First thing you should know about me - I like to be honest.

Second thing you should know about me - I cant help but be honest.

Rick is my first name, it should stay that way. Anthony is my middle name, it should be renamed to 'Is Sensitive'. This is something I've come to embrace over the years. The way I engage with friends, the way I show empathy towards others, even the way I touch myself and the one partner I've had in my life, it's all done with affection.

Now, I'm trying to take baby steps into this exciting world of BDSM which on the surface doesn't appear to welcome sensitive people like me. But I've amazed myself on what I'm capable of in terms of submission and domination. Although I continue to have pleasurable experiences being the 'bottom' (behaving submissively), 'topping' (behaving dominantly) is something I want to explore as well, preferably with someone who can perceive that a sensitive person can dominate with playful conversation and seductive foreplay. Ultimately, I believe the most passionate kind of relationship would be a switch.

Some things I've been very fond of lately but not necessarily limited to are: nipple play, long term chastity, rope bondage, breath play, feminization, take down-and capture, kidnapping.