There are a lot of female profiles on here that basically can be reduced to:
"Here I am. Write me a long message letting me know that I'm special and you aren't sending generic messages to thousands of women a day."
That's fine to want that, but most of the time there's nothing particularly special about you that can be discerned from a vague profile and a few pics. You only become special after getting to know you, what kind of person you are, how you react in different situations... The whole enchilada.
Instead, the only thing I have to focus on is the pic of your boobs or ass, and a list of interests, along with some basic biographical information.
This makes my greeting likely to be: "Hey, nice tits." or "I like dildos too!!!". Not really, but that's what's going through my head. Because there's nothing else in your profile to latch on to.
So, try to think really hard about what makes you unique in your profile. |