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BDSM can and does take many forms in real life. I am going to explain what it means to me as the Dominant or Master.
I consider myself to be a Dominant and view my attributes as gentle yet firm.
Rules. The first is one is KISS (keep it simple, stupid). I have very few rules, but they will be discussed and accepted as is or modified to fit the needs of a particular submissive/slave. Then they will be enforced.
This is how I see myself.
As both a man and a Dominant, I understand that words such as integrity, character, honesty, fairness and consistency represent concepts that are apparent throughout all areas of my life. They are not mere words to be used and applied selectively when they may be to my advantage. This sums up how I try to live my life and interact with all others, even those that are ‘vanilla’.
I understand and you must accept the fact that I am not perfect. I accept my flaws as an individual, I have come to terms with them, and determined how best to control and deal with them effectively. (except smoking and I am still battling that one LOL)
I have come to realize that "proof" of my Dominance does not come from you who has chosen to call me "Master", but rather from within myself, by dint of my personality, my ethics, standards, and values, combined with my needs/wants both in the sexual aspect of the relationship and in the day to day life style. We will discuss your needs, wants AND limits. As time pass EXPECT me to push limits.
Life experience has taught me the importance of trust and respect in any relationship, and I recognize that a woman will only be able to submit to a man with character, making him/me worthy of her trust and respect. I will WORK at earning and maintaining that trust and respect.
I understand and accept that before expecting a submissive to give over control of herself and her life, I must first have complete control over myself, and my life.
I understand that the value of your submission will not only be based in the level of your submissiveness to me, but also in yourself, as an individual: the whole person. You will be intelligent, have a mind of your own and will be eager to use all your abilities to our mutual advantage.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a woman who is submissive for one on one sex. One who likes to play, can carry on a conversation when not engaged in playing. Age is not that important to me. Appearance also is not a big issue. Personality, charm, humor and, of course, a healthy interest in sex are more important. If she were also bi and interested in a threesome or more that would be a definite plus but not a requirement.
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