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	Please note recent changes. First, this is no longer a couple's profile, as my former sub has decided to return to the vanilla world. It was an amicable "divorce" and I have nothing but positives to say about her. Second, I am in search of another female sub. I am open to the kind of relationship in that I will not impose any strict guidelines about the characteristics of the person (race, height, weight, sexual preference, marital status etc.) I seek for this kind of relationship. Third, while I will keep my profile here, I will primarily search for a new relationship through the non-cyber world. In other words, please write to me here if you have an interest in exploring this kind of relationship. I will not play email tag, but will plan to meet face to face soon after you make contact, note your general goals and preferences in a Dom and spell out your limits. Fourth, as many of you subs have noted, a Ds relationship requires trust on both sides. Therefore you must be willing to meet in a public place face to face soon after contacting me and you must be willing to spend rt together in both vanilla activities and lifestyle activities for trust to develop. Fifth, I view CM as a place that doesn't always equate with honesty and intimacy. Therefore I will not disclose much personal information other than the basics on this site (e.g. no pictures, phone numbers, addresses, will be disclosed until I actually meet you). That kind of information will be willingly disclosed to female subs after a meeting in a public place and after we mutually agree to explore and develop a relationship (whether it be as a friend, a Dom/sub relationship or something more). I look forward to hearing from those who are sincerely interested in meeting an intelligent, honest caring Dom for mutually satisfaction and pleasure.

6/25/2011 4:01:57 PM

Well as most people discover needs and wants change. Sometimes this is occasioned by a new interest or discovery about ourselves. In this case it involved the both of us. We discovered that we both have been more successful when we have been able to share ourselves with another female. For her is a combination for ongoing companionship when I am away on travel. She also discovered she likes to use her strapon in our fmf play as she feels more like the alpha female. We both want someone we can take care of and be served by.

So note we are seriously interested in meeting a sub female who is willing to play this role in our lives. We also want something that extends outside the bedroom with both of us but in different ways. We would like someone who can travel with us from time to time to lifestyle activities or vacation with us. Obviously we are not expecting this right away, but if you want to play with us, we will certainly explore those options at some point. Note we are not ruling anybody out right away, but these are our intentions.

So drop by let's meet over drinks or dinner (the first meeting doesn't require play or any commitment) and see how much of this you want to pursue with us.

5/24/2009 6:08:48 AM

We have been away for awhile, for travel and other reasons and had to change our screen name because we couldn't get into the site otherwise.

We are kind of concerned about this site, as we note in the last two months only 5 new people in our area have joined, suggesting word of mouth is not good about this site.

Note we are serious about meeting others on this site, if not for play at least for friendship. One thing we notice is few people even respond to our inquiries. We only respond when profiles of those indicate some compatibility. So why are so many people being so impolite. A short message of not interested is warranted unless we are way off the mark described in your profile.

Also we do meet people and we don't feel a need for a long exchange of messages before we sit down and see if there is chemistry. No is still spelt "n--o". So there is no risk of us pursuing it beyond that if we meet. At least we avoided a lot of time online just chatting.

Okay the rant is off. For those who want to participate with us, write and expect a quick, courteous response and if warranted an invitation to meet.