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hiya
my name is Riya… or Kika (they're both actually based on my real name - Ri-Ki).
i'm just a naturally submissive and androgyne boy really, sometimes a bit ditzy! Very liberal and forgiving, and highly creative in everything from fashion to music to art.
i am very submissive and androgynous, as you can see. I guess it comes with years of being bullied at boarding school :(. I used to be quite gothic in my Joy Division days. Then i became quite emo-tional for a while, and now i guess i'm going through a black gothic stage - often clad in skin-tight shiny black leggings, tight-fitting fishnet tops, ripped Nirvana/AC/DC rock t-shirts , DMs and black eyelashes with deep black eyeliner, black cherry lipstick and deep violet nail polish.
I would say i am very cool, chilled and sexually alluring…somewhat catlike
I have died my hair almost every colour under the sun (EDIT: is there actually a colour OVER the sun? ..hmmm... there's a thought). Pink, green, blond, strawberry red... Now it's jet black, and shaved at one side Rihanna style. I often crossdress - i like being a girl mostly and love to display a wide array of looks from Japanese gothic lollita, to babydoll sissy. Even when socially out as a boy, i often mix it up with girlie TopShop tank tops over skinny black jeans, or some hippie bands/bracelets so quite a trendy mixed unisex look overall.
The reason i am on here is mainly being fed up with normal vanilla sex and need a genuine Mistress to attend munches, fetish events or just be there to do her bidding. I am completely open to trying everything and putting my trust and faith in everything she orders me to do.
regrettably though (and being honest) i think that the majority of people on here really do not know what a true D/s relationship entails. here's a heads up:
a) It is much more than pressing your caps lock button: ('LICK MY BOOTS/SUBMIT TO ME').
b) It is in the mind - not just about getting a paddle and bashing the living daylights out of someone.
c) it is not something that can be bought in an instant: (''YOU WILL PROVE YOUR WORTH BY SENDING ME $$$ TO MY PAYPAL", yada yada yada).
d) wouldn't even look at a profile of a Domme under 25.
I've noticed a trend amongst all findoms I've seen here appear to have no genuine interest in BDSM at all: They are all women. Not just women, but mostly heterosexual women. Where are the men?? Are women statistically more cutthroat with their purses? And why do I see findoms attempting to appeal only to men' .. helllo? ker-ching $ ?!?!
Because Women, 'know'. ...and in my subservient mind, i think like a Woman, with my heart and with my mind, so No, i won't send $$$ to your Paypal Account.
(By this point, if you are a genuine loving Domme - Please Read On:
a D/s relationship, to me, is like any other true relationship - vanilla or otherwise. needs to be nurtured, shared experiences, built on trust, developing and getting to know each others lifestyles and socially growing together. i would call it 'mutual exploratory development that forms a bond over time...'
I have been fetish since 15 i guess. A few years ago, i was owned by a Japanese domme-witch (she was a Headmaster in a TEFL school) who coaxed me into rope bondage, and forced me to drink her pee-pee which was really lovely.
Also when i was exchange student/gap year in Berlin, i fell into ownership of a brutal Hitler-esque German Frau who would dress me rather strangely! She had a role-play fetish based on this 'feral boy' who had been lost in the German forests as a baby and raised by wolves. so Frau used to put ripped ragged clothes on me, force a latex butt-plug with pony tail coming out of me, and put studded spikes on me and black ripped fishnet - she then used to parade me round to all dirty Berlin fetish clubs: Kit Kat Club, Berghain and so on… she would slap me, bite me, spit in my mouth (which i LOVE), and totally humiliate me -- then when got home, tie me up in the corner and leave me there as her stool… or sometimes bring some of her aristocratic friends round to abuse me - (…but that's another story). And so. I wouldn't class myself as a novice.
Distance isn't a problem, as my work takes me around Europe and the UK occasionally. But only if we really really connect with each other, and you're in, say Glasgow, and i'm in London, I would love to travel to meet. Is so refreshing to get out of my part of town and meet interesting people around the UK ... But only for the right person.
Apart from that, i am also looking for a genuine, real person to meet, hang out socialize sort of thing. sweet ! x
Thanks for reading, and i'll leave you with some Random Facts about me....
- I really, really love hugs :)
- I like chinese food and walks in the rain splashing big puddles like a child.
- I like classic comedy and people who can make me laugh.
- My fave movie is Eternal Sunshine, or anything by Michel Giondry
- I feel kinetic energy whenever i'm near a Hare Krishnan
- I like classical music, like epic heavy Wagner/Holst - heavy epic shit!
- I am a Liberal, but not a Lib Dem.
- I can be very Tomboy (and you won't be able to keep up with me as i randomly climb that tree!)
- i love messy type food fights and playing with mud in general
- Cant stand dark chocolate or grapefruit.
- i have a fetish for dressing as feral/wild animals (Where The Wild Things Are)
- I've taken naked photo model shots of Agyness Deyn
- I used to work for Simon Cowell
- i gaze up at the starz...and love moon-gazing. Getting into astro-photography too!
- I love naked mud-wrestling and tickling (non-sexual please)
- I'm a Capri-Quarius (born right on the cusp)
- My favourite extra terrestrial planet is Venus.
- I'm a naturist and love the human form
- i actually READ profiles here - they intuitively tell me far more, than a face pic ever could
- I like books but by really obscure authors.
- i speak near fluent Russian and i love Dostoyevsky, Bulgakov and east European culture
- Roger Taylor dressed as a schoolgirl in the 'I Want To Break Free' video was strangely very HOT
- Kevin Bacon is NOT the centre of the Universe
- I love dancing round in circles bare foot
- I love dancing around camp fires
- I 'm fascinated by sunflowers and love travel and geography.
- Prefer Moore to Connery.
- I like old horror films on dark windy nights or in scene-y cliquey theater houses
- Not really a pizza fan. Not really a footie fan.
- Hate it when MS Word tries to change colour to color - (american imperialistic programming)
- Am such a hippie (must be an Aquarian thing)
- I love sudoku but cant do long division.
- I like Joy Division but not long division
- I like division bell more than darkside of the moon...
- I have never tasted Marmite
- I re-do high-5's if they weren't good enough the first time round
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LET'S START A REVOLUTION HERE:
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'Straight' 'Gay' 'Bi' etc are meaningless terms.
We need to dispense with the inadequate language we have inherited for defining sexuality. It doesn't work and our use of language determines (or more properly limits), how we can imagine and relate to the world.
A comparable analogy would be to say that the only two terms we could use to define human intelligence were the words 'clever' or 'stupid'.
We would instantly be aware of the inadequacy of these parameters to define the vast complex nature of the human mind as it manifests itself in each individual. Why would this not also be the case for human sexuality?
What we know about sexuality is that like the self, it is perpetually evolving (we are not the same person at 5 as we are at 16 as we will be at 65).
Indeed if we take evolution, as a self evident feature of sexuality (and i believe the internet has exploded any myths that it is a static entity) then we must dispense with any box that seeks to nail down the sexual identity of human beings to just one narrow and arbitrary parameter (if history had taken a slightly different course could we not be dividing sexual expression as eye colour preference? hair colour? or even foot size?).
What we require is not a box, but a universe of infinite space where we can become who we are, nothing more and nothing less.
The fact remains that sexuality is mercurial and with new evidence we must draw new conclusions.
Indeed in shattering these 19th century methods of defining sexuality, we also get rid of the cliches and stereotypes attached to each box, and in so doing we become less cut off from each other, by not making an everything, of what has become at best, our sexual tribal associations and at worst our sexuality ghettos.
Let's open our minds to the possibilities of sexual desire and attraction, as simply the chemistry that exists between two people at any given moment irrespective of socially predetermined notions of who you should be fucking.
Rousseau famously wrote 'man is born free but everywhere he is in chains'. He was referring to the chains of tradition, social convention and familial pressures that limit our potential as individuals.
Lets start a revolution. Starting NOW!
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| Age: 41 |
| Seattle/Tucson,AZ,
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