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~Right off the bat I should probably mention that, for personal reasons, I'm not looking for anything more than people to talk to and get to know. This situation will change in a few months, and if we happen to be talking when it does and hit it off then well, who knows. Please just respect this fact if you decide to message me.~ Anyway! On to the more important stuff: I am an affectionate creature by nature; I like to cuddle, hold hands, walk arm in arm down the street. Casual touching is something I do with close friends without me even realizing it. This in turn makes me more of a romantic than I would really like to admit, but there you have it. I need to be wooed, I need you to let me woo you in order for this to work. I need you to let me learn what you like and what you live for, and I need you to see me as an individual first before you may ever see me as a potential 'pet.' I'm also pretty shy, though just by looking at me in any social setting you would never know. I rarely make the first move in any situation, unless I'm super intrigued. Which means you may never get a message from me. Guess I'm just afraid of rejection. In a social atmosphere, however, I'm usually the person laughing and talking the loudest (or all right, I can be just a loud person in general), and usually made to take on a leader role merely because my voice and my persona can be so big. But usually I just want to be at home reading a favorite book. Unless I'm in a mosh pit. Sometimes I feel the most alive when I'm stuck in the middle of a mob who is stuck right along with me. (Bet that came right out of nowhere) As for the lifestyle, I still have very little in the way of experience. Though I've had this profile for awhile now, and I've managed to talk to people and make new friends, I've had to put my search on hold for various reasons several times. At one point I thought maybe that this life wasn't really for me, but I know now that this is something that I need in order to reach my full potential. I'm just searching for the right person to guide me and help me reach that potential, and who won't get annoyed when I ask stupid questions. Also, I should mention that I have no interesting in being dominated over the internet. I need physical contact, face to face interactions. Otherwise it just doesn't seem real to me. And, let's be honest; I tried the whole cyber thing when I was 13, and all it did was make me giggle. Still does really. Though I do understand that in this day and age the internet will play a crucial role in most relationships, especially in the 'getting to know you' process. Just please don't expect it to be a purely online relationship. Other than all that, I'm a college student (I feel like I've been one forever) working towards a very complicated goal. I love to read, listen to music, play video games and laugh. Talk to me about any three of those topics and we're set. Make me laugh and you'll get special brownie points. Tell me the stupidest pun you know, because my life truly is one big pun, and I'll probably be hooked.
6/7/2012 8:51:29 AM

Someone else I was talking to has told me that I don't belong here. Or at least not yet anyway. Simply because I told them I was still trying to figure myself out. Because I still wanted to learn.

 

Honestly people! I'm only 23, of course I'm still figuring myself out. I don't know of anyone who knew themselves entirely at the age of 23. And if I can't help myself figure out who I am, around other people with like interests, who else am I supposed to turn to? Plus life in general is all about learning. Who are you to criticize my want of knowledge about how the world/life works?

 

I feel like some Dom/Dommes take themselves way to seriously. It's ok to laugh a little you know!

5/21/2012 3:51:26 AM

It's so interesting to me what people list under their 'Lives for' and 'Hard Limit' interests. I'm not entirely sure why.

3/23/2012 6:08:55 AM

I've been asked several times why I haven't listed any of my lifestyle interests on the side. Is it weird that I want those interests to remain even slightly private? For me, it's not everybody's business what I like to do in the bedroom, sheesh, if it was I would be an exhibitionist. And I'm not sure I like it that a lot of Doms/Dommes expect it to be their business. At least right off the bat anyways.

Wait, does this make me a bad sub? Sometimes I'm not entirely sure anymore.

3/4/2012 4:37:54 AM

Why does it seem like almost every young female Domme is either:

A: A financial Domme

B: Flicking off the camera

C: A 'Princess'

 

Does that mean Doms are 'Princes'? I don't think I've ever seen one refer to himself as such. Sometimes this lifestyle is weird. Whoops.

10/24/2010 12:07:49 PM

If you don't like horror movies, then I just don't know how we're going to get along...

10/21/2010 9:18:58 PM

Be an Optimist Prime and not a Negatron.


Yes, my life is one big pun.

8/29/2010 9:49:42 AM

For a good time call: 00110101 00110101 00110101 00110000 00110001 00110010 00110010

8/1/2010 12:09:08 AM
I'm not gonna Raichu a love song.
7/9/2010 6:30:50 PM

Use your language to your advantage. Well thought out and provocative language turn me on more than most other things.

/tip

3/13/2010 10:10:05 PM
I never really have understood all the naked pictures on here, or the pictures that some men send me of their cocks. Yes, you're very pretty, and that's some nice bondage there. But you're really taking the fun out of it for me. I would have liked to discover that on my own.
Hmm call me old fashioned I guess.
2/9/2010 6:15:34 AM
I'll admit that I'm easily seduced by my curiosity, my thirst for knowledge. And recently I've been told that I don't really belong here yet, because above all I want to learn. So perhaps I should just say for now that I'm not actively seeking anything more serious than friends. That's the best I can do, as I absolutely refuse to apologize for my curiosity. Though I am sorry if I seemed to lead anyone on.
2/4/2010 8:10:12 PM
I think I've been looking for love in Alderaan places.
5/5/2009 9:55:04 AM
While wondering around this place I discovered I can block people's messages (I just realized how slow I am in discovering this haha). I will never block anyone, as I absolutely love making new friends, but if I were to start anything with anyone, I would prefer it to be someone near my age (no more than 5 years maybe). But my friendship is one size fits all, so if you send me a message just to talk, I'll most likely reply.
youllbepleased
 
 Age: 22
 Los Angeles, California