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I'm seeking a dominant (or couple) within the Tri-Cities or surrounding area whose kinks would be compatible with mine. My submissive and masochistic side is not primarily sexual... it's something in my head, a part of my core being that wants to be let out more. That's not to say sexual servitude isn't something I would enjoy, but that's not the end all be all of what I'm looking for. My inner submissive responds better to women, but I'm equally attracted to men, preferably in your late thirties or early forties. I have two full-time partners, Bina and Perrin, and it’s important to me that everyone gets along. I'm not looking for something that's hidden and clandestine. The relationship I'm seeking with a Dominant isn't one that would simply disappear when I'm away from him/her (or them, if it were a couple). I feel that there are always ways of showing devotion even when my Dominant isn't physically there.
What can I offer you? What makes me stand out among others? I offer my devotion, affection, friendship and eventually even love. Intelligent conversation. My gratification comes from bringing others pleasure and happiness regardless if that means being brought to tears and screams, or snuggling close while watching a film.
I am submissive but I am not a doormat. I can be ratty or impish from time to time with people I really know well. I'm a proud geek (be it video games, TV or books). I've been a member of the local kink community for years, and have stood in as a DM at a few parties, though I dropped out of sight for a few years for family reasons.
I am not perfect, although I strive to continuously improve. I'm occasionally a bit socially awkward, and I'm sometimes the stereotypical male i.e. dense and oblivious, requiring something to be hammered home rather bluntly (maybe more often than even I'd like). I am working hard at improving my health as well.
If you're interested and want to chat more, I'd be happy to meet up at a munch and we can see if things click.
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