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| People are not simple, at least it has been my experience. I am divorced, a white college educated professional, that enjoys the friendship of others that can think outside the box when it comes to relationships. I am not necessarily on here to find sexual encounters, but more the kind of friends that can understand and get the fact that I like tying rope, making rope, rigging rope....and maybe some naughty fantasy play once in a while in the bedroom...that might include mild humiliation, leather fuzzy cuffs, or spreader bars. I am not the person that wants to find multiple sexual partners for the sake of multiple sexual partners....but I am truthful when I say that if I were presented with a unique setting, such as a hotel with two single moms that are enjoying their vacation for the first time in years away from their children..that I might help them enjoy their fun together if they were inclined....just saying. I have probably said too much...it seems to be a taboo with the bdsm crowd....but I do have this secret fetish that most don't seem to want to admit...that sometimes it is a deep dark desire to want to see their girlfriend being pleasurably ravaged by their guy...with or without their being a part of it.
I am laid back...I don't like the pain with bruises and torture and mind games...I am pretty simple..I like to keep it simple....and fun. The exploration of a new toy...the laughing of a predicament...being tied so well that you fall over when you try to get out of it....it is all part of the fun of it. I don't necessarily want something that is going to emotionally scar or hurt...sex and intimacy should be enjoyable...or at least therapeutic...lol.
I am curious about the tantric energy...I just discovered a unique type of lovemaking that sounds so hot I have to find out more about it...called Pompoir...or the Shanghai Kiss...but I am still not sure where to look...lol I like to learn...I am not sure being shy is going to get me to the point where I can sit in a hottub and smile as a friend or two is telling me about their sexplorations...that can be it..not in a sexual way...but it is nice to be able to chat without being afraid of being judged......or stopped from being themselves.
I am looking for meaningful connections...friendships that are open enough that I can chat about things that are adult...and not be putting pressure...and hopefully being open enough to make it easier to let those that want to approach and let me know what they are curious or want to experience.
I am not interested in being bossy..submission and dominance is more a hand fitting into a glove...it isn't about dictating or imposing a willful intent on a person....it is more an understanding and trust....I don't get off on the sadism...maybe playful sarcasm.
Ideally, I would love to find a girlfriend that is also tired of games....and wants to explore the world of being adult...without the shame or guilt of stepping back and saying "Why not?"
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| Age: 25 |
| Virginia Beach,
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