I have always been enamored by the role of power in human relationships. It's a delicate thing, and is present in every relationship you have, be it family, coworkers, friends, or lovers. It's a fascinating thing to study in people. Particularly because it very rarely manifests in equality, no matter how much people may want to think it does. Every day I see women playing the role they think is theirs: be submissive and meek, let the man be dominant and in control. Even those girls who play the high and mighty card, often as not, ultimately want to be owned by their man. I grew up observing this and decided early on that that was not going to fly.
I am an independent, free-thinking, logical person and I don't like being out of control. I strive for control in every aspect of my life, and as human relationships are the hardest to control, that has become my fascination. The dynamic between lovers is the most delicate. For someone like me, the only way to assert my control with a lover is to be dominant. Sure, we all have a bit of the other side in us, and periodic release of control can be intoxicating, but my personality requires a higher percentage of dominance.
As I'm hoping you've figured out by now, this means I am not a fetishist. I will not listen to your desires of golden showers, diapers, scat, or anything of the sort. If I see it in a message I will not respond. I am turned on by power play. This often involves pain as punishment or amusement. I personally have a very high tolerance for pain, and thus enjoy inflicting pain on others and observing their reactions. If you impress me (hard to do), you will be rewarded. Obedience and worship is a given. I am still a woman after all, and we all want to be worshiped.
As a general rule, I like to have control. I like to control your free time, your exercise, your masturbation, your cumming during sex, your interaction with other women, etc. Every woman wants to control their lover after a certain point, I am just more upfront about it.
I consider myself straight, but I do like the idea of involving multiple people in my sex life. Male or female. I can appreciate the female body, and the power in dominating another woman is exciting. I like the idea of giving permission to my man to fuck someone else. The sex can be so much more dynamic with three people.
Regardless, I am open to discussion. I want to broaden my knowledge of the lifestyle, as well as find worthy people of being used. I am ever an intellectual hoping to learn more about power and control. I am also financially secure, so tribute is not necessary. If you are interested in sharing your experiences or becoming part of mine, send me a message with "Lightning Strike" as the first line.
