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| Update: I now have a lovely woman as my slave and not looking.
I want to develop an intimate and intense long term BDSM/sexual friendship with a woman, bottom, for erotic pleasure and to get a better understanding of this side of myself. BDSM is a foundational part of who I am and I am looking for one woman to accompany me on this part of my journey.
I am intelligent and creative, responsible and sensitive. I have a rich vein of cruelty and demand that I can bring to bear.
We will take time to explore our shared erotic landscape, to find the heat and the wet.
For my part, I will use you to the full extent that you can bear.
As for you, I require that you hold yourself available to my desires. What matters to me is that our chemistry works. Age, size, intellectual bent and so on are NOT what I care about.
I'm no Adonis looking for a brief hookup with Aphrodite, where an important element is the gorgeous intertwining of two beautiful creatures. I want to be with you, a real woman, in a longer-term way that lets a friendship develop in which both of us experience pleasure and grow. My expectation is that together we can uncover and appreciate these parts of ourselves that are otherwise not accessible.
I'm not available for further romantic attachment. I'm already solidly anchored. I am happily married. None of this - my BDSM fantasy life, Alt, real submissive women etc - is hidden from my wife. She is joyfully vanilla and not turned on by BDSM. I would not be here without the (years of) conversation that we have had and her explicit encouragement. Including "Don't let her chop you into pieces - there are strange people out there." and "Why don't you meet her at such-and-such cafe."
That said, this is a very intimate exploration for me. My wife and I both know and accept, again after much discussion, that it is inherent that deep warmth and affection will develop with the right woman.
And you?
You are creative and delight in exploring non-vanilla.
You enjoy words, as well as whips and chains.
Your body - well, can I say that who *you* are matters far more to me than your shape.
Your level of pain tolerance or desire is not so much the issue for me. I care that we can play together and create intensity and excitement for the two of us.
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