Well things arent always what they seem so it appears. It seems that switches in collarme are doomed as not submissive enough for Dommes and too submissive for other submissives... !! *smiles*.. Someone i met on here said that switches are more of kinksters than either or which could be true... What I find interesting though is how we all appear to need to be labeled.. personally Im a guy a typical guy. I dont think Im totally submissive or dominant. I guess that makes me D/s flexible.. but the question is if being a switch and being open about being a switch doesnt attract then what about all those people out there who may have lied about what they are just so they can attract..? so is it any wonder that there is so much heartache and disappointment when people lie about who and what they are because the truth isnt good enough...

If your not prepared to accept the answer.. dont ask the question.... just a thought

Started talking with someone on here its amazing how quickly you can find yourself imagining and fantasising about another person especially when they match your desires and needs..

Im generally a switch.. but when this gorgeous dominant switch started speaking to me I found myself wanting to serve her almost immediately.. I cant believe how quick you can find yourself wanting to serve to be desired used.. needed..

The mail method of communication is great.. to a point but I dont know about you but I just find myself waiting with anticipation at the reply.. damn me for behaving like this.. I need to get some respect back *laughs*..

Its good to be controlled once again.. blue balls or no .. grins

Met and chatted with some interesting people on here.. although conversing on Tennis Messaging gets awkward.. What strikes me is that there are a lot of people who are egotistical in their approach not being straight forward about what they want or what they can really offer..

I find that if you are prepared to ask the question then be prepared to take the answer regardless of whether its what you want to hear or not..

Life isnt black and white.. its different shades of grey..

Theres a great line at the end of a favourite film of mine called Pleasantville ..

'There isnt any 'meant to be' there just is..!'

Been on collar me via the Iphone the interface is a lot slicker than the web version really interesting however I still thing certain aspects of the search engine dont seem to work that well. For example why not make the profiles match.. so you can see who like what you like.. and get talking with them..

From what I can see a substantial amount of women on here seem to be interested in experimenting bisexually which means that unfortunately I fear Im the wrong sex.. hmmm is that why there are so many TV's, Transexuals.. trying to get on the sexier side..!!

Well Im a normal bloke with a lot of kink so Im just going to keep on pushing forward.. maybe soon Ill find that reflection Im looking for.. soon maybe..

Well Ive been on Collar me for a while now and finally started to look into it in more details. I have to say I have never had such an insightful and often humorous look into the various foibles of male and female relationships..

Finding the right person to be with however is as hard as well.. fill that in for yourself..!

With all the women on collar me i have to wonder what people say to get the attention of each other. After spending a lot of time in second life  a virtual world where you can talk to people and play at BDSM trying to get into the real scene is a lot harder. The last munch i went to had one Domme and about a dozen guys.. all bar one who were sub.. I so hope thats not typical if it is.. I dont know what Im going to do.. oh and todays question.. does it pay to be nice when you talk to women in Collar me.. or does the hey i have a huge cock.. wanna play.. have a better effect..? size incidentally is always relative..!!