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| Hello, and thanks for reading my profile.
I promise I am not a jaded cynic, but here's my disclaimer for those of you who would like to send me a message: If you do not live in or very, very near Seattle, I will *NOT* respond. If you do not use proper spelling, punctuation, and grammar, I will *NOT* respond. If you are married/attached and I am not allowed to meet your S.O. I will *NOT* respond. If you do not have anything interesting written in your profile, I will *NOT* respond (unless you are really hot, just kidding). If you ask me to write something sexy (clearly so that you can jerk off to it), I will *NOT* respond. Thanks for playing.
I have been into all this kinky stuff for less than one year, but I have jumped in pretty whole-heartedly. I wish I could hang out at the CSPC more but I work most evenings. I do most of my playing there, and virtually all of my playing with new partners there.
I have an awesome primary partner of two amazing years so far (still trying to get him around to creating a profile). Any outside relationships are relatively casual, but of course safe, sane, and consensual.
My first and forever true love is and will always be sex. I could have sex three times a day every day of my life forever. It doesn't have to be kinky, but I do love to explore.
I am on here to befriend all sorts of kinky people and to discuss the lifestyle with other kinksters, but I'm looking to play with male Doms and male subs. I am a complete and total Switch. Let me just say that I am far more interested in mental D/s than physical S/M (although I can be a bit sadistic while topping).
I am somewhere in between "Just in the Bedroom" and "24/7." The extent to which I lean one way or the other depends on a lot of factors like the dynamics of a given relationship, my mood, my partner(s)' mood(s), practicality, etc.
As a sub/bottom, I really love being held down. I also enjoy D/s for set periods of time, leashing, and tickling. Being tied up is cool if it doesn't take forever. i will tend to struggle. I am not a masochist and I do not enjoy being humiliated. I'm not into age play, but I am strongly attracted to the Daddy/girl dynamic and would like to explore it more. I think of myself as an "adult girl" who sometimes needs the guiding hand (and throbbing cock) of a kind, caring "Daddy." I have had "Daddy" sex fantasies for as long as I can remember. So far that is still pretty much the best way to make my pussy wet. Just tell me I'm a good girl... please...
As a Domme/Top, I enjoy bossing men around (nicely), leashing, and orgasm control. I am particularly drawn to exhibitionism while topping. I really like whacking the hell out of a sub while he's masturbating, especially if he's blindfolded, or if he's watching someone else have sex. I'm the kind of Domme who usually says "please" when giving an order and I love rewarding good behavior with lots of attention and affection. I do not enjoy feminizing my male bottoms; I've been known to make them do push-ups, lift heavy objects, fix broken appliances, or otherwise display their masculinity in various ways. I'm not drawn to humiliation play, but I might be willing to try it for a sub who wanted it. What any given individual finds humiliating is totally subjective. So I basically what I mean by humiliation play is whatever my sub finds humiliating.
OK, on to my non-kinky self:
I love Lindy Hop. That is my art form and a huge part of how I define myself. Most people have never heard of Lindy Hop. If you give a shit, you can check out www.savoystyle.com. Or if you'd like to meet me in person, you can spend hours listening to me talk about how amazingly fucking cool it is.
I'm not very moody, pretty even keel and happy most of the time. I'm extroverted, outgoing, and sometimes even loud. I simply adore dirty jokes. I love foul language because no substitutes feel as good. I seem to be somewhat charismatic. Not everyone likes me, but pretty much everyone pays attention to me.
I am atheist and pretty strongly anti-religion. My atheism is a result of logic, reason, and evidence. I am not simply mad at God. People often ask me what personally traumatic experience(s) I've had with religion or in life that I could possibly reject the notion of a "higher power." It's not like that. I just don't believe in things I can't see, hear, smell, taste, or feel, and for which there is not currently any real scientific evidence (the Bible does NOT count... don't get me started). I don't believe in God just like I don't believe in leprechauns. I don't believe in an afterlife, either. Or "chakras" or "the universal spirit" or even "karma." "Spirituality" is an imaginary friend for grown-ups! If you give a shit, you can visit www.whywontgodhealamputees.com
I am a computer/gadget idiot. I finally just got my first computer a few months ago; it's a hand-me-down from my brother-in-law and I have no idea how it works. Also, I don't really like games that much. Therefore...
Alas, I don't qualify as a "geek," which seems to be a desirable trait these days. I do love Star Trek, though. And I like to seek extensive knowledge about non-mainstream topics of interest like jazz and history, which is somewhat geeky in my opinion. And I do enjoy the company of geeks. Most of my friends are actually techie gamers. I guess I'm just looking for someone to hang out with while they're all busy playing Settlers of Catan and Puerto Rico.
Believe it or not, I am actually attracted to respectful, sensitive, feminist guys. I don't do "bad boys." You will not attract me by ignoring me or treating me like crap (even if you are a dom). Seriously, leave your "game" at home, please, and just try to keep it real if you'd like to see me naked.
I REALLY love being a girly girl, and I like masculine qualities in a potential partner, BUT I hate mandatory gender roles. I am gay-friendly, pro-choice, feminist, and a strong advocate of sexual freedom. There should be a big bucket of free condoms on every street corner on earth (and also in the remote places that don't have streets).
So far I am not much of a career gal, but I pay all my own bills quite easily by getting people drunk for money, which I usually enjoy. I attended a large state university for three years, majored in Music Education, and dropped out after I had some actual teaching experience and hated it.
I am really good at Lindy Hop, communication/language, oral sex, remembering details, singing, capturing the attention of everyone in the room, offending conservative-types, honoring my commitments.
I don't have much need for privacy. My life is an open book, and I strive for transparency, so you can ask me just about anything (if I don't tell you all about it first). Just don't ask me my bra size because I hate that question, and I get it a LOT from random douche bags and first dates.
Humor is life; life is humor. Please keep me laughing!
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Goddamn, this site is full of wankers. |
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I just got rejected by a potential sex partner I was really excited about because his primary is not OK with the fact that I have Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1, aka "The Cold Sore Virus." According to the CDC (http://www.cdc.gov/std/research/2006/xu-jama-2006-296-8.htm), as of 2004 about 58% of the total U.S. population ages 14-49 were infected with HSV-1, though the majority were completely asymptomatic. I've never had symptoms, but a recent blood test was positive. My mother has had fairly frequent cold sore outbreaks since her childhood, so there is a good chance that she transmitted it to me at some point while I was growing up by drinking out of the same water glass or kissing. Or I could have gotten it from one of my schoolmates as a child, or from one of my many sex partners over the years. I have no way of knowing. In fact, I don't even know for sure whether it is an oral infection or a genital infection. Type 1 prefers the mouth, but according the CDC, HSV-1 genital infections are currently on the rise, accounting for about half of all new genital herpes infections. Genital HSV-1 infections are usually completely asymptomatic, without ever causing a single outbreak.
I told this potential sex partner to urge his girlfriend to get tested for HSV-1. There is a good chance that she already has it and doesn't know it. Doctors almost never test for it unless specifically asked to, even if you say, "Test me for every single STD."
But here is the real point of this long rant:
If it turns out she does already have HSV-1, I would not be surprised if she comes up with some other reason why he's not allowed to fuck me, anyway.
I realize that this is a serious accusation, and I've never even met her. I could be wrong. But I am especially suspicious for the following reason: She herself does not identify is poly, swinger, or nonmonogamous in any way. She is simply "permissive," meaning that she (in theory) allows him to have outside partners.
So far in "the lifestlye" I have met many men who were interested in playing with me whose S.O.'s were monogamous, vanilla, and not interested in meeting me. I have decided that this is often a recipe for drama. If there is not the incentive there for both members of a primary partnership to find secondary playmates, it's always going to be an imbalance of power. I myself am actually prone to jealousy, but I own my own feelings, and the fact that I want to play around with other people besides my primary more-or-less forces me to deal with my jealous feelings instead of just forbidding everything that makes me jealous.
Any thoughts, comments, words of encouragement? |
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Just had the best quickie morning sex with Daddy. He said he was still sleeping, but all I had to do was put his hand over my throat and grind my ass all over his crotch. We don't usually do much choking (aside from his cock down my throat, hehehe), but I guess we were both in the mood for it. It was so intense I was *almost* in tears. He came pretty quickly (fine by me as I get sore really easily), and then of course, he was happy to finish me off with a little licky-licky, which didn't take long at all with the state I was in (not to mention that he is the best pussy licker I've ever had, and I've had a LOT). Poor Daddy collapsed and fell back asleep instantly, which I don't mind because I had one of the most intense orgasms of my life and I know he loves the fuck out of me, so to speak. Happy girl now! |
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Hello, everyone on CM! I have just joined and I would love to receive messages from anyone who is LOCAL, intelligent, honest, and safe, sane, and consensual. I'll probably respond! |
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| Age: 20 |
| Lampasas,
Texas |
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