and an understanding of both sides of the D/s dynamic.  But how easy it is to quickly tell Doms apart!

8/5/2007 12:27:48 AM
To further clarify what I seek,  I must say that I am not into leather or costumes or exhibitionism.  (This is a reluctance, not a hard limit). 
I do not seek to enter the BDSM 'scene' through clubs. The D/s dynamic is a private mental bondage first and foremost, I dont like acting or exhibitionism, because to me this is not the true essence of D/s. 
Costumes imply a game to me, and I prefer someone who doesnt need to dress up to feel dominant, and who doesnt need to dress up for his dominant effect to be exerted. 
7/27/2007 3:49:45 AM
Please note:  I am not interested in anyone under around 33, sorry.  Likewise although I know many older men can be truly great Doms, I am ultimately looking to start a genuine relationship with someone therefore I am not really interested in anyone over 45.  sorry if this offends.
nurse4you83
 
 Age: 34
 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania