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I am not looking for anything but Friends-Hopefully they will be honorable women

In my own words:
I am a Renascence man .... my interests are broad... everything from TV production to politics (Libertarian)... to veteran's issues .... I am a VN veteran... to learning to use herbs for health purposes. I am looking for a woman that likes to be treated like a queen and knows how to make her man feel like a king. I love to cuddle. I have been told I am a great kisser. I can take care of myself. I am looking for someone to share my life with. However I am also looking for pen pals and event friends. My spelling and typing are terrible but my voice could melt an iceberg.This Knight's armour is rusty from the tears it has been exposed to from the pain I have felt for others and myself. Please do not assume things about me based on your past. I am not the man/men you have dated before. No I do not smoke ... you smoking does not bother me. I do not drink .. moderate drinking does not bother me. One pet peeve that I have come to know since doing this online looking thing is people who start dialgues and then just disappear. That communicates that I am an object not a person in your mind. Please also do NOT assume things about me. ASK !! Hey do you know who Ayn Rand is?

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12/4/2008 12:04:21 PM
I have worked for a number of years for my yard to be a backyard habitate. I can set on my couch and watch the animals. I especially like watching the birds. In filling out the application to a considered certification as a back yard habitate I found there have been over 50 types of animals and birds.

11/27/2008 8:45:46 PM
Been a long time since I posted a journal entery
I am wondering if "women" on here can read.
I know my spelling and typing is bad but I "think" I have been clear about looking for a friend(s). Looking for female friends who have integrity.

4/28/2008 8:34:57 AM
It appears to me that a Dom's submissive is the most precious possession he owns and has the obligation to help her become all she can be

3/28/2008 11:38:58 AM
Is it not interesting how as life moves on and we are exposed to new things and new way to look at things our minds become clearer?

I hate the term "lifestyle" I hate it whan tops call themselves Doms and visisa versia ... My sexuality ... my mind set ... who I am ... carries over to relationships .... D/s is about relationships ... tops and bottoms maybe just about sexuality ... not sure about that


3/8/2008 1:23:00 PM
I "need" an ass to spank and some nipples to torture.


3/4/2008 12:58:17 PM
At what point do you release her?
At what point does she ask for release?
At what point does everyone just admit that there is no and never was a D/s relationship?

11/30/2007 3:16:49 PM
 
Politeness or manners is the foundation
that allows us all to live together without homicide
It shows are equality
We each are equal to each other
 
Equal does not mean we can not be different
 
Protocol is the next level for us
It is the things that remind of us who we are
and what we are especially in relationship to each other

11/21/2007 9:03:47 AM
I do not understand why people can not accept/realize that
Dominates/Tops
Submissives/bottoms

 are NOT the same thing
that a top may not be a Dom etc.
That a bottom may not be a submissive etc


 Than they complain about not getting what they want ... shaking head

 but they insist that that typing and spelling be perfect




9/24/2007 8:01:08 AM
today my letter to the editor was published
here is the cyber copy
(well they tell me you can not put links in the journal so .... not sure how to post the info)


8/23/2007 8:41:40 AM
I am in the paper... ok ... so I am part of a picture ... it was to highlight a juggler at Friday night live ... but got my Ron Paul banner and me i nthe picture ... http://www.gtherald.com

8/3/2007 9:53:58 PM
I have discovered I have a "thing" for belly bottons


7/6/2007 9:14:25 AM

On July 4, 1969
Most of me returned from VN.

I post this to remind us all that no one goes to war
and returns whole... we all left/leave something behind.

I always have mixed emotions on the 4th.

I feel gratefulness for the founding of our country and wisdom of
our founding fathers   ... they believed that each person owns
themselves and has a right to the  consequences of their choices.

 I feel sad as to where my country has gone.

Some years I am grateful to be alive,
some years I wish that this struggle were over.
The last few years I have been assured in my heart
and mind that I am ready to be with Jesus and that he
has made a home for me but that for some reason there is something
left for me to be here for .... (Maybe to aggravate ya all)

I "feel" for those that have served in combat areas since my return
and for those that are serving now .... I know the battles a head of them in
life and especially
with the VA ..... I "know" that "our" government will NOT keep the promises
made ...
one thing we can all do is hold the feet of "our" elected officials to keep
those promises.
Veterans "benefits" are NOT welfare !!!! They are contractual obligations.

When we entered the service, weather by draft (enslavement) or volunteered
"we" entered into a contract with "our" government. Our honorable discharge
"proves"
we keep up our end of the contract. Now it is and has been the governments
turn.


6/16/2007 12:16:40 PM
Was just reading a joke on a submissives profile and realized how important the humor is a submissive brings to her Dom (oh hell to life).

12/24/2006 10:48:03 AM
WoW been a while since I posted
 and only posting now to say
I wish these holidays were over


10/9/2006 9:38:15 PM
wonderbrat's mother finally passed 24 hours ago .. i apologize for the delayed post


9/24/2006 6:02:26 PM
I have been experencing the bdsm end of this community since I was old ... so that be 40+ years and I have learned two new things about me ... I am more a sadist than I thought and I love belly bottons(sp)

I also am learniogn how disrespectful people can be ... on this site ... oh ya ...
especially the young ... they have no idea what price some of us paid ... did ya all know that for a long time these practices were illegal ... ya you went to jail ... oh well ... let it be


9/8/2006 8:32:58 PM
Wednesday, Sept 6 was my birthday.


7/25/2006 6:04:40 PM
On July 27th I will have went 9 years without and mind or mood altering substances ... When I was young and "thought" I was a Dom the advice was ... live a year as a submissive under a knowledgable Dom/Domme ... I picked a couple .. he was a Dom ... she a Domme ... after the year I KNEW I was a Dom and know how to NOT harm a submissive... I see all these "I am new to this but I am a Dom/Domme" ... oh ya ... where's your training...where is your experence ... Spend that year under a Dome/Domme and than come back and tell us

6/30/2006 7:40:02 PM
July 4th has always been a speaical day for me... 38 years ago it became a double speical day... I returned from VN ... the Blue Angles are here and fly over my home ... I feel like I am back in VN...they will be gone Monday... I hope I can hide that long... there is an event in Lansing I had hope to go to but with gas at $3.00 + per gallon no way...


6/23/2006 12:16:24 PM
I need an ass to spank and blow job. It's been way to long


5/12/2006 7:38:59 PM
Most of my week of VA appointments went OK
Some things did not

I arrived back home tonight
(Friday)
at about 8 PM

I am glad to be home and snuggling with my kitty

One of the people i was corresponding with here seems to have disappeared


5/5/2006 2:56:53 PM
Next Thrusday, May 11, I will be in the Ann Arbor VA hospital having the appliance in my chest replaced.


3/17/2006 10:57:26 AM
Happy St Pat's Day ... I am cooking brisket and cabage. I learned this year that there are two types of brisket. I guess this old dog is not to old ..... I am missing Denise...she and i would be comparing notes of the meal .... to think that two people can become such close freinds and yet to never have meet.

3/12/2006 1:15:10 PM
my friend Denise pased away last Friday morning at 8 AM after a several year battle with cancer. I am missing her. I miss her openness. I miss her honesty. I miss our daily exchange of communications by email and/or phone. Though we never meet we shared each others lives weather they were good,bad or indifferent.

3/2/2006 11:04:13 AM
I am left in wonder. People start conversations with me...they seem very positive ... the conversations and the people ... than they disappear ...shaking head ... welp .. to those that have done that to me and to those that have done it to others ... you have shown your bad manners ...

1/6/2006 6:47:56 PM
Well I tried again. I find again a failing relationship. I guess I go back to there are no women I hate enough to date them.

12/9/2005 1:49:38 PM
I have many wonders in me. One is why 
sensualists (sp) can not just call themselves that instead of presenting themselves as Dom(me)s or Submissives

11/7/2005 10:36:53 AM

I hope I did these new interest things correctly. Especially the BDSM stuff. I can never tell if each of the things are directed at the Dom or the submissive.


10/20/2005 4:45:04 PM
Are you a Dom(me), submissive/salve or a lifestyler?

I am a Dom!!!

9/14/2005 1:56:02 PM
I just saw where a submissive was talking about a fake Domme. I know first hand here at lest two fake submissives. Don't these people know how bad they hurt others? Don't they care?

9/7/2005 9:23:02 AM
Yesterday, Sept 6, was my birthday. I had my cake with my recovery family. I now also have my new computer and will reload Yahoo im soon.

8/28/2005 5:32:03 PM
and yet another experence with a woman that has no honor ...... I am pleased that I am NOT looking for anything but freinds .... I ordered a custome built computer hopefully it will be here next week ....


8/17/2005 12:46:13 PM
I am still using a borrowed computer. I thought I had found what I wanted and purchasd it. It was not what they (Staples) said it was.

I am also still amazed at how rude people can be. However I am more amazed at how people do not read profiles and journals before they respond to a post to them.

If i post you and say I would like ot get to know you does not mean I am "begging" or even asking to be your Dom. I gave up looking for a new submissive a long time ago.


7/20/2005 1:43:54 PM
I have shared this before but frustration brings me to share it again .... if I post you that I would like to get to know you that does not mean I want anything else from you...if we are NOT suited for that ...God help the human race


7/3/2005 6:05:10 PM
4 July 1969 I returned from VN. Each of us that have went to war have left something behind. Happy 4th to you all.


7/1/2005 11:51:46 AM
I have been without a computer of and on for several weeks now. "They" tell me that it is dead. Sooooooooooooooo
I have been shopping. For those of you that I owe messages to I appologize and will do my best to get caught up.

6/7/2005 9:10:23 PM
I find people amazing and not always in a positive way .... people who do not read the message sent them...others that take an inital message to mean you want to bed them..... and then they bitch about how they are miss treated by ... God who knows who....... whatever happened to people getting to know each other as people ... shaking head here .......... the book "The Women's Room" shares the theme that women bitch about their husbands are SOBs but than the woman raise their son's to be the same way


9/9/2004 3:18:11 PM
The birthday has passed
The weather is beautiful
life moves on
I have had more expereneces here where people "assume" becuase I contact them that I want to be there Dom. How would I know. I do not know them. I have had further experence with people who says ya let's me freinds than they disdappear. It hurts. However bettter to see these people for what they are so soon .... as my profile says I am looking for an honorable woman



9/5/2004 9:15:38 AM
Tomorrow 9/6 is my birthday.
It also marks the begining of lots of loss in my life ....... I last had a physical relations a year ago last March ...... My torture bag is high up in my closet .... I see no time that it will come down except at some point to take it to a munch and give it away ........... I have no idea why I stay on this site .... I have gotten a couple of sweet posts ... mostly from Dommes .... they can be so sweet ......... last year I took myself to San Fransico for some herb clases and an herb conference .... this yea...I will spend it alone in my bedroom reading... ya I am down in the pits ... so be it


8/23/2004 12:41:30 PM
I find this all so frustrating !!!!!!!!!!!!

I post people with no other intention that wanting to get to know people ... my profile is clear that in addition to finding the "one" I am looking for friends. What do I get back?

In most cases nothing. Very bad manners folks but that should tell me something.

Some post back that for one reason or another they are not interested in me as a Dom. Your loss but no where in my post do I bring up being your Dom.

I am an intelligent ( sometimes put foot in mouth) experenced Dom that has many nilla interests who would like ot have additional freinds in the lifestyle.

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