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| I have arrived here from a long ways away. You see...I came across space and time all the way from Galifrey. Oh wait a minute, no I didn't. I actually am just sitting in front of my computer trying to think of a witty first sentence. A sentence that would "capture the reader's attention" and make my 9th grade English teacher, who drilled those words into me, proud. Now I suppose I have gone off the rails and started talking about my 9th grade English teacher here on a BDSM site. But....did it get your attention?
I will keep this brief. I am no stranger to the BDSM world. In fact, I started exploring it in earnest before I was even legally allowed to smoke a cigarette. (For reference, I do not smoke cigarettes...it was just a point of reference...work with me). The odd thing, though, is that for the past 14 or so years I was a devote submissive. I met many wondrous Mistresses and gained many wonderful friends and experiences during that timeframe. I have evolved, though, to the point where now I have become an unabashed dominant. There is something that is now so alluring to having a woman as my submissive and be able to inflict upon her all the things which for so many years were inflicted upon me. My interests vary widely, but my attitude as a dominant is very much informed by all those years as a submissive. Notably, I know that having a mutual degree of respect is important. Yes, there is a dominant/submissive dynamic, but that does not mean that you cannot be tremendous friends who still hang out and do "normal" things together outside of the BDSM world. I would very much seek that in a submisssive...that friendship and mutual respect. I am not saying that this will necessarily turn into a committed romantic relationship (though if it does then it does), but I do think that mutual respect and friendship is an important dynamic.
As for the activities that I like to do with a submissive...well...the sky is pretty much the limit. I think it's important to get to know a woman so that you can figure out what makes her tick and consequently what BDSM activities will make her submissive heart go pitter-patter. Perhaps that involves nipple clamps, dildos and long sessions...or perhaps that might involve just hanging out and watching the latest Netflix series (Stranger Things, anyone?) with her being naked and collared and me being clothed with me then giving her occasional, subtle reminders of her vulnerability by having her spread her legs and take in a few fingers...or ride a sybian. The point I am trying to make is that I have to truly get to know a woman before I can truly judge what will make us click together. I should note here that I do have a formidable collection of toys that I can put to use. I am always respectful of pre-discussed limits and I have a few things that I put as limitations on myself which include: nothing illegal, nothing that will cause permanent damage, nothing sexual involving animals or children, nothing involving scat play, nothing involving "hardcore" public play (e.g. play that might get us arrested), and nothing that involves any role play that plays upon racial, ethnic, etc biases.
Now, in terms of who I am looking for I would say that is pretty wide open. My main priority is that we click, so I do not necessarily have a set of physical characteristics to check off and I will try to respond to anyone who sends a well-thought out message displaying comprehensible grammar that demonstrates that you have read all the stuff I have written here. So, basically any woman from age 18 and over regardless or race, ethnicity, etc is welcome to contact me to see if we click. I look forward to exploring this journey with any of you and I hope to hear from you.
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