"Passion, it lies in all of us, sleeping... waiting... and though unwanted... unbidden... it will stir... open it's jaws and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all, and we obey. What other choices do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love... the clarity of hatred... and the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. If we could live without passion maybe we'd know some kind of peace... but we would be hollow... empty rooms shuttered and dank. Without passion we'd be truly dead."
Who am I? Well, that is the question you seek, if you are looking at my profile. The question is much larger and more complicated than that, isn't it?
Is this Man what I am looking for?
Does he know what he wants?
Is he willing to take it?
Is what he wants.... what I want?
Is he the one for me? Have I found what I am searching for?
So difficult to find your match on this site. They set it up this way, I think...
It is more a site for dreamers and fantasies. For people who would never make a real connection or commitment to live out that fantasy in their minds.
Fantasies are not all bad, I suppose. A person lives their life, content with what they have... but they have dreams of what else is out there, what else they could have if their lives had been different.
BUT they do not want to give up what they have, or their passion for all this isn't strong enough for them to make an effort in real life.
I do not judge, as I would want no one to judge me. We are all imperfect creatures. Driven by our passions as much as by our needs.
Who am I? I am not avoiding the question. If you are like me, you yawn at the constant drone of these profiles. Not that the people are not trying, just the lukewarm hope of it all.
But we try, for what else can we do?
Who am I? A mix of contradictions- with, I believe, my good characteristics shining through.
My name is Nick. I live a rich but quiet life in the Montclair area. I take pride in being a good and loyal Man in my personal life. I am a professional in my work life. I work hard and I do good work. I am well respected by most and considered a trustworthy Man. A general description, yes, but you haven't earned the right to know my personal info yet, have you?
What is there, deep inside of me that draws me to this site? My passion. A passion that started in my teens and has grown with me. I have a passion for bondage, for power exchange, for the unspoken feeling when a woman places her trust, her body, her mind in my hands and, without words, says, "Take me, I give myself to you." What could show more trust in a Man? What could be a more powerful declaration of the sentiment, "I trust you with me... with my whole being... with my safety and my soul." It is the ultimate affirmation of my position as a caretaker of your heart, your body, your spirit. It is what earns me the right to be called your Master.
