I enjoy origami. 

A fantasy: We're at a swingers party (yes, my wife and I have an open marriage) when a lady comes up to me with a piece of paper and asks me to "fold her something pretty". I can never turn down those kinds of requests so, of course, I sit down and start folding a flower. It's fun to fold and chat at the same time, sort of an automatic conversation starter. 

As I'm folding, she comments that she "ought to do something nice for me in exchange", so she unzips my slacks and pulls out my hardening cock. While I'm trying to focus on the fold, she drops down between my legs and starts sucking me off. Of course that's pretty distracting (not to mention totally enjoyable and extremely exciting), but I work hard to split my attention between her mouth action and my folding. Fortunately I'm able to finish the flower before she finishes me. As I offer her the piece, I notice there's another cutie standing nearby with a piece of paper in her hand. As the first one stands up and kisses me thank you, the second lady says, "I hear you fold origami. Will you please fold me something pretty? I'll make it worth your while." As before, I can't refuse such a nice request. As I take the paper from her hands, she sinks down between my legs and continues the blowjob. As before, I work hard to split my concentration between her and the paper. My concentration is such, though, that I don't notice that line of ladies, all holding a piece of paper is forming to watch, and wait their turn.

Somehow the urges grow. I find myself seeking a play partner... one who will enjoy the intensity that Shibari brings. 

However, living in the middle of nowhere makes my passion more difficult to slake. I don't mind travel, though, as long as it's doable in a reasonable amount of time. Driving 300 miles, arriving tired, and smelling of the road doesn't exactly add to the ambiance of playtime. Flying is a bit expensive, not to mention the interesting looks I get when TSA looks through my luggage. Last time I didn't even bother to explain the large quantity of good rope, dildos and vibrators, nipple clamps, etc. But I do wonder what they thought of the lava lamp.