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So I'm gonna rant here a little bit.
Do people not realize that in order to have a D/S relationship you have to build an actual relationship, and trust one another.
Not just say "You're submissive. I'm dominant. Let me tie you up and smack you with my dick" or something and just go with it.
A Dom/Sub relationship is SOLELY based upon trust. The gift of submission is earned by a Dom. Just as respect is earned from a Sub.
You cant expect someone to want to be your slave after one conversation, or even one day for that matter. and if you do, then there's something wrong.
As someone who has been the victim of rape, abusive relationships, and lies, the power of trust is a strong thing, and MUST be earned before entering ANY sort of dom/sub relationship.
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