I would like to say that I am not looking but hoping to find… but that is not the case.

I am a sexually dominant man, and have been for as long as I recall. This is not something I have noticed at a certain age or something I want to try after getting bored of one night stands, this is what I am, have always been and will probably be for the rest of my life. However, this is also something most people would not believe about me, and I have no desire to join a club or advertise the fact in public. It is a relevant part of me but not the whole story.

I like natural people, people who know how to be themselves. This does not mean that one has to be confident or outgoing, but I like people to be what they really are, be it shy or talkative. I want a sub to truly be submissive.

I am not going to list my “likes” and “will not does” as I find that this does not differ from any normal relationship in the fact that it is all about chemistry. If the chemistry is not there then no matter how good a session is, it will still feel like you were just going through the motions. On the other hand, when the chemistry works it makes it divine. I also believe that creating the right mental state is more important than what you physically do.