"But an accurate definition of the self is impossible. You are more than you realize, more than you can define. And the more time you spend trying to nail down the definition, the less time you spend living right now. ... Your past is not your identity... You, living now, is your identity." --George Lawrence-Ell

I need more human interaction in my life

My journey towards transcendence and self awareness has been kicking my ass, but I'm enjoying every moment. I wish to gather experience, time spent with others, and observance. I want to try my hand at things, look at things, ask questions, laugh, hang and live....

I'm comfortable [satisfied, elated, content, overjoyed, in self love...] in my skin, you should be too before contacting me.

The sadist

I enjoy beating up on people, whether emotionally or physically. I don't have much experience at topping but I am looking to expound on what experience I do have.

At the moment, I don't mind playing with any gender, with a particular interest in Transgender women, MtF, and natural born [take that as you please] women. I have no to toys/tools of my own.

My sadist is mostly an emotional sadist. The psychological aspect of BDSM never ceases to fascinate and enthrall me. I have no stipulation against long distance or online dominance as well.

This exploration of my sadistic side is very new to me, I don't have much to report on it, since I only let him out when I feel comfortable with a person.

The masochist

I enjoy bottoming a great deal. I would love to find play partners,
Play as defined by me is a quick synopsis of what I like and do not like. Those in inquiring online to be a Play partner of mine should check outPlay Partners, as defined by me.

Chances are, if you've met me in person you already know much of what I like, even if it isn't listed.

rope bondage

How important is it to me? It's everything It’s more than a hobby, it’s more than a kink, it’s an extension of me. It's the ultimate connection from me to you. I don't get nearly as much of it as I'd like to, mostly due to extreme shyness and general social discomfort.

But If by chance you enjoy bondage, please get in touch with me. I would love to help you practice :)

Generally, those looking to play should be able to provide a space, as a college student living at home [kinda] It's impossible for me to provide a space. Also, if you find yourself living outside of NY state, like in NJ, it will be increasingly difficult for me to get out to you. Please ladies and gentlemen, If you know you live out of the way, do not contact me.

Come talk to me! I'm pretty normal...whatever the hell that means.

~ Birdy