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Ridilyn

Ok let’s start this. I’m new to this “net scene”, not that I’m computer illiterate, it’s just that I never bothered before. I’m unaware of the protocols for this type of profile so here goes. First let me say I’m not a mind reader so all I can do is present my self and hope that it is what you’re looking for. I’ve been “off” from the scene for a few years but I’m back now. I am in a long-term open relationship with Shevabree, my partner and sub, so nothing beyond play and friendship.

I’m a dominant black male living in the Stone Mountain of Georgia. I’ve been in this lifestyle since 1987 at the tender age of 19. Looking back I realize I knew very little and am man enough to admit I still have lots to learn, I’ll have lots to learn till my dying day. This is my core belief and I expect the same from my subs. BDSM is a two way street. I fully expect to learn as I teach. Communication is very important; I’m not a mind reader.

I’m not interested into on-line servitude. Nor am I looking for cyber or phone sex. In fact I’m not looking for sex. I understand that BDSM is a very sensual/sexual exercise and at times incorporates sexual acts but that is not my goal.

That being said, I am looking for a sexual/sensual female of no particular age, race, or body type. One who is intelligent and independent yet is willing to submit and serve. I am looking for both experienced and inexperienced women to continue this never ending journey with. I am not looking for someone who believes sub means sub-human.

Well I can’t think of anything else to say. If interested reply. Willing to answer any question but know I will respond in kind. J

6/19/2006 8:49:36 PM
I am baffled and pissed. Ok I admit it. I'm a dinosaur. I don't want to mix casual sex with my bdsm. What's wrong with getting to know someone outside the lifestyle?


I know BDSM is a very sensual/sexual endevor. I know there are sexual aspects to play. But the way I was trained and the way I am is that you don't fuck your subs just because. But damnit you can play without sex. Thats not saying I won't have sex. I loke it as mush as the next guy but I can't have sex with someone just because I was topping them.

Are the subs nowadays so insecure  they think that if "I don't care enough to fuck them I won't care enough to respect their limits" ? And what is up with the whole unwillingness to engage in simple discussion? And the doms here are worst than the subs when it come to just wanting to talk. If I'm not a sub the doms don't want to talk to me and if I don't want to treat them like a sub-human piece of trash the subs ignore me.
BeckieBlows
 
 Age: 28
 Madrid, Spain