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INACTIVE AT THIS TIME
Well, I was a member for quite some time prior to the recent issues. It seems that I have been able to fix this. Please use my profile of RomanticRenoMan for any e-mails.
Thank you.
I have always felt that there need to be many things that two people must share, including the very vanilla, for a relationship to develop and to evolve to one that lasts a lifetime. Merely sharing common BDSM interests will allow two people to "play" or share a "scene" but ultimately the relationship will be limited. The closeness of the people will suffer without the sharing of so much more than that and the willingness of the two people to truly open up. I am something of a romantic and feel that for two people, be they vanilla or not, to truly share their lives, they need to first and foremost care very deeply for one another. Yes, love. To laugh together, hold each other, effortlessly talk about anything, and know that over the course of time the two of us are growing yet closer is what I hope to find in a full life with the woman I absolutely adore. Humor, intelligence, a love of the wonders of Velcro (which I have written in upper case as it is a registered trademark for “hook and loop fasteners”) and the unbridled joy of popping packing bubbles are all helpful to make a loving, long-term relationship work. I want to make you smile and you to make me smile, to always be thinking of you and of us, and how to make you just a bit happier each day. That is not submission. It is love.
If you are a woman with whom I can form a bond and are funny, bright, and well-grounded please do be in touch. I am romantic, loving, and caring. Even years from now, I want us to love our time together, talking until the sun rises and acting like crazed minks, unable to keep our hands off each other. I want to meet the woman I can freely adore and worship. Obviously I have a number of BDSM interests that have evolved in the course of more than fifteen years in the BDSM community, but to simply list these, below, tends to make people not read much of this profile and only see if we connect with common BDSM interests. Yes, with the right woman, I will most assuredly be tied, spread-eagled naked, helpless and subject to more than merely "bondage light."
Ideally, you will have an erotic imagination such that you will think of things for us to enjoy that I have not only never done, but I have never even HEARD of. These should be performed in a loving relationship and NOT require the participation of multiple, identical achondroplastic dwarfs each of whom is wearing a spandex French maid uniform. If you have a career that you really enjoy, it's a real plus, but it should not be one requiring a tremendous amount of travel away from home, such as working at a traveling circus side show as a contortionist or animal tamer. These are great careers if the circus has a good employee benefit plan and travel is infrequent.
I have many vanilla interests, ranging from going to comedy clubs, seeing movies (including everything from independent films to absurd teenage comedies), and searching through used bookstores. I don’t hang glide, rock climb, or kayak. I have always thought it preferable to see bears in the controlled environment of a zoo rather than in one’s tent while camping. I enjoy reading and learning about topics that I find fascinating, especially those involving nature. These include how animals evade their predators, regulate such things as their oxygenation (important for diving whales and seals) and body temperature and, in general, have managed to deal with the incredibly diverse challenges of surviving in the bitter cold of the arctic and conditions as arid as the Sahara.
I am one of the least judgmental individuals that you are likely to meet. I only have difficulty when people purposefully harm others, physically or emotionally. If we are discussing even your deepest, darkest most personal hopes, wishes, and fantasies, I will be so very thankful that you have felt that you could share these with me -- and perhaps we can share not merely the conversation, but far, far more -- together.
Atypical disclaimer:
ATTENTION: If you wish to conduct research that will portray adults who engage in consensual BDSM in an accurate way, please feel VERY free to use my profile. If you are conducting research in which you are not objective and are hoping to make adults who engage in consensual BDSM be portrayed in a negative light, then you do not have permission from me to use any of my profile, postings, or pictures in any form.
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